Let's Talk About Attraction

i'm attracted to short petite girls with nice butts.... I also like girls with "weird" faces -- the kind of girl you don't see often and wonder what her ethnic background is 

don't care about her chest size

I like either really long hair, or really short hair...... not a fan of the in between

it's ok to have a type..... 

as a short dude, the only thing that bothers me about a girl is when she says some **** like.... "i only date men over x height...." ..... as if she could even tell the difference between a dude that was 5'10 and 6' ... or 6'1 and 6'3 

nothing wrong with having a preference, as I said ....... however, superficial "REQUIREMENTS" is another thing 
 
Wayniac211 said:
Didn't your ex cheat on you with a female with a man bod?
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FlyNY said:
6INP
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glasses said:
Typical behavior of a damaged person to try and block out hearing what struck a chord to the core of their emotional pain


Face your pain like everybody else in the world instead of creating a false "empowered intellectual woman that everybody wants" persona on a message board.
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The funny thing is that I JUST posted a picture doing exactly what I said I was. Whatever I say is going to be misconstrued so that YOU can feel better about you. Stop being salty and actually agree or disagree. You or anyone other internet persona on here will simply continue to hate.. YOU, my friend, are the person in pain. I didn't come into YOUR THREAD including what I think of you. Cause I don't care.

I don't even know if you  have one.  I don't care who wants or doesn't want me as you can see here. I'm just me and don't see why I have to conform.  I don't really know how you came to that summation? But , okay. I'm trying to be an empowered intellectual woman , I guess.

I could argue all day but I have a lot planned out that sounds much more fun. I know that you and your friends with the dry, crusty mouths are going to take care of this thread so that it's easy to find once I get back later in the evening.

Take care of it , ya hear? Expecting some responses once I get back on top of picture requests with my social security number and comments on my Starbucks coffee cup...
 
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I know that you and your friends with the dry, crusty mouths are going to take care of this thread so that it's easy to find once I get back later in the evening.
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Kellyrep said:
Obviously a few dudes salty right now. Coming back later.  The funniest part about this is that I am sipping tea out of a Starbucks cup as I type this.


I don't do chamomile though I've heard of it's calming effects.

I drink a tea by Pukka which can be found at your local Vitamin Shoppe.  It's the Detox and has fennel, nettle, and peppermint but the peppermint isn' t overpowering, The tea as a whole is very flavorful and has a hint of a licorice taste from the fennel. It's about $6 for a pack of 20 tea bags but the potency is top notched and you can feel the effects of the tea almost immediately. After a few days skin will look dewy and fresh which makes me highly addictive to it. You can see it's working.



It's a good remedy from how dry and salty one's mouth can get.
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glasses said:
Kellyrep would be a nightmare to deal with in real life as a prospective relationship with. Type to over-analyze and google everything that you say/do to find out the "true meaning" behind it, then go cold on you out of no where for reasons she learned online.

Sad really, as others have mentioned your constant seeking for validation and describing your attributes really sounds like you are compensating for a lack of and/or lying to feel good about yourself.

either way, you are broken still. Save the "im chillin sippin my chamomile tea not worrying about your response" jive, that's clearly a defense tactic to not show how badly affected you still are.


Your presence on this male-filled forum and lack of personal-accountability (pics) is like a college ball player going to play pick up with middle school kids, you are only doing it to fill a void about something in yourself. Sure, you're going to stand out, but it's for pathetic reasons.
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This. How many times has she come back to the thread after saying she's done? Like 6?
 
Still reading through this thread (on page 4) but I have to say....


I find it awfully funny that while men from an early age (late teens/early 20s) know exactly what they want in a woman.

Whereas women seem to need to go through X amount of men before being able to discern what they want in a man.


For men we usually want a pretty, down to earth, non garden tool, bring home to mom type. A chick that can be self-sufficient and a nurturer essentially.

But for so many women (not all) it's like splitting a freakin atom. They have to break it down to a science. Something as novel & essentially fluid (subject to change) as a man's physical build could be a deal breaker.


IDK. Most of us men who have kids know that women's body's are subject to change. Yes, do we objectify women? Absolutely. Realistically though, I think most men when it comes to relationships are generally a lot less fickle and critical as women are in these matters.

Are there exceptions? Sure. But most guys are not going to feel any less attracted to the woman they love because she gained weight.

