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Maybe I'm blazing too much of ityeah she is awesome... we've been getting to text a lot more now and it just feels fun to text her and get that interaction going. i wouldn't have felt this way if I didn't get help. i really mean it. i think as people we all have a need to be emotionally connected, but some of us just don't know how, and aren't given the right skills at an early age to deal with their changing environments.
some people in therapy have retired and realized that they weren't happy all along. i feel lucky to still be alive to be with the people i know now. and that's the key word, is now, because what you did a moment ago isn't there anymore. i've been living in the present for the past few hours and it just feels like continual relief.
it also may be because im blazing that loud.
i've been dealing with depression on and off for almost 7 years. almost offed myself 2.5 years ago and i'm glad i failed.
i'm at a low right now & suicidal thoughts come, but i'm fighting it.
i've been MIA from my friends for awhile. the only people i want to talk to are my parents and my boyfriend. =\
my mom finally agreed to let me go back to therapy after seeing me having a ptsd episode two weeks ago. finally.
That sounds serious. Since you haven't gotten a response I'd advise making sure you're good and taken care of physically at the ER or a standard hospital before trying to go to a special psychiatric hospital where you can be evaluated and treated for those underlying causes.OP when you went to the hospital what kind of hospital was it? Was it ER, urgent care, or a special psychiatric hospital? I just had some real bad stuff happen to me and I haven't eaten for 3 days, I can barely sleep, I'm having panic attacks where I think my heart is gonna explode, and worse. I want to go get help but I don't know how. Would a regular hospital treat me for depression? I'm not suicidal I just need help. Thanks for sharing your story
That sounds serious. Since you haven't gotten a response I'd advise making sure you're good and taken care of physically at the ER or a standard hospital before trying to go to a special psychiatric hospital where you can be evaluated and treated for those underlying causes.OP when you went to the hospital what kind of hospital was it? Was it ER, urgent care, or a special psychiatric hospital? I just had some real bad stuff happen to me and I haven't eaten for 3 days, I can barely sleep, I'm having panic attacks where I think my heart is gonna explode, and worse. I want to go get help but I don't know how. Would a regular hospital treat me for depression? I'm not suicidal I just need help. Thanks for sharing your story
That sounds serious. Since you haven't gotten a response I'd advise making sure you're good and taken care of physically at the ER or a standard hospital before trying to go to a special psychiatric hospital where you can be evaluated and treated for those underlying causes.OP when you went to the hospital what kind of hospital was it? Was it ER, urgent care, or a special psychiatric hospital? I just had some real bad stuff happen to me and I haven't eaten for 3 days, I can barely sleep, I'm having panic attacks where I think my heart is gonna explode, and worse. I want to go get help but I don't know how. Would a regular hospital treat me for depression? I'm not suicidal I just need help. Thanks for sharing your story
thanks man, i ended up going to ER to get my vitals checked and everything. they offered me an IV which I turned down and some advice on some medicines to help me sleep and help with my nausea. They also gave me recommendations on a therapist to see. It was helpful talking to the doctor a little bit though. I think If i can just sleep a little bit, i'll the energy to get out and be productive and take my mind off things. hopefully that will bring my appetite back
thanks fam. i used to go therapy back at my old university but i stopped because i didn't want my parents to find out.It is hard, but change isn't easy. If you want to change how you feel, you have to accept your emotions for what they are and let yourself reach out to someone and let them know how you feel.
You'll be surprised how much your friends care about your happiness.
Good luck with the therapy. There are a lot of emotional skills you can apply to establish a baseline so to speak. Take care of yourself as much as you can.
my parents said i don't need it. but then my mom finally believed me when she saw me break down in anxiety. caring for mental conditions are quite taboo in my culture, i suppose. =\
^why wouldn't your mom let u go to therapy?
thanks fam. i used to go therapy back at my old university but i stopped because i didn't want my parents to find out.It is hard, but change isn't easy. If you want to change how you feel, you have to accept your emotions for what they are and let yourself reach out to someone and let them know how you feel.
You'll be surprised how much your friends care about your happiness.
