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Yeah man it kinda sounds like she's already looking at other parties for herself. This was touched upon on the Black Phillip Show.


I don't think anyone would suggest "being more open" unless they already had an idea of whom they wanted to be open with

I know NT drove you (Don a) to do some rash stuff last time you took advice but kingdom has a point...


I mean do you and you know her better than we do but be careful and almost expect ger to do more damage in the streets than you...do t rely on you thinking shes not going to do much....
Ive never met a bi (male or female) that wasnt super sxually active...i mean thats the reason theyre bi anyway. To dip in the honey pot of both sexes
 
I don't think a woman (especially a young, relatively inexperienced one) is going to suggest something "open" unless someone else made her smile like you used to. Not really unsalvageable, just a rough patch made even tougher with distance. Time and space can be a helpful tool for growth if used properly. Whatever the end result, if it's real, ya'll have to end up in the same city in the near future.

Plus ya'll are in a great position of mutual understanding, not a lot get that privilege.
 
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Okay so i was at this conference this weekend and man there were some beautiful chicks.
I got ones saturday night and hit her up later and she never responded to my call :lol: then the next day she was ignoring me so i was like whatever, didnt relle like her jus wanted some quick action

But brahs i found this other chick, she was so special and different. Head on straight cute lil thang. So i chat with her sat and sunday. Then on sunday when im leaving she sitting near someone else i know so i go up to him and tell him im leaving and get his contact info, then i go up to her and tell her ima leave since i got a long drive back to LA and im like lemme get ur number so we can stay in touch, she smiles/smirks at me and says ill give you my email i respond quicker to that. So im like alonzo.gif.
When i get home around 1am i email her just saying hi. And she responds like exactly two minutes later saying hey! ill save ur email.

What should i do next TAY brahs??
 
Okay so i was at this conference this weekend and man there were some beautiful chicks.
I got ones saturday night and hit her up later and she never responded to my call :lol: then the next day she was ignoring me so i was like whatever, didnt relle like her jus wanted some quick action

But brahs i found this other chick, she was so special and different. Head on straight cute lil thang. So i chat with her sat and sunday. Then on sunday when im leaving she sitting near someone else i know so i go up to him and tell him im leaving and get his contact info, then i go up to her and tell her ima leave since i got a long drive back to LA and im like lemme get ur number so we can stay in touch, she smiles/smirks at me and says ill give you my email i respond quicker to that. So im like alonzo.gif.
When i get home around 1am i email her just saying hi. And she responds like exactly two minutes later saying hey! ill save ur email.

What should i do next TAY brahs??

Where she live?
 
No. Don't even mess with that unless she's coming to LA.

yeah i know fam im not tryna have a ridiculous long distance relationship. i just wanna keep in touch with her for now so just in case she coming down here or im coming up there i can hit her up to hang and it wont be completely random, but idk how to go about that
 
yeah i know fam im not tryna have a ridiculous long distance relationship. i just wanna keep in touch with her for now so just in case she coming down here or im coming up there i can hit her up to hang and it wont be completely random, but idk how to go about that

"Since ur in the bay, when are you making this trip down here to bless the gawd?"

There. Easy as that.
 
Touch base w/ random snap chats.

That's what I do with strags that live too far.

Doesn't waste time texting, plus if she gains weight or becomes busted...you'll know lol
 
She's really not like that at all. I know her well enough and we have enough mutualy respect where that wouldn't happen. We're both understanding people and we both agreed early on that if either one of us wanted out just say the word.

Anyway whether or not there's a girl she's been scheming on is irrelevant in this case because she doesn't like dating girls, only smashing them.

I understand NT has horror story on horror story about women but I really don't mess with aint ish people on this level.

View media item 1490037Lmao yall been together for 6-7 months now right ?
 
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yeah i know fam im not tryna have a ridiculous long distance relationship. i just wanna keep in touch with her for now so just in case she coming down here or im coming up there i can hit her up to hang and it wont be completely random, but idk how to go about that

"Since ur in the bay, when are you making this trip down here to bless the gawd?"

There. Easy as that.
Thnks but ima hit her with

Great! Lets keep in touch and whenever u come down here let me know.

Also add me on snapchat



Touch base w/ random snap chats.

That's what I do with strags that live too far.

Doesn't waste time texting, plus if she gains weight or becomes busted...you'll know lol

Yep thats what ima email her
 
Im not tryna just smash her, just tryna keep in touch so whenever she does come down or i head up there i can hit her up and shell remember me.

Just so when i head up there i got someone on the roster
 
Coromanti Coromanti
Trust your gut homie..
No one in here can tell you about your girl or the dynamics of your relationship.
Only thing I see wrong is you didn't set boundaries with her from jump. Never compromise what makes you who you are. If you are not about the "side *****", " open relationship" life, then you should have spoke earlier about this subject and how it doesn't jive with your lifestyle.
Only thing you can do now is hit her with that work, step back, let the situation breathe and enjoy your youth.
She is not your wife, you owe her nothing but conversation and hard ****.
Red or Blue pill brethren..
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Im not tryna just smash her, just tryna keep in touch so whenever she does come down or i head up there i can hit her up and shell remember me.

Just so when i head up there i got someone on the roster

Makes no sense doe. U gotta improve this game of urs lil fella.
Ino brah.
Idk im just tryna keep her on the backburner if you know what i mean?
not a penpal or a long distance thing.
Just so that if shes coming here shell remeber me n hit me up
 
 
She's really not like that at all. I know her well enough and we have enough mutualy respect where that wouldn't happen. We're both understanding people and we both agreed early on that if either one of us wanted out just say the word.

Anyway whether or not there's a girl she's been scheming on is irrelevant in this case because she doesn't like dating girls, only smashing them.

I understand NT has horror story on horror story about women but I really don't mess with aint ish people on this level.

Lmao yall been together for 6-7 months now right ?
Yep. 7. She finds the strain to be tiring. She wants me but LDR too much for her and the feeling is mutual. Though she hasn't said it I'm expecting this to go from open relationship to FWB. I mean we have pretty good bedroom chemistry so I don't think she'd ever fully close that door unless she got in a serious relationship. It's pretty cool we're really good friends so I'm not worried too much about the outcome.
@Don Adidada
Trust your gut homie..
No one in here can tell you about your girl or the dynamics of your relationship.
Only thing I see wrong is you didn't set boundaries with her from jump. Never compromise what makes you who you are. If you are not about the "side *****", " open relationship" life, then you should have spoke earlier about this subject and how it doesn't jive with your lifestyle.
Only thing you can do now is hit her with that work, step back, let the situation breathe and enjoy your youth.
She is not your wife, you owe her nothing but conversation and hard ****.
Red or Blue pill brethren..
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Appreciate it. Im actually for it. I enjoy her company and we have that relationship where we can still be cool if we split amicably.

I'm honestly not terribly worried.

In other news...I'm going to my first "munch."  I guess it's in-culture slang for a kinky/bdsm meet up this friday. Kinda hype to see what happens.

I hope they're nice. 
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Makes no sense doe. U gotta improve this game of urs lil fella.

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Omar da lil fella.
I like the sound of that.
 
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