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whats goin on everybody. story time. no cliffs
a few months ago i made an account on here and started lurking. i pmed 2 people i think about a little situation i was going thru. i had a rough start to the year by far in my 20+ years of living. but the thing that hit me hard was the situation with my now ex girl. not gonna put up pics and get detectived btw
anyways we had broken up and it was basically all on me. she been telling me to act right for a long time and i saw it as an annoyance. i had stopped doing somethings i used to do (the little stuff) when someone tells me to do something more than once i just dont even bother. thats the type of guy i am
but i did that to the wrong person this time. i mean we been thru a whole lot of stuff. i put her thru things and she put me thru things too. been with her for almost 4 years. so when we broke up best believe i was hurtin. and im a chill relaxed kind of guy. ive heard bad news lots of times and things dont even phase me. but this did
i mean we were on and off but not official. and im sure those who get into relationships know how hard it is to distance yourself from someone you invested dam near everything in. im over thinking to myself man i wont find someone as good as she was. in terms of looks, the sex, personality. everything
and of course people close to me that knew would tell me to keep my head up and better will come and everything like that. but in that position you dont see that
fast forward to the present, i feel great. yeah im single, not technically talking to anyone, but i like it. been by myself for a while and it couldnt have been better in a way. just been workin and stackin bread, hittin the gym, and hangin out with my crew and goin out
if some girl comes along, cool, im with it. but if not, then hey thats cool too. we actually just spoke on the phone (she called me). shes in a relationship (not shocked, shes really pretty but it has been like a month since we last seen each other). and im not even hurt or bothered or anything. i wished her goodluck in it. no animosity from me at all
she telling me she wants to be friends because i will always have a special place in her heart then started crying a little. and that her boyfriend knows that. at first i didnt even know what to say. but i said cool i guess. not like we gonna be talking everyday
she ended it with saying how she made a mistake moving on so quick and that if its meant to be then it will be. and that was that
now as i write this i feel good about myself. it took a long *** time but i got over this. i knew i would, but it just didnt seem i would get over it. it was my longest relationship by far, and i learned a lot. i see it as a learning experience
the next girl i get with wont have to worry about any of the mistakes i made in the past. moral of the story? no matter how bad things are, theres always light at the end of that dark tunnel. i was feeling like i hit rock bottom. but the thing is i couldnt get any lower than that
things will get better with time. and thats the only way they will get better
sorry for the novel but its just something i wanted to share. hopefully itll help out other people
peace
a few months ago i made an account on here and started lurking. i pmed 2 people i think about a little situation i was going thru. i had a rough start to the year by far in my 20+ years of living. but the thing that hit me hard was the situation with my now ex girl. not gonna put up pics and get detectived btw
anyways we had broken up and it was basically all on me. she been telling me to act right for a long time and i saw it as an annoyance. i had stopped doing somethings i used to do (the little stuff) when someone tells me to do something more than once i just dont even bother. thats the type of guy i am
but i did that to the wrong person this time. i mean we been thru a whole lot of stuff. i put her thru things and she put me thru things too. been with her for almost 4 years. so when we broke up best believe i was hurtin. and im a chill relaxed kind of guy. ive heard bad news lots of times and things dont even phase me. but this did
i mean we were on and off but not official. and im sure those who get into relationships know how hard it is to distance yourself from someone you invested dam near everything in. im over thinking to myself man i wont find someone as good as she was. in terms of looks, the sex, personality. everything
and of course people close to me that knew would tell me to keep my head up and better will come and everything like that. but in that position you dont see that
fast forward to the present, i feel great. yeah im single, not technically talking to anyone, but i like it. been by myself for a while and it couldnt have been better in a way. just been workin and stackin bread, hittin the gym, and hangin out with my crew and goin out
if some girl comes along, cool, im with it. but if not, then hey thats cool too. we actually just spoke on the phone (she called me). shes in a relationship (not shocked, shes really pretty but it has been like a month since we last seen each other). and im not even hurt or bothered or anything. i wished her goodluck in it. no animosity from me at all
she telling me she wants to be friends because i will always have a special place in her heart then started crying a little. and that her boyfriend knows that. at first i didnt even know what to say. but i said cool i guess. not like we gonna be talking everyday
she ended it with saying how she made a mistake moving on so quick and that if its meant to be then it will be. and that was that
now as i write this i feel good about myself. it took a long *** time but i got over this. i knew i would, but it just didnt seem i would get over it. it was my longest relationship by far, and i learned a lot. i see it as a learning experience
the next girl i get with wont have to worry about any of the mistakes i made in the past. moral of the story? no matter how bad things are, theres always light at the end of that dark tunnel. i was feeling like i hit rock bottom. but the thing is i couldnt get any lower than that
things will get better with time. and thats the only way they will get better
sorry for the novel but its just something i wanted to share. hopefully itll help out other people
peace
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