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What is love to you? Vol. I got girl problems, feel bad for me son. - Edit
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Period didn't stop me, when I was with ex. I would lay out a towel and go to work.
Yeah I'm nasty.
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Loving someone and being IN love is two totally different things.
I used to be in love and now I just love her...**** sucks cause that in love feeling was great
I used to be in love and now I just love her...**** sucks cause that in love feeling was great
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That text wall
this......
that's why I post,
like,
this.
doble espacio por favor.
not that I don't enjoy reading but I have a severe astigmatism and I have to strain my eyes to read closely grouped lines.....
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u sound like a b*tch OP, no offense
pull your pants up
btw it probably wasn't love to begin with if u find yourself questioning it
pull your pants up
btw it probably wasn't love to begin with if u find yourself questioning it
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First person you think of in the morning.
Last person you think of at night.
Seeing something dope and instantly wanting to share it with them.
Wanting to be with them because everything is better when they are around.
Laying next to them thinking how did i get so lucky
Giving your all to them. Your ALL
Looking into her eyes
Looking into her eyes
Looking into her eyes
Last person you think of at night.
Seeing something dope and instantly wanting to share it with them.
Wanting to be with them because everything is better when they are around.
Laying next to them thinking how did i get so lucky
Giving your all to them. Your ALL
Looking into her eyes
Looking into her eyes
Looking into her eyes
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When you see that smile
When she laughs
Being the one person you can't live without
Time without them sometimes seems wasted
Not afraid to be emotional in front of them
When you'll go out of your way to see them
And above all else, there is no greater emotional feeling then when you give them a goodnight kiss and wake up next to them
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akajae
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Love is something more...than love songs, love poems and temporary highs,
Love is something more...than happy hellos and sad goodbyes,
Love is something more, than ups and downs and ins and outs,
Love is something more...it's what life is all about.
Love is something more...than happy hellos and sad goodbyes,
Love is something more, than ups and downs and ins and outs,
Love is something more...it's what life is all about.
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Thanks to everyone who has replied so far and took the time out to answer or even read my block of text. I went and edited it to make it a little easier to read.
This comment stuck with me. This is why I'm so curious and ask what you guys think love is. Everyone has a different outlook on it.
The fact that you deem it crazy that I have been with someone for nearly two years and have not said the word is exactly what I mean and makes me analytical.
Does it just mean I hold it up to a higher standard (not to speak negative of anyone or have a holier than thou attitude). Or maybe you're just able to love or fall in love easier than me?
Do a majority of you guys say the term with every relationship you have? You would say it, high in the honeymoon stage?
One thing I would always hear after a couple has broken up, they say "I don't think I really loved her/him".
All I could think is, then why did you say it if you didn't mean it?
I think this is what made me hold back for as long as I did, not wanting to just say it to not be sure later.
Y'all dated for damn near two years and never said, "I love you"?
This comment stuck with me. This is why I'm so curious and ask what you guys think love is. Everyone has a different outlook on it.
The fact that you deem it crazy that I have been with someone for nearly two years and have not said the word is exactly what I mean and makes me analytical.
Does it just mean I hold it up to a higher standard (not to speak negative of anyone or have a holier than thou attitude). Or maybe you're just able to love or fall in love easier than me?
Do a majority of you guys say the term with every relationship you have? You would say it, high in the honeymoon stage?
One thing I would always hear after a couple has broken up, they say "I don't think I really loved her/him".
All I could think is, then why did you say it if you didn't mean it?
I think this is what made me hold back for as long as I did, not wanting to just say it to not be sure later.
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For those saying "When you're in love you'll know it," how can people with little experience (like OP) accurately gauge whether they "know" it or not?
Those who have only been in one relationship reach the pinnacle of emotions they've felt towards someone with that relationship so it's all they know. If they're feeling that there could be something more, more intense emotions or a deeper connection for example, does that mean that they know it isn't it? If it's close enough, but not all the way, to fulfilling all of that does that just count as "settling?"
Those who have only been in one relationship reach the pinnacle of emotions they've felt towards someone with that relationship so it's all they know. If they're feeling that there could be something more, more intense emotions or a deeper connection for example, does that mean that they know it isn't it? If it's close enough, but not all the way, to fulfilling all of that does that just count as "settling?"
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Do you enjoy being around her? Do you have similar views? Do you have irrational fights? Do you treat each other well? Does she make you a better person?
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Yes I do. Our views are majorly similar. We don't fight often, but when we do, it's usually caused by misunderstanding. I would say we treat one another well, I feel she treats me better than I treat her though. I'd like to believe she makes me a better person.
Are there any issues with her that you can't stand?
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I tried to think of one, but not really?
It sounds like you screwed up by breaking up with her.
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|I I'm working on it. That's why I'm asking all these questions. Hell, by others' definitions, I've been in love for some time now then? I just didn't 'know' it because I hadn't had any past failed attempts from previous relationships to compare it to.
Love is less of a thing you say and more of a thing you show. If you guys have been working out without any real issues, just keep going with it.I'm working on it. That's why I'm asking all these questions. Hell, by others' definitions, I've been in love for some time now then? I just didn't 'know' it because I hadn't had any past failed attempts from previous relationships to compare it to.
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Love is dedicating all of yourself to someone else's happiness/ success. well-being
Unconditional love is redundant. Real love is unconditional.
They may make you happy or the may disappoint you, but regardless,
real love is constant ( whether reciprocated or not).
Unconditional love is redundant. Real love is unconditional.
They may make you happy or the may disappoint you, but regardless,
real love is constant ( whether reciprocated or not).
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I'm like OP, before I fell in "love" as we call it I was never in a real relationship... like everyone says it's just different.
If you see yourself in the future with that person, maybe with a house or a family is that love?
If you think about them all day are you in love or just obsessed?
Love is different for everyone, no two are the same.
For me, I knew I was in love when I'd rather be playing on the couch watching a movie with her rather then doing anything in the world.
May be corny but that's my take
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Love for me is simple and effortless, saying a million things without saying a word...driving for hours in pure silence without feeling awkward.
