Have you ever dated someone much older or much younger?

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So I was reading this article earlier today where a teen couple stole someone truck and ran off together. Besides the fact that they are both clearly stupid one thing that stuck out to me was the fact that the guy was 18 years old and the girl was 13. It got me thinking about dating and the age differences. I remember when I was in high school I knew girls that were 15-16 dating 20 something year old guys and I remember thinking that these girls must just be really mature. Fast forward to my mid twenties and Its easy to see that it has nothing to do with the maturity of the girl but the immaturity of the guys. Atleast from what I've seen. Just curious on what NT's experiences and opinions are on the matter? What's to old and what's too young?

Here's the article about the teens btw.
www.cnn.com/2015/01/18/justice/kentucky-teens-arrested/
 
Now it's not really a big deal because i'm older... But I always ended up with girls older than me.

When I was 15, I was dating a girl that was 19 (lasted less than 2 months :lol:) and when I was 16 turning 17, I was smashing this girl that was 21 years old.
 
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Now it's not really a big deal because i'm older... But I always ended up with girls older than me.

When I was 15, I was dating a girl that was 19 (lasted less than 2 months :lol:) and when I was 16 turning 17, I was smashing this girl that was 21 years old.

In my experience I find that these relationships are usually just based on the physical aspects
 
I'm dating a 30 year old (Mid 20's) It's def weird to be honest. She looks young but she be trying to pull that well when I was your age bs and I be like 
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New age Bonnie and Clyde is too big of an age gap. I would lose it if my daughter was 13 with a bf, let alone an 18 yr old... I would kill that boy and call the police on myself.
 
At 13 I dated an 18 year old cuban chick in HS. She was a junior and had me all the way turnt. :smh:

Learned a lot of lessons that year.
 
not much just a couple years younger

I've sworn off dating younger for the most part. Not like one or two years younger but like 5+ years younger until I'm in like my 30s. I dated a sophomore my senior year of high school briefly its just we were on two completely different mental wave lengths. And I've found that to be the case for most of the younger girls I've seen. We both can look at the same info and come to drastically different conclusions.
 
Yeah I was with someone 7 years younger then me for a few years..... It didn't really matter to me...

I don't like a chick to be older then me most of them have been same age or a few years younger....
 
Now it's not really a big deal because i'm older... But I always ended up with girls older than me.

When I was 15, I was dating a girl that was 19 (lasted less than 2 months :lol:) and when I was 16 turning 17, I was smashing this girl that was 21 years old.

In my experience I find that these relationships are usually just based on the physical aspects

Well it was. I looked a lot older than my age... so they thought I was there age.
 
I was 16, I think she was 23. She had a kid and everything. What she saw in me, I have no clue. I would never recommend it to anyone lol chick played me like a fiddle
 
Do you find yourselves disagreeing on a lot of things?
Yes, she feels I can't have girls that are friends. 

She feels she can run game on me. 

I just let her think she running things. 

Older women just don't give a ****, but when a woman is at age 30-35 they are big on fronting like they not thirsty for a husband, but usually they are.
 
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dated someone 7 years younger at me.  Loved the hawtness, firm body etc, I def felt the gap in age sometimes.   good thing ima goofball myself or I woulda went nuts
 
when i was 22 met some white milf in protland that looked 26. woke up in her bed, came to find out she was 36. but so bad. i thought about a relationship a few times. but awkward things kept holding me back. like her daughter was 18 but butt ugly. she had 3 kids and her husband would still come around to pick them up. she would say things like where were you 10 years ago before i got married, id be like i was 10 playing with toys! 

anywho lasted about 1/2 a year and it eventually becomes an issue.
 
I feel like the older Both you and the other person are the less the age gap matters but +/- 7-12 years seems crazy to me if you're actually looking for a relationship and not doing it for the novelty of it or cause she's hot.
 
Nah. My current lady is 27 I'm 25 been in cahoots since January '09.


I done smash older chicks but haven't dated any.

I don't mess with young chicks period. They gotta at least be 21 or in the military or a major university if their between the ages 18-20. But that's a rare occasion I'd deal with.
 
Youngest girl I date was 7-8 years younger. Oldest I've dated is like 2 years older.

I don't have problems dating a girl who's way younger (or older) as long we connect well.

My recent gf was 4 years younger (she's 29) but was mad immature and childish.
 
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