Good luck with the therapy. There are a lot of emotional skills you can apply to establish a baseline so to speak. Take care of yourself as much as you can.
my problem is that i just kept everything in for so long because i didn't wanna be a burden to my family and friends. i never properly dealt with the trauma and the feelings properly because i was ashamed of myself. it still haunts me until this day, but i try to keep telling myself that it's not my fault.
i hope everything's going well with you.
my parents said i don't need it. but then my mom finally believed me when she saw me break down in anxiety. caring for mental conditions are quite taboo in my culture, i suppose. =\
^why wouldn't your mom let u go to therapy?
my class schedule this semester is pretty sweet so hopefully i can regularly go back to therapy and finally get over my situation.
i just feel like one of the biggest factors i refused to go to therapy is my parents -- they haven't been supportive of me at all. ironic, but both my parents are in the healthcare field, and they refuse to help their daughter.That is a really common thing to say, that being mentally ill makes you feel like a burden. In my opinion people don't give mental illness enough credibility for being a handicap on daily living. The brain is such a complex organ that handles so much sensory information that dictates how you are able to move around and cope with your environment.
They have done brain scans (MRI's) of depressed and non-depressed people, and neuroscientists are mapping out all sorts of emotional responses linked to rapidly activated neurons. I won't get too in depth with the physiology of the brain, but the limbic system is the center part of our body that acts as our 24/7 CPU. To tell someone they should stop feeling bad about their depression or mental illness concerns is like telling someone with a torn ACL to start running again. It's impossible and shows lack of empathy. By going to therapy, you are rewiring your brain (seriously) to learn healthy coping behaviors when faced with stressful situations. I'm already able to make much better decisions in daily life such as talking to people for errands at work and I have noticed I'm getting better at driving in traffic. Little things here and there have been big wins for me.
Pm coming your wayshoyru,
I completely understand. Wish there was something I could do to help.
today has been a ****** day for me. Turns out that girl just wants to be friends and sees me nothing more than a friend. I'm really depressed now.
I guess this isn't a very uplifting post to my own positive thread, but it is very much real. It takes effort to find a way out of depression and it takes effort to manage it, because it never goes away. It comes back and makes you want to escape.
Pm coming your wayshoyru,
I completely understand. Wish there was something I could do to help.
today has been a ****** day for me. Turns out that girl just wants to be friends and sees me nothing more than a friend. I'm really depressed now.
I guess this isn't a very uplifting post to my own positive thread, but it is very much real. It takes effort to find a way out of depression and it takes effort to manage it, because it never goes away. It comes back and makes you want to escape.
Often times you'll find that person that you've been searching for when you're not actively searching and when you least expect it. It's funny how it works. Continue to better yourself first and try and keep that positive attitude.I think I've been searching too hard for someone to love me back, and it's just sad to think about how hard I've tried to make someone like me or love me back. All those years gone by and I never took the time to care for myself. I guess I'll spend some time today working on that.
love comes at the most unexpected times. i wasn't looking a several years ago because i was still heartbroken over an ex boyfriend & the things he did to me. then my current boyfriend came into my life and i fell head over heels in love.Gonna go to work soon, but I'm taking some time now to write about my progress.
Still feel like **** because of that girl and what she said to me yesterday, but something inside me wants to be better in so many ways that I just don't want to ever get back to the point where I put girl problems over my own. Better exercise, better diet, better study skills, better work ethic, better team leadership. I think this thread is helping me gradually get over some long-term things I've been hard on myself for. Typing this out is helping me, so I hope I can look back a few weeks from now and see where I came from.
Today I'm gonna try to focus on my self improvement while establishing a work ethic that will get me by 15 minutes at a time. I'm reading this book called The Self-Esteem Workbook, by Glenn R. Schiraldi Ph.D. If I can get through a few pages in this book and feel like I learned something, I'm going to feel good about my efforts.
I think I've been searching too hard for someone to love me back, and it's just sad to think about how hard I've tried to make someone like me or love me back. All those years gone by and I never took the time to care for myself. I guess I'll spend some time today working on that.
Have a based Saturday NT, and never give up on your goals. PM me if you want to talk!
-Pat
thank you.shoyru,
I completely understand. Wish there was something I could do to help.