Relationships : Whats "keeping them (your partner) in check" and whats "being too controlling/crazy"

12 Million said:
 
I hooked up with this girl like a couple days ago (Ive known her since 9th grade) . It was cool and all until today when we were walking around the plaza and she saw this dude and was like "damn he fine' then started staring the ***** down and ****
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 I ended it right there. I made a big scene too. She was saying she was sorry and he aint **** and all that.... But I wasn't having it. I kind of feel bad though, but I never stared at another girl since we hooked up. Is my pimp hand weak??? Does your girl stare at other dudes???? How do you handle it???
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That was your first mistake right there champ.  Never, ever let a female or her actions get the best of you. Nothing worse than when a dude starts acting like a female, and by making "a big scene" you acted like a female.  All you have to do in a situation like this is, tell the girl to get in your car, pull up to her place, kindly tell her to get out your car, and drive off leaving her wondering what she did wrong.  If she isn't able to figure that out, then that's on her. 

To answer your question, you keep your girl in check by letting her know that you aren't going to put up with any foolishness.  You do that by not letting a female walk over you or by having up barriers. If she crosses that barrier, then you let her know.  Don't accept bad behavior. 
 
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Well...... Well damn :lol:
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Deuce King said:
12 Million said:
 
I hooked up with this girl like a couple days ago (Ive known her since 9th grade) . It was cool and all until today when we were walking around the plaza and she saw this dude and was like "damn he fine' then started staring the ***** down and **** :stoneface:  I ended it right there. I made a big scene too. She was saying she was sorry and he aint **** and all that.... But I wasn't having it. I kind of feel bad though, but I never stared at another girl since we hooked up. Is my pimp hand weak??? Does your girl stare at other dudes???? How do you handle it???
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That was your first mistake right there champ.  Never, ever let a female or her actions get the best of you. Nothing worse than when a dude starts acting like a female, and by making "a big scene" you acted like a female.  All you have to do in a situation like this is, tell the girl to get in your car, pull up to her place, kindly tell her to get out your car, and drive off leaving her wondering what she did wrong.  If she isn't able to figure that out, then that's on her. 

To answer your question, you keep your girl in check by letting her know that you aren't going to put up with any foolishness.  You do that by not letting a female walk over you or by having up barriers. If she crosses that barrier, then you let her know.  Don't accept bad behavior. 
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Son, you kill me with this champ thing :lol:

Every damn post. I got a boy who talks just like you. IS THAT YOU NATE?

But nah, I agree with this though. If she's your woman exclusively, she shouldn't be eying down other ******. And then at that, she shouldn't be expressing her thirst, ESPECIALLY to you.

The **** kinda **** is that?

Its not your pimp hand thats weak brah, your manhood should feel threatened. Another man basically just got your ***** wet in public and it wasn't anything you could do about it. You lost the moment you made that scene like a female in public and broke up with her. You should have kept it cool, waited until ya'll got in the car, and calmly aired her **** out. Don't yell... That shows weakness. Just be calm and straightforward.

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Thats all you have to say, b. Drop her off and let her think about it. Go chill and let her hit you later. She'll know what she has done wrong, and what she has to do to make it right.

Once a woman see's that you can handle conflict without blowing up like a child, or like a jealous female, you'll have FULL control over every situation. Why? Because you'll be the one that calm and level headed. Women are the ones that blow up. They can't handle when a dude controls situations without being driven by emotions like them.

They'll feel stupid after the fact because they'll look back and all they'll remember is how they were popping off and blowing up. Thats a female trait, b.

My favorite response to my being calm during conflict? "YOU ALWAYS ACT LIKE **** DOESN'T MATTER!" "YOU ALWAYS MAKE ME FEEL STUPID!"

Why? Because you're the one losing your cool and I'm here styling on you? Sorry to rustle your jimmies baby girl, but I'm not about to lose my voice over some dumb **** :lol:



Think that **** through better next time OP.

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OP are you ugly?
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My girl enjoys looking at other woman's mass just as much as I do...she even points it out...win win...now what she does that throws me off, is if I'm talking to another female (at the store, out somewhere), she's quick to be all up on me hugging me kissing me in front of the other girl, letting the girl know that I'm her man or something...it's a little annoying.
 
