would you let your significant other go to the movies alone with the opposite sex

No one is talking about new found female friends though.

that is me personally and its just my opinion...


i don't hold platonic friendships with females...so the idea of having a female best friend or something is not something I am interested in holding.
 
YES. i think you get it now...only reason i talk to girls now is to smash...im not trying to talk to them about **** they should be talking to their friends about...

and after i am married i have zero interest in talking to any female on a friend level....

here is how it works:

qualifiers:

1) if she ugly im not talking to her---not smashing--not tryna be her life coach or therapist
2) if she isn't ugly and is intelligent...ill talk to her about life and certain things on a friend level but i'll still smash as long as im single...
3) once im married i dont need other women to talk to about life--- that will be my wife
4) i obviously can't and shouldn't smash other women when im married...

this cuts out any possibility of 1 on 1...im not chilling with no girl if a) she ugly b) she aint putting out....cuz a) theres way too many beautiful women and b) theres way too many beautiful women putting out.


I just can't live that way. You are leaving out half the worlds population of ideas and conversations and whatnot and keeping all of that to one source?


edit sorry, don't want you to think this is a direct damning of you....just wondering out loud, typing....lol
 
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So you personally only view females as some vagina?


no not at all...


i am SINGLE...not married or committed to anyone...it is not my job to police those women who are and want to chill with me 1 on 1 and let me smash if i work for it...i'll be friends with them to a certain point...but i am not chilling with them 1on1 after i am married or committed to someone...


you guys love twisting stuff around...
 
that is me personally and its just my opinion...


i don't hold platonic friendships with females...so the idea of having a female best friend or something is not something I am interested in holding.


wouldnt that make you impartial to this argument though as you have only experieneced the mastermind of taking female friends down side of things?
 
we talkin' bout one on one b

I get that....that's what I'm trying to convey.


If my wife don't give a damn about GotG and Thanos and I have a platonic, no sexual interest opposite sex friend who does, why should I not see this movie and have a conversation with that person?

The way I take your statement is that I shouldn't have that interaction because I don't want to give the D.




It's just an interest. An ancillary one, at that. Now if we going to a pornocon or something, that's a red flag....but we're talking about a one time, two hour movie. I ain't even paying for the ticket or her popcorn/soda!!!
 
So you personally only view females as some vagina?


no not at all...


i am SINGLE...not married or committed to anyone...it is not my job to police those women who are and want to chill with me 1 on 1 and let me smash if i work for it...i'll be friends with them to a certain point...but i am not chilling with them 1on1 after i am married or committed to someone...


you guys love twisting stuff around...
You do know that means you not friends right? Lol

Just like you pretending to be shorty friend til her dude messed up so you could smash, that's not being friends.
 
Feed your women fellas, they get cranky when they hungry.

This is very true.

I heard ya mom's get mad if dinner ain't on the table by 7, too.


i always thought this was some made up think women pretend to have, but its real!!! ive seen it. truth.

No, it's real. And I love watching a guy's face when he's like "...how the hell does she even KNOW about that?"
 
You do know that means you not friends right? Lol

Just like you pretending to be shorty friend til her dude messed up so you could smash, that's not being friends.

yes every female i chill with at this point knows that there is an expiry date...

like ksteezy says...when you with someone or are married there aren't even enough hours out of the day to get your soul off with her and show her your love, emotions, time....the hell am i going to pursue or keep up with other friendships with women....

too many goals in life...too many things to do...don't need a bunch of females clogging up my life...and if you don't see them after being busy they cut you off ...but thats a whole other topic...


*** new thread title in ten years: "my female bestie no longer wants to chill cuz her man said so...what you think?"
 
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we talkin' bout one on one b

I get that....that's what I'm trying to convey.


If my wife don't give a damn about GotG and Thanos and I have a platonic, no sexual interest opposite sex friend who does, why should I not see this movie and have a conversation with that person?

The way I take your statement is that I shouldn't have that interaction because I don't want to give the D.




It's just an interest. An ancillary one, at that. Now if we going to a pornocon or something, that's a red flag....but we're talking about a one time, two hour movie. I ain't even paying for the ticket or her popcorn/soda!!!

You don't have male friends you can see the movie with?
 
All he's doing is playing the waiting game , cmon son :lol:


naw i ain't really waiting...but you know what i mean...if she hit me up i'll reply...if she wanna grab food i'll put in the work and get a bite to eat...but i thoroughly enjoy those times too, don't get me wrong...but i see reality as it is...i am not marrying the girl...i don't want to date her...but if she bad and is willing to chill and put out until i cut her off...i don't see how that makes me any less of a person...
 
naw i ain't really waiting...but you know what i mean...if she hit me up i'll reply...if she wanna grab food i'll put in the work and get a bite to eat...but i thoroughly enjoy those times too, don't get me wrong...but i see reality as it is...i am not marrying the girl...i don't want to date her...but if she bad and is willing to chill and put out until i cut her off...i don't see how that makes me any less of a person...

One question , if she took her clothes off in front you , what would you do?
 
JUST. GO.

This conversation is great, but there's nothing else to discuss here. Lol. I swear I'm about to log on to Fandango and cop the tix myself.
 
JUST. GO.

This conversation is great, but there's nothing else to discuss here. Lol. I swear I'm about to log on to Fandango and cop the tix myself.
The only time a girl knows I want the panties is if I take her to the movie theater with the reclining seats, if we at the matinee you know we really friends :lol:
 
You don't have male friends you can see the movie with?


Actually, no. The quote that I use to describe myself is that I was the "nerdiest guy at the frat house"... All my male friends are sports junkies and give me grief for going to the superhero movies, lol
 
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