How hard is it to find a chick who....

youngdoc said:
It was at least a few weeks between the last time we smashed and the official breakup
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She was probably getting it from that dude during those few weeks. Not tryna say your ex was a freak or nothing but that timeline is fishy bruh.
 
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Yamcha said:
 
You get what you put out in this world. Women like that are usually fairly grounded, they understand. If that's what you yourself are putting out like minded women will gravitate towards you.  A lot of times people will claim it's impossible to find whatever type of mate they are looking for however they don't realize the mates they do attract are a direct reflection of themselves.
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All of this right here
 
Flyeed said:
Is 25 or older
Is sophisticated
An 8+ on the real world scale looks wise
Educated (bachelors degree or more)
Has an impressive sense of humor
Fun
Cultured
Really cool
Extremely faithful
Will love you unconditionally regardless of status/salary
Can cook
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RealTalk. One of the reasons why i knew 5 months into my current relationship (now almost 3 years later) that my Lady was "the one". Because i had criteria, i knew what i could bring to the table so i wanted a woman who could bring the same. Ive been looking at rings the last couple of months, planning to get on bended knee in just a few weeks actually.

And i would add "childless and kool friends" to that list too. Her friends have become my close friends as well and its never been like "damn, another double date w/ Crystal and her guy, or do we really have to go to David's gtg".

Obviously the no kids thing is huge too, no baby daddy drama for this guy. Ya'll can have that.
 
I think it's quite feasible if you can get over the sexual partners part. At 25, most girls, even the very faithful ones, have been with more than three guys. Get over it. If she has all of the other qualities you're looking for, and assuming she falls for you, she's probably more than willing to show you what she's learn from her past experience. It's a win-win for you.
 
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AlexanderFrmMem said:
What are some indicators that a girl has a steep history?
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Bredrin if she stares off into the distance when recollecting fun times, that means she has been HOUSED.

I remember talking to a girl one time about flying and i was saying how much of a chore i think it is.. and she's like 'I don't know i've had some fun times on planes'....

Comments like that let you know the shop has been wrecked.
 
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:rofl: @ the create a player type girl

3 bodies at age 25 is not happening. This is just from the girls that I know and they meet most of the other criteria. But realistically you have to keep it until 10 and then that's attainable.

As a whole I feel it's hard to find somebody. Lack of time due to work and personal hobbies to keep you sane. Then social mediums tell us to go to bars and clubs to meet girls, which is the last place you'll find somebody worthwhile.

You have to put yourself in situations where you have a chance to meet someone like this. You have to go into it expecting nothing. I'm sure girls are saying similar things on a different forum.
 
Maximus Meridius said:
Most likely she was letting the other dude smash while she still in a relationship.
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This. Thats what I've been trying to tell em, but they don't think a girl will ever cheat on them. Dream on.

Biggie62 said:
:rofl: @ the create a player type girl

3 bodies at age 25 is not happening. This is just from the girls that I know and they meet most of the other criteria. But realistically you have to keep it until 10 and then that's attainable.

As a whole I feel it's hard to find somebody. Lack of time due to work and personal hobbies to keep you sane. Then social mediums tell us to go to bars and clubs to meet girls, which is the last place you'll find somebody worthwhile.

You have to put yourself in situations where you have a chance to meet someone like this. You have to go into it expecting nothing. I'm sure girls are saying similar things on a different forum.
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You must know some sleazy broads. Put me on . :nerd:
 
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301216baller said:
25 dates!!!! What type of **** u on lol
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Like I said we wasnt exclusive. This was back before I learned PUA tactics. Before I knew about The Red Pill, Simple Pickup, RSDTyler, RSDMax, and Julien Blanc. She was SMOKIN. 9/10.

Either way it didnt matter I was betamax and I ****** up. But now PUA and CPA money has changed my life.
 
LIONBLOOD said:
OP forgot one of the most important attributes.....NOT CRAZY. :smh:
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They're all crazy. No need to state that.

TomDiginson said:
This. Most of them are sheltered. Break em out and they are yours.
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Only if theyre FOTB. Any 1st gen asian I know is indifferent from any american besides their race.

I had one and I messed that up too :smh: I should have took it slower with her since she was FOTB. I prolly scared her too fast. The next neighborhood I am moving to has a high FOTB asian population so aint een mad.

No i didnt choose the neighborhood for that but its def a +
 
sunshineblotters said:
301216baller said:
25 dates!!!! What type of **** u on lol
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Like I said we wasnt exclusive. This was back before I learned PUA tactics. Before I knew about The Red Pill, Simple Pickup, RSDTyler, RSDMax, and Julien Blanc. She was SMOKIN. 9/10.

Either way it didnt matter I was betamax and I ****** up. But now PUA and CPA money has changed my life.
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what are all those things you just listed :lol: and how did it changed you and your game
 
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I know it sounds cliche, but in my experience they always come when you are not looking. I have a girl now, but when we break up - which we eventually will. I will look forward to the time I get to work on myself, and become a better reflection for the woman that I want someday. I tried my all with this one trust me ya'll. but her insecurity is starting to kill me, like every other day she asking when we having kids. She'll be like "my clock is ticking" ***** I'm trying to build something not spit out kids because you feel invalidated.

In this day and age, finding a girl who cares for you and is not a ***** is quite easy. The total package (Wife material) however is not an easy find. The fun is in the journey gentleman..After all if it were easy, would it be as satisfying when you lock it down?
 
I was wifeys 3rd... met her at 21 yrs old... we been together 9 yrs....

She was an 7.5 - 8 when i met her.... after 3 kids her body aint the same but its coming back slowly...

Been complaining alot lately about being in shape , health issues, etc...

it helps to get to really know a chick without being friendzoned...
 
Are you not listening? I didnt make it nowhere near the 25 dates. More like 50 a pop. She wanted to pay for half but I didnt want her to, cuz I like when ******* know I dont need em. This is true with every girl I go out with. I want girl,s sex, not their money.

Besides my women friends that I hang out with girls havent spent a dime on me. And yes I like it that way.

friscostylez said:
what are all those things you just listed :lol: and how did it changed you and your game
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CPA. Certified Public Accountant. I have decent money for my age. If you don't see how that changed my game I dont know what to tell you.

PUA - Pick Up Artistry

RSDTyler. Julien Blanc and RSDMax teach essentially the same thing but I dont find them nearly as helpful as him.
SimplePickup. They took down a lot of their free videos and now have some pranks but if you scroll down you should find some okay ones
 
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Guys I think the moral of the story is work on yourself, if you can be the best person you can be you will attract the type of person you want because you will embody it.  The 10 second miracle is holding yourself accountable for not having what you think you want in life. 
 
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