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Cool cool I'm going to have to check the spot whenever I want some boil seafood.
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Chasing tail in rosslyn had all asian chick servers and like 3 white servers. Legit place i think i paid 35 for 4 beers mussels and crawfish
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Here's the breakdown, fambs. My homie that I work with is going through some **** with his girl. She's talking to her ex, blah blah blah. Half the time he's up at night down because he as zero clue where she is or who she's with. That has me wondering like damn that could be anyone, or even me. Now I'm sitting here in class, or at work, or at the crib like what if my lady was like that? What if she's not where she says she is or with someone I don't know about? I'm trying to help this man, but I'm one of those people that sit and dwell on things when I shouldn't. Any advice out there? *flashes mugen signal in the sky*
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Dude might as well cut ties, she's still seeing the ex, no doubt about that. Or she's "running into him" conveniently in public places often.
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Dang, gone for the weekend for work and missed out on some good words in here!
Henn, Drop that PM on ya boiii...
How did it go? I could not find the post .
Henn, Drop that PM on ya boiii...
How did it go? I could not find the post .
Dude has huge red flags. The only advice I would give is to ask him if she is worth his sanity and not being able to get a good nights sleep.
For me, no woman is worth sleepless nights.
No reason to talk to an ex like that unless they are tied in some way like financially, kids, or something.
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It's already lost when it gets to this point.
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No reason why your lady should be somewhere and you don't know where on a consistent basis. I don't care how much "trust" there is .
Dude is allowing him self to get played like that. Gave ol' girl too much freedom and she ran with it. Its something you live and learn.
He needs to address it and if she doesn't come correct end it because nothing about that situation seems right.
Dude is allowing him self to get played like that. Gave ol' girl too much freedom and she ran with it. Its something you live and learn.
He needs to address it and if she doesn't come correct end it because nothing about that situation seems right.
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Also, I miss my girl crazy like during the work/school day.
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So this is where I'm at right now. Stuck on what to say/do next. What y'all think? Remember she hasn't mentioned anything about a kid and I am quite certain she is not in school herself any more. She already has her masters.
Right before this I had asked how her weekend with her friends was and she said, "It was... Drunk LOL"
Ideally Saturday night is perfect for me. I'd like to ask her out then. Think that I need to just let this be and leave the ball in her court now though.
If the DC crew is around we should pregame then go out Saturday. My roommates gonna be gone for the weekend.
Right before this I had asked how her weekend with her friends was and she said, "It was... Drunk LOL"
Ideally Saturday night is perfect for me. I'd like to ask her out then. Think that I need to just let this be and leave the ball in her court now though.
If the DC crew is around we should pregame then go out Saturday. My roommates gonna be gone for the weekend.
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I know this thread isn't for exes but I need that Mugen and OG wisdom right now.
We were together for about 7 years.
We didn't talk for about a year.
Randomly starting talking around Father's Day but realized it was pointless.
We never officially broke up before so this time there was closure on her end.
I've been okay since then and randomly she called me last week. She did it again a few days later. Obviously I didn't pick up.
And then today she hits me with this.
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We were together for about 7 years.
We didn't talk for about a year.
Randomly starting talking around Father's Day but realized it was pointless.
We never officially broke up before so this time there was closure on her end.
I've been okay since then and randomly she called me last week. She did it again a few days later. Obviously I didn't pick up.
And then today she hits me with this.
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And you wanna go running to her to see what's wrong huh...
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Is it that obvious? Lol i don't but at the same time i do.
But my reasoning for not wanting to is different from what it seems. The reason I don't want to do it cause I know at the end she wants me and makes me feel good. But I know that's wrong. I do love her don't get me wrong and I always will. But it's this ego in me. When I would give advice to some of these young cats I tell them the worst advice ever:
Just remember, they always come back...
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My man deleted all his simp texts and showed us only her part. 
. Don't worry yourself over shorty. Move on to better things
. Don't worry yourself over shorty. Move on to better things
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My man deleted all his simp texts and showed us only her part.
Lmaoo dude I swear I didn't delete anything. It was exactly like that.
She knows it and I know it, that I'm probably going to hit her up sooner or later. But this time I really need to think about it. If it wasn't for the emotions I would've hit her up, lay down the pipe cause we all know that's what she really wants and keep it moving. But I can't. I love her, I miss her, and I want to be with her.
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cool cool. Text me man.I just told that chick "Hmu when you're good" My old head telling me it's a good sign that she is hinting at the kid with the school is starting stuff and just be patient I'll get a second date.
We can legit go hunting for new prospects this Saturday since first time we went out you were with
tdogg2k
's girl, and second time I was with the intern. We about to flourish now. Intern yambs out, college yambs back. Gotta love DC.
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Any girl who mentions what you did to her in the past is
A. Still hurt
B. Wants to hurt you back
C. Both
Doesn't sound like a great situation although 7 years is a long time.
A. Still hurt
B. Wants to hurt you back
C. Both
Doesn't sound like a great situation although 7 years is a long time.
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I know you said 7 years, but how old are both you and the girl ?
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We're the same age, she's 22 and I'm 23. Met in middle school, started dating in highschool.
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I mean, idk how she can hurt me now. Definitely not physically, but to hurt me we would start talking again. And I know I'll make it it work this time, but from what you're saying this is probably the initiation of her plan. Next thing you know we'll be married, and have a child. 18 years later, she's going to tell me that child is not mine.
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Wait who left who, and why did ya'll seperate? I can't tell. But basically 22? **** don't need to be that heavy.
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Dawg it's supreme season...you need to move on
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