I think my aunt told me its ok to cheat on my gf?
Last night we were talking about relationships and she says to me that unless I'm absolutely 100% sure she's the one, there is nothing wrong with having her down in PA and visiting once a month or so while still talking to girls in NY.
Am I bugging or should I roll with her advice? (She's like 70 btw)
It just seems weird to hear that from a woman.
There is never a reason to cheat on anybody.
If you are in your early 20's, don't get involved with anybody and enjoy life.
The other alternative is to have an open relationship but let it be known from the jump and don't get mad if other dudes are in them guts. Play the game right.
The thing about "cheating" or doing any dirt period is that things come to the light and the choice you make/made can indirectly/directly hurt not only your personal growth and development but the other person as well.
This is why the dating of this generation is a cesspool because people want to lie and kick it and are truly scared of commitment because of the things we saw from our parents/what people have done to us.
This long solique is to say, be honest and talk to these women. Protect your body, stop going out here "raw dogging" and then want to post non-sense:
"But but I'm scared, she missed her period."
"But But I'm a good guy, why can't I meet a nice woman"
Negus because you play the game wrong and the energy you are putting out is coming back to you.
You can't want change but then backdoor and do the same damn thing the next day or on the weekend.
That's called insanity.
It's all about taking responsibility not only as a man, but for your body and future. You don't have to be a hermit, monk, square or whatever but you definately don't have to lie to kick it.
OG advice is just that( especially mines)..
Some is good and viable, while others are outdated, dangerous or can have you out here assed out. Trust you and your gut and just be honest if you are not feeling a person anymore or you want to explore different options in a relationship.
No two paths are the same.
Take care and be intune with your star player and everything else will just flow.
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