But back to my original point, to me, it seems like for the most part men know exactly what they want. The only thing that changes is that over time they have to come to terms with the fact that they're not going to get a down to earth chick with little baggage because women incur so much baggage over time just trying to figure out what they actually want in a man.

Let alone what they want for dinner....
 
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Fontaine said:
bruh...



You must've gotten seriously hurt in the past

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The **** NT has to say about me is like GoT fan theories as this point. :lol: Some of you think I was "seriously hurt in the past", others say "my father must've neglected me". It's a ******* joke really.

All there is to it is that I realized "just be yourself", "money doesnt matter", and other ******** like that aint true. The advice women give men is akin to men telling their daughters "Don't worry sweetheart. All men are gentle, unique creatures, who can prove they are worthy of your trust."

I had to work on myself and get into a good career. So excuse me if I dont take **** advice from any of these swamp rhinos. They can find their stable beta providers in guys who wont learn their lesson. Siphon the money they claim not to care about out of them.
 
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I never imagined that I would be 43 and single. 

After all, I had my life all mapped out. I was voted Most Likely to Succeed  and Best Hair in my small Minnesota High School; I was going places. I was going to graduate from college with honors, naturally, and get a high-powered, high-paying job, buy a house, meet an exceptional guy by the time I was 25 and get married soon after and have a couple of kids before I turned 30 and started to get old. 

Things started out according to plan. I did have good hair. I did graduate from college with honors. did have a decent career run going. I bought my first house at age 24. I did meet an exceptional guy and married him at age 26. I had my son when I was 28, twin girls at 30. But just as I was pulling out of newborn twin haze and getting ready to ease into the-rest-of-my-fabulous-life, the wheels came off (my husband was a cyclist). My marriage imploded, my life fell apart and I was suddenly a single mom at age 32 who hadn't worked since I got married. I had turned into the woman I made fun of when I was young, single, unencumbered and knew everything.

And while that was not very funny to me at the time, I can see a lot of humor in it now. I have grown up in a million ways and can't imagine my evolution happening on any other path. It's amazing what some time (OK, fine, a decade) and a little perspective (and therapy) can do.

I joke with my friends that it's not freaking funny to be dating, perhaps seen naked for the first time, precisely when the body is starting to shift and melt. When you shift and melt with your longtime love, they knew you back in the day, so they see you through a filter of loving timelessness. Or maybe their eyesight is fading too? They know that your soft tummy and breasts were caused by the stretch of growing their beautiful babies, or the lines by your eyes are the product of shared laughs, vacation sun or squinting together into the future. To be middle-aged and single can be rather awkward, especially if you can't laugh about it. We want to date men our own age, but they often go for a second round start up, only to wind up in the exact same place a few years later. If we go younger we're cougars, and if we go older we're trophies. Everyone judges everyone as hastily as the swipe of a Tinder finger. Book, Cover. I think I already read you.  Sometimes married women don't think about this when they feel restless and unappreciated, curious about the other side. 

I call this the Greener Grass phenomenon.

It's basically the same thing women have done throughout history. Curly-haired girls want straight hair, while straight-locked girls use curlers. Tall girls slouch and short girls wear heels; brunettes bleach their hair and blondes go Goth; flat girls get implants and big ta-tas get reductions; young girls dress too old and middle-aged mamas dress too young; fair-skinned maidens bake in the sun and leather ladies get dermabrasion; smart girls play dumb and dumb girls act smart. We wait and wonder about puberty and later wax everything off and get our tubes tied. 

We are in a constant, futile cycle of thinking the grass is always greener.
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It's basically the same thing women have done throughout history. Curly-haired girls want straight hair, while straight-locked girls use curlers. Tall girls slouch and short girls wear heels; brunettes bleach their hair and blondes go Goth; flat girls get implants and big ta-tas get reductions; young girls dress too old and middle-aged mamas dress too young; fair-skinned maidens bake in the sun and leather ladies get dermabrasion; smart girls play dumb and dumb girls act smart. We wait and wonder about puberty and late



Cold world

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Amen.


The greener grass phenomenon.

Once women start overthinking things, it's over.

A woman can legitimately sit there and rationalize her way out of a perfectly good relationship with a good man because something just isn't up to her ideals.


That's where preference and requirements deviate and perhaps where a lot of men and women do too.
 
I dont know what her point is. Is she surprised that its hard to bring a man back to two crying kids? And the type of man (of similar age) she would want is probably successful enough to date 20 year old southern americans with supermodel bodies. She's gonna have to accept that she will almost surely have to settle.
 
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