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What if your significant other wanted to try swinging?
If both parties come to a mutual agreement that swinging is "okay" then there is no problem. Where it becomes convoluted is when him or her is not on the same page with their partner and they push, do, or ask of things that is atypical to what is "normal" to them. Western ideology teaches us that monogamy is the "right" way, and it may be, but there are quite a few places in the world that polygamy is practiced and accepted.
So your chick tells you she wants to swing, what do you say?
"Why?" and depending on what her explanation is, I most likely would cut her off. I'm past the point of dealing with all the potential baggage and drama something like swinging can bring forth. Just something I'm not into for many reasons.