How did you meet your Girlfriend/Wife?

She actually went after me.

1.5 years after college, she reached out to my boy asking how I was. My boy told me to get at her so I obliged .

I tried to hit her up twice on Facebook and she straight flaked. She would send three messages then stopped responding

My boy told me to go again, and I told him to tell her I specifically said "FDB".

He told her... she felt bad... my boy convinced me to try one more time...

I did, and got the number, so we texted for a bit

Went on a date to wingstop on Christmas Eve... and literally talked till 4 am Christmas morning driving around.



And we've talked everyday since.
 
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She actually went after me.

1.5 years after college, she reached out to my boy asking how I was. My boy told me to get at her so I obliged .

I tried to hit her up twice on Facebook and she straight flaked. She would send three messages then stopped responding

My boy told me to go again, and I told him to tell her I specifically said "FDB".

He told her... she felt bad... my boy convinced me to try one more time...

I did, and got the number, so we texted for a bit

Went on a date to wingstop on Christmas Eve... and literally talked till 4 am Christmas morning driving around.



And we've talked everyday since.
:lol: @ "FDB"

My dude with that ruthless game :nthat:
 
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Met my gf in class. Sat behind her. We never spoke. Until she asked one day if I wanted to be in a study session. We were the only ones to show, and we were cool since then. Was deeply friendzoned until I had my chance to climb out of that hole of no return
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Knew my wife most of my life through mutual family friends. Didn't really "notice" her until summer after my first year in high school. Me and my mans liked her, told him to shoot his shot since that's the type of homie I am, instead he put me on since he realized they'd be better off as friends. Talked on the phone all night during the summer until I finally asked to make it official. 15 years and 2 kids later, we still rockin.
you got a real homie b
 
I met my wife at Krogers grocery store. Long story short I was on the phone crying about some ********. I Seen this chick in the corner of my eye, she kept looking at me smiling. So I politely ask her and said ***** do you got a ****** problem?
She gave me that nasty look and said no, she was wondering why I was crying a thought I was cute but changed her mind and called me a a crying *****. She walked a way. Seen her on the next aisle she picked up a cucumber and I said mine is bigger than that. She busted out laughing. Ever since than we been together. She loved the fact I made her laugh and I still have her laughing 3 years later. We just got Married last Tuesday.

Oh yeah by the way ,I am a female. That's why the cucumber thing was so funny to her.
 
Whoa whoa whoa whooaaaaaa ive never had lesbian friends so how does it work. You see a chick and shoot your shot in hopes of her swingin your way? Curious.
 
Planet Fitness.

I was being a creep, she shot me down because she was in a union already.

Saw her months later in the gym and she made it a point to tell me she was single. :lol: nTwo years later we still together.
 
Planet Fitness.

I was being a creep, she shot me down because she was in a union already.

Saw her months later in the gym and she made it a point to tell me she was single. :lol: nTwo years later we still together.

How were you being a creep? What were you staring her down hard or something?
 
bartender.

asked her to step outside and talk when she gets a break.

she quit a couple months later. Crazy I haven't drank there since. almost like we were meant to meet that night.
 
Y'all making it sound hard. I'm no guru to women. But metting women is fairly easy by just engaging conversation, moving it into something interesting, then just telling them let me take your number down. Im talking beautiful women too.

Y'all foreveralone guys aren't trying.
you're an NT mod though. life must be easy for guys like you.

It's the Admins who get the real groupies though. The stories from the mansion...
 
Ya'll giving a dude hope over here. I am thirsting on this customer that's a no in my book so I am holding out lol
 
Y'all making it sound hard. I'm no guru to women. But metting women is fairly easy by just engaging conversation, moving it into something interesting, then just telling them let me take your number down. Im talking beautiful women too.

Y'all foreveralone guys aren't trying.
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Whoa whoa whoa whooaaaaaa ive never had lesbian friends so how does it work. You see a chick and shoot your shot in hopes of her swingin your way? Curious.




Well for me its depends on where I am at. Gay bar or club it's all free game. Specially, if your my ideal women . Now outside those limits I am cautious at time due to the fact a few chicks will cuss my *** out, plus you can't tell who is a fem , but majority of the time I try my luck. All you have to do is start a conversation. I have the worse gaydar!!! Studs/ Stems get hit on more due to the fact you obviously can tell that we are lesbians.

Here's some lingo from the lesbian Cummuntiy well the black one:

FEM: your typical women who loves her clothes, makeup and shoes. She tends to dress on the femmy side. Example : Portia de Rossi or

STUD: a dominant lesbian, usually get confused for a guy sometimes. Also known as butch
Example: Brittant Griner.

STEM: a lesbian who identifies somewhere between stud and fem. when you see them you really can't figure out if she just a tomboy or gay. I am in this category .
Example: Ellen , Queen Latifah
 
Whoa whoa whoa whooaaaaaa ive never had lesbian friends so how does it work. You see a chick and shoot your shot in hopes of her swingin your way? Curious.




Well for me its depends on where I am at. Gay bar or club it's all free game. Specially, if your my ideal women . Now outside those limits I am cautious at time due to the fact a few chicks will cuss my *** out, plus you can't tell who is a fem , but majority of the time I try my luck. All you have to do is start a conversation. I have the worse gaydar!!! Studs/ Stems get hit on more due to the fact you obviously can tell that we are lesbians.

Here's some lingo from the lesbian Cummuntiy well the black one:

FEM: your typical women who loves her clothes, makeup and shoes. She tends to dress on the femmy side. Example : Portia de Rossi or

STUD: a dominant lesbian, usually get confused for a guy sometimes. Also known as butch
Example: Brittant Griner.

STEM: a lesbian who identifies somewhere between stud and fem. when you see them you really can't figure out if she just a tomboy or gay. I am in this category .
Example: Ellen , Queen Latifah
Can the D change your mind?
 
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