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We need a yambz summit in NYC this weekend bros
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I'm down
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Lengthy phone calls? Nah b.
I think it's cool to call a female when you have definite things to tell her or have a legitimate question.
If I'm gonna have a long convo with a female then it better be in a face-to-face setting. Facetime doesn't count lol.
I think it's cool to call a female when you have definite things to tell her or have a legitimate question.
If I'm gonna have a long convo with a female then it better be in a face-to-face setting. Facetime doesn't count lol.
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I think it means she wishes she found you first to have a good steady relationship with instead of doing all her hoaring and guzzling and THEN finding you.
Yup. She did a bunch of stuff that lead to nothing and meant nothing. I hear this from time to time.
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I think it's all really a matter of location also.
I did the video chat because im a little over an hour away and we have opposite schedules..
yea face to face is always nice. but hell this is the future (which I'm still learning) and the facetime/ skype/ video chat. is just as good as any outlet for conversation.
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Means she knows she's too far gone, not yet back on the recovery road. I wouldn't fall for her yet. I say "yet" because if you dig her, who knows how far she is in her growth, doesn't necessarily mean drop her. And make that call fellas, set yourself apart. Texting is only for short convos. Took a few L's trying to have lenghty convos in text. You can't convey tone, inflection, humor, none of that properly. Like certain jokes won't come off right if it's not said in your manly voice. And even though it may just be one sentence that takes you 2 seconds to verbally express, when it's compressed in that small box on your screen over and over it starts to look needy and a little nuts. Email or IM on a computer if you want to say a bit more, but calling is best for more than a few words if you can't be there in person.
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you guys are probably right, we've argued before about her bringing her past into her present (says she's been done dirty etc etc)
not too long ago I distanced myself from her although we're still cool, time will heal her wounds better than I can
not too long ago I distanced myself from her although we're still cool, time will heal her wounds better than I can
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@ElderWatsonDiggs Did u ever tell ur G code story?
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Don't know if anybody is into Banksy in here but this seemed appropriate of how today's communication with love or just yambs go...
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Don't know if anybody is into Banksy in here but this seemed appropriate of how today's communication with love or just yambs go...
HUGE Banksy fan... Haven't seen that piece before.
Seen all of his Cali street art and a lot of the stuff privately owned.
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Banksy. 
NYC summit.
NYC summit.
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Banksy.
NYC summit.
Ya'll need to catchup to us out here on the west coast
BTW u should edit that post u just made in cbball thread... Don't want ya to get banned my dude.
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Good looking fam edited that.
But yea I've said for a while all NYC brethren need to link.
I'm making my way out west late summer though, I need to see what those LA yambs are like.
But yea I've said for a while all NYC brethren need to link.
I'm making my way out west late summer though, I need to see what those LA yambs are like.
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Good looking fam edited that.
But yea I've said for a while all NYC brethren need to link.
I'm making my way out west late summer though, I need to see what those LA yambs are like.
Got u coach.
Funny u posted that in the CBB thread, he says the line like that in EVERYTHING. Was watching 25th Hour last night and dude comes on and says it just like in The Wire lmao.
Augustish?? Pool season brah
Staying in LA?
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Got u coach.
Funny u posted that in the CBB thread, he says the line like that in EVERYTHING. Was watching 25th Hour last night and dude comes on and says it just like in The Wire lmao.
Augustish?? Pool season brah
Staying in LA?
He really does though.
Yea staying in LA, me and my homie want to rent a dope house that's relatively close to the action.
What area would you recommend?
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NT bros I need your help. I'll try to make this quick...
My old college roommate is in town on business for a few days. I met him after work today for drinks and dinner. Half way through dinner I look up and see the girl I went on tinder date with working at the restaurant. I had no idea she worked here but she did mention where he worked on our date. I'm thinking great she prolly think I'm a stalker but what can I do but play it cool? Crazy coincidence. She looked like she was busy getting trained but we saw each other. As I'm leaving I walk up to her and say, "*name* thought that was you. My friends in town for business he's staying a couple blocks down the street from here at the *hotel name*." She then grabs my arm and says, "sorry i can't talk now text me later." This was right by entrance/hostess table and she had someone following her everywhere looking to be training her.