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GInfante said:
My girl enjoys looking at other woman's mass just as much as I do...she even points it out...win win...now what she does that throws me off, is if I'm talking to another female (at the store, out somewhere), she's quick to be all up on me hugging me kissing me in front of the other girl, letting the girl know that I'm her man or something...it's a little annoying.
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At least you know she's an insecure girl and not a woman.
 
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GInfante said:
My girl enjoys looking at other woman's mass just as much as I do...she even points it out...win win...now what she does that throws me off, is if I'm talking to another female (at the store, out somewhere), she's quick to be all up on me hugging me kissing me in front of the other girl, letting the girl know that I'm her man or something...it's a little annoying.
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At least you know she's an insecure girl and not a woman.
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 Henny you out to get me man
 
@PRIME, nah I'm not Nate............champ
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.  Also, you hit the nail right on the head when described how being level-headed works even when a female is not.  That's how you a man is suppose to do it.  
 
Would y'all get mad if you went to the bathroom and came back to a guy talking to your girl out somewhere? What if he even bought her a drink? You gonna throw a fit? If you date attractive women this happens all the time. You should take it as a compliment, not disrespect. And let your girl socialize with other people when you out. No need to "keep her in check" if she's your girlfriend then you should have already made sure she was confident and loyal before you made it official with her. I talk to other girls when I'm waiting to order a drink at the bar all the time right in front of my girl and she don't freak out. Like you go out to socialize with other people right? Or you just like drinking publicly and only talking to your girl and she can only talk to you? :lol:

If you have to "keep her in check" then she's not a quality female, period.
 
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Would y'all get mad if you went to the bathroom and came back to a guy talking to your girl out somewhere? What if he even bought her a drink? You gonna throw a fit? If you date attractive women this happens all the time.
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Nope that's a extra $11 in my pocket :lol: come out the bathroom, raise my drink in the air and nod my head as a thank you.
 
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Would y'all get mad if you went to the bathroom and came back to a guy talking to your girl out somewhere? What if he even bought her a drink? You gonna throw a fit? If you date attractive women this happens all the time. You should take it as a compliment, not disrespect. And let your girl socialize with other people when you out. No need to "keep her in check" if she's your girlfriend then you should have already made sure she was confident and loyal before you made it official with her. I talk to other girls when I'm waiting to order a drink at the bar all the time right in front of my girl and she don't freak out. Like you go out to socialize with other people right? Or you just like drinking publicly and only talking to your girl and she can only talk to you?
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If you have to "keep her in check" then she's not a quality female, period.
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checking out other people is fine but you gotta keep that **** to yourself.  I check out guys all the time but im not gonna come out my face and say some **** to my man lol also it sounds like you guys are just friends for her to be talking about another guy like that to your face. if she isnt your girl dont trip
 
So you try to impress dudes on the internet saying you hooked up with a chick when in reality you been friendzoned since the jump and she played you in public? And you were hoping dudes would tell you good work for going ballistic on her so you'd feel less guilty about being a simp?

Aight.
 
Whats wrong with being a virgin?? Im 12000000% certain that at least half of yall on here are virgins. Especially the cats that constantly brag about good their pipe game is and all the chicks they get
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Nothing's wrong with being a virgin, just learn from the experience. Don't be so emotional and jealous.

It's just worse that you flipped out on her without even smashing or being in a relationship.
 
Deuce King said:
@PRIME
, nah I'm not Nate............champ :lol: .  Also, you hit the nail right on the head when described how being level-headed works even when a female is not.  That's how you a man is suppose to do it.  
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Well said bruh...
Got into it with wifey the other day and she smashed off heavy on the pedal talking crazy with my dumbfounded *** sitting in the passenger seat. Looked her dead in the eye and with calm tone urged that everything's going to be cool and all that jazz.
Pulled up to a stop sign and bailed out. F that ****. Walked home logged on to NT and she pulls up apologizing and ****. Had a stogie with her, worked stuff out and went home to have bomb sects..
The end
 
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