Real talk...why is the Prenup taboo?

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Welp.

To ksteezy, doesn't everyone think that when they get married? I highly doubt most of the people who get divorced got married like 'I don't trust this chick.'

I think it's somewhat of a childish attitude to be like 'I know this happens to most people, but it'll never happen to me.'

You feel that way in any other part of your life, getting a loan, driving without a seatbelt, getting a house etc. youd be a fool. I just don't understand why when it comes to marriage all common sense/adult logic, goes out the window. I really am having a hard time comprehending that.
 
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**** outta here
If I marry you, you better sign one
Don't come at me with that "oh that means you don't trust me" ****
If you don't sign it that means that you got negative intensions
 
The reason why prenup's shouldn't be taboo is because men get *** ****** in divorce court.
 
Was just discussing this with someone
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I agree. statistically, Christian marriages have better odds, and couples that pray together have even better. A marriage for me would be guided by God, so it's a faith walk in spite of the stats
 
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We had this discussion. The only reason I backed off is cuz I spoke to my pastor and he basically said that if u feel like u need a prenup, u shouldn't be getting married

True. Conceptually, Christians shouldn't divorce... It happens tho

Probably not. If I take a loss, ill charge it to the game. Earth is temporary anyway
 
DCAllAmerican said:
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We had this discussion. The only reason I backed off is cuz I spoke to my pastor and he basically said that if u feel like u need a prenup, u shouldn't be getting married

True. Conceptually, Christians shouldn't divorce... It happens tho

Probably not. If I take a loss, ill charge it to the game. Earth is temporary anyway
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Worst case scenario , if you do get divorced

What would be the Christian thing to do on your wifes part, 

Leave yo be or take half?

Hypothetically speaking if or when you have a lot of assets.
 
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Sometimes I don't remember why I put someone on block list.


Then I proceed to entertain OP's discussion.


Then I remember why I had OP on blocked list.



Trust the blocked list.
 
DCAllAmerican said:
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We had this discussion. The only reason I backed off is cuz I spoke to my pastor and he basically said that if u feel like u need a prenup, u shouldn't be getting married

True. Conceptually, Christians shouldn't divorce... It happens tho

Probably not. If I take a loss, ill charge it to the game. Earth is temporary anyway
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Cannot agree with this at all.
 
Prenups are taboo because women won't admit that if god forbid the marriage does go south then they are banking on receiving half of everything.

It's one of those things that people push to the furthest/darkest corners of their minds cause the truth is too painful to admit/acknowledge/speak on.
 
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I think it's more taboo because of the religious aspect. You get married you aren't suppose to divorce so why even think so negatively like that.

I'm broke so there's no need for prenups on this side :lol:
 
heLiumcLinton said:
Always told my woman ain't no point in pre nups if we have kids
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I don't know about that one. I mean if you guys are unmarried the only thing financially she can get you for is probably child support VS. child support and everything else you got lol...if you didn't get a prenup and you're married. Big difference.
 
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PrimeTimeBoy said:
heLiumcLinton said:
Always told my woman ain't no point in pre nups if we have kids
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I don't know about that one. I mean if you guys are unmarried the only thing financially she can get you for is probably child support VS child support and everything else you got lol...if you didn't get a prenup and you're married. Big difference.
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Having to deal with a woman you broke up with for the rest of your life is way worse than divorcing and giving up money
 
Taboo? Maybe, and probably for the reasons most have mentioned in here.  That said, taboo for what?  I don't plan on crashing my car and I hope nobody crashes into my car, however I'm forced, by law, to have automobile insurance.  I don't expect anyone to break into my crib, however I have insurance on my home as well.  Pretty much any significant investment requires insurance.  A marriage should be no different.  Why should somebody be entitled to my money or vice versa that they didn't earn simply because as adults our relationship did not work out.  Anyone who thinks a prenup is a sign of distrust or whatever is a flat out simp and/or idiot, especially in 2015.  Being a male in court is an uphill battle when it comes to civil/domestic disputes.  A prenup simply protects your wealth and any future wealth you acquire without the help of your significant other.  But of course it's a select few NTers who would rather fund their ex-wife's new life with Tyrone than to ever imagine the fact their relationship might not work out.  
 
Since Texas is a common law state, my bother has gf's to sign prenups. It even outlines visitation and custody of kids should they have any and break up.


He has them sign it early, way before they get married.
 
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