Now I want to invite her and a friend or two to my friends hotel tomorrow night to pregame and go out. It's actually right near her campus so it's perfect. But I just need to decide what to text her back tonight without seeming like a stalker. I can't believe this happened lol. **** my pants at first but it may have been a blessing in disguise.
I'm thinking of just saying something like, "Hey sorry for bothering you at work. I remember you telling me where you worked but it didnt click haha." If she responds positively I'll invite her put tomorrow. Is that a decent opener? Man I feel so creepy this was so random. Haven't talked to her in a week since the raincheck thing.
My old college roommate is in town on business for a few days. I met him after work today for drinks and dinner. Half way through dinner I look up and see the girl I went on tinder date with working at the restaurant. I had no idea she worked here but she did mention where he worked on our date. I'm thinking great she prolly think I'm a stalker but what can I do but play it cool? Crazy coincidence. She looked like she was busy getting trained but we saw each other. As I'm leaving I walk up to her and say, "*name* thought that was you. My friends in town for business he's staying a couple blocks down the street from here at the *hotel name*." She then grabs my arm and says, "sorry i can't talk now text me later." This was right by entrance/hostess table and she had someone following her everywhere looking to be training her.
Now I want to invite her and a friend or two to my friends hotel tomorrow night to pregame and go out. It's actually right near her campus so it's perfect. But I just need to decide what to text her back tonight without seeming like a stalker. I can't believe this happened lol. **** my pants at first but it may have been a blessing in disguise.
I'm thinking of just saying something like, "Hey sorry for bothering you at work. I remember you telling me where you worked but it didnt click haha." If she responds positively I'll invite her put tomorrow. Is that a decent opener? Man I feel so creepy this was so random. Haven't talked to her in a week since the raincheck thing.
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Was at work yesterday & this cute white(or is she just a pale mexican? ) cashier starts talking to me, saying how come I never smile & she's afraid to say anything to me cuz she'll think i'll bark, so we chop it up a little and keep it pushing throughout the day w/ the witty flirty flirty comments. She mentioned she pays rent so I'm over here like "dope she has a spot we can kick it at." Already scheming like a soldier. Keep in mind tho I'm at work & we're in two different departments so I couldn't just ask for her number whenever, either w/ various levels of co workers running around too.
When I finally had my moment, shorty must've been done with her shift cuz she was gone when I finally got off, I asked another cashier if she knew her name at least(described) her & we're not 100% on if we were talking about the right one but if so..ol girl has a kid, a baby daddy and working on another.
If it is her, she was probably being nice & I assumed otherwise b/c she was like one of the only shorties at work(in another department no less) to actually approach & talk to me
Oh. And on Saturday, I asked that Asian girl from my history class what she was doing that night. She said nothing. I'm like "cool, let's kick it, nothing's really poppin off on my side too" this ***** turned her read receipts off because I called her out on reading them & not replying, then left me hanging. I hate this broad
No hanging my head down low tho, I'm over this weekend's lumps but sheeeeesh this season/year has been a lot of L's, not nearly enough wins. Hoping Summer changes that for me.
) cashier starts talking to me, saying how come I never smile & she's afraid to say anything to me cuz she'll think i'll bark, so we chop it up a little and keep it pushing throughout the day w/ the witty flirty flirty comments. She mentioned she pays rent so I'm over here like "dope she has a spot we can kick it at." Already scheming like a soldier. Keep in mind tho I'm at work & we're in two different departments so I couldn't just ask for her number whenever, either w/ various levels of co workers running around too. When I finally had my moment, shorty must've been done with her shift cuz she was gone
when I finally got off, I asked another cashier if she knew her name at least(described) her & we're not 100% on if we were talking about the right one but if so..ol girl has a kid, a baby daddy and working on another.If it is her, she was probably being nice & I assumed otherwise b/c she was like one of the only shorties at work(in another department no less) to actually approach & talk to me
Oh. And on Saturday, I asked that Asian girl from my history class what she was doing that night. She said nothing. I'm like "cool, let's kick it, nothing's really poppin off on my side too" this ***** turned her read receipts off because I called her out on reading them & not replying, then left me hanging. I hate this broad
No hanging my head down low tho, I'm over this weekend's lumps but sheeeeesh this season/year has been a lot of L's, not nearly enough wins. Hoping Summer changes that for me.
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why'd you call her out though?
makes you seem pressed, which would be okay if she reciprocated. if she wasn't responding should've just took the hint
and shuffled along to the next.
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why would you call her out on it??Was at work yesterday & this cute white(or is she just a pale mexican?) cashier starts talking to me, saying how come I never smile & she's afraid to say anything to me cuz she'll think i'll bark, so we chop it up a little and keep it pushing throughout the day w/ the witty flirty flirty comments. She mentioned she pays rent so I'm over here like "dope she has a spot we can kick it at." Already scheming like a soldier. Keep in mind tho I'm at work & we're in two different departments so I couldn't just ask for her number whenever, either w/ various levels of co workers running around too.
When I finally had my moment, shorty must've been done with her shift cuz she was gonewhen I finally got off, I asked another cashier if she knew her name at least(described) her & we're not 100% on if we were talking about the right one but if so..ol girl has a kid, a baby daddy and working on another.
If it is her, she was probably being nice & I assumed otherwise b/c she was like one of the only shorties at work(in another department no less) to actually approach & talk to me
Oh. And on Saturday, I asked that Asian girl from my history class what she was doing that night. She said nothing. I'm like "cool, let's kick it, nothing's really poppin off on my side too" this ***** turned her read receipts off because I called her out on reading them & not replying, then left me hanging. I hate this broad
No hanging my head down low tho, I'm over this weekend's lumps but sheeeeesh this season/year has been a lot of L's, not nearly enough wins. Hoping Summer changes that for me.
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TAY folks I need a little help on this one...
Been seeing this girl for about 4 weeks. The first couple of weeks were really good but lately that hasn't been the case. We don't talk/text as much. She doesn't reply like before too. She's told me she's the type who tells the guy outright if it isn't working or out she doesn't see it progressing because she doesn't want to waste each other's time. She hasn't told me that yet so I guess I'm still in. Oh and yeah, we talked about our 'status' before and we're dating, but not together.
Now, I hate the inconsistency lately, and I've been thinking if I should just bail out. During my younger, immature years I would just disappear and not give a damn but I don't want to be a jerk. I've disappeared on a couple of girls before and it wasn't a good feeling after. Besides, she's nice and is wifey-material and am really into her.
Thoughts?
Been seeing this girl for about 4 weeks. The first couple of weeks were really good but lately that hasn't been the case. We don't talk/text as much. She doesn't reply like before too. She's told me she's the type who tells the guy outright if it isn't working or out she doesn't see it progressing because she doesn't want to waste each other's time. She hasn't told me that yet so I guess I'm still in. Oh and yeah, we talked about our 'status' before and we're dating, but not together.
Now, I hate the inconsistency lately, and I've been thinking if I should just bail out. During my younger, immature years I would just disappear and not give a damn but I don't want to be a jerk. I've disappeared on a couple of girls before and it wasn't a good feeling after. Besides, she's nice and is wifey-material and am really into her.
Thoughts?
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Get her attention again. Through any medium you get with her, if you guys are sexual naturally hit it hard let her know, if u on se romance tip set up a date thru some texts if she still replies and let it be the best date do some cool things, still just do it to get her attention re sparked not to tell her you wanna wife it right now or change the status
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Someone please tell me how to get a thick white girl.
I want one now.
I want one now.
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How did ur dates go?
My intial feeling is that she found sumone else thats more interesting
Bruh me too
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