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Clinical Psychologist: 'Women Hate Harmless Men'


Daniel Lattier | June 27, 2017

Clinical Psychologist: 'Women Hate Harmless Men'
Many modern men have been propagandized to believe that modern women want nice, sensitive, empathetic guys who make them feel safe.

And then they are perplexed and frustrated when they eventually find themselves dumped, divorced, or relegated to the friend-zone for perpetuity.

According to Jordan Peterson—clinical psychologist, professor of psychology at the University of Toronto, and popular speaker—such results are not surprising. When he spoke to a gathering of people earlier this year, his thoughts on what women really want in a man supported a stereotype that still has popular cachet: that women are attracted to ********.








Okay, so there’s a bit of hyperbole in the stereotype. I don’t really believe that “*******” is the most accurate designation for the kind of man that a woman wants. But the hyperbole gets at a truth that Peterson more eloquently teases out in his thoughts, some of which I have transcribed below. (By the way, his thoughts came in the context of comments on the topic of cultural appropriation, which he said is “absolute nonsense”.)

“It’s been really interesting for me to watch the response… of young Caucasian males to hip-hop. You know, there’s an aggressiveness about hip-hop that’s really attractive to young Caucasian males. And there’s something absurd about the spectacle of the young Caucasian males taking on the persona of inner-city black gang members. But I’m sympathetic to it because there’s an aggressiveness to that art form that’s a necessary corrective to the insistence that the highest moral virtue for a modern man is harmlessness—which is absurd.

Women don’t even like harmless men; they hate them. They like to claw them apart. What women want are dangerous men who are civilized; and they want to help civilize them. That’s Beauty and the Beast.

[…]

How many of you know what a Harlequin Romance is?... So those are archetypal stories. That’s the taming of the wild man, essentially, by the desirable and virginal woman. And if you think women don’t want that then you bloody better well come up with an explanation for Fifty Shades of Grey, which is the most rapid-selling novel in human history, and emerged at exactly the same time as all of this noise about the absence of gender roles is being produced en masse.”

Peterson further bolstered his case by revealing a blush-worthy statistic: what Google engineers discovered as “the five most desirable male entities” used in female pornography. They were:


1) Vampire
2) Werewolf
3) Billionaire
4) Surgeon
5) Pirate

As you’ll notice, weak guys that act like doormats to women didn’t crack the top five.



Dan is the Vice President of Intellectual Takeout. He received his B.A. in Philosophy and Catholic Studies from the University of St. Thomas (MN), and his M.A. and Ph.D. in Systematic Theology from Duquesne University in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. You can find his academic work at Academia.edu.


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I think age plays a factor as well. In my younger days dealing with younger women they cherished and were drawn to that ******/spontaneous personality I had.

Now approaching 30, women my age age or older want that stability and consistency. I mean you still have to be a man but women after a while tend to reproritize there standards to fit a lifestyle they want down the line.

Some have no choice but to be the side piece and hence will always chase the bad boy with the good women wife. Game is crazy like that.
 
Nah a chick in her 30s/40s still get wet when they know you can handle yourself.

This is true though.

But most women know that you can't invest/plan your future off of long slims and sex. Well - if they want a chance at happiness that is.

So when it comes to companionship a mature women knows that bad boy life leads to chaos and heartache.
 
sometimes studies that prove the obvious are necessary to separate demonstrable fact from "common knowledge."

I'll remind the jaded that there's a flat Earth thread dated 2017.
 
Nah a chick in her 30s/40s still get wet when they know you can handle yourself.

This is true though.

But most women know that you can't invest/plan your future off of long slims and sex. Well - if they want a chance at happiness that is.

So when it comes to companionship a mature women knows that bad boy life leads to chaos and heartache.

Best balance is them knowing about some ill **** in your past but knowing you're stable now. Guaranteed they'll never forget any of your street **** and will tell it as some badge of honor no matter if ih luh lie leboud badenboujie or not. It's something primal to them just to know that savage is laying low in the cut if needed.

sometimes studies that prove the obvious are necessary to separate demonstrable fact from "common knowledge."

I'll remind the jaded that there's a flat Earth thread dated 2017.

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we need some women/girls to chime in.

We all dudes in here telling each other what girls want even the article was written by a dude. :lol:
 
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we need some women/girls to chime in.

We all dudes in here telling each other what girls want even the article was written by a dude. :lol:

To be fair, i've heard women say and advise other young men that they want that kind, gentle sensitive soul with a stable job then have kids with shooters that have 3 other baby mothers.
 
we need some women/girls to chime in.

We all dudes in here telling each other what girls want even the article was written by a dude.
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How many women are actually going to admit that they don't want a nice guy?
 
To be fair, i've heard women say and advise other young men that they want that kind, gentle sensitive soul with a stable job then have kids with shooters that have 3 other baby mothers.

sounds like you heard girls not women's :lol:
 
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this isnt news tho we all know nice guys finish last :rolleyes

Not necessarily nice guys. I'm a nice guy. Do I finish last? No

Its the guys that are yes men. They think they can get a girl to like them by being nice and agreeable. They don't make moves and are way way too chill and not aggressive in getting the draws

Basically they're sofT. That's a turn off for anybody
 
and then these same broads complain about getting beat, cheated on and left with kids [emoji]128514[/emoji][emoji]128514[/emoji][emoji]128514[/emoji][emoji]128514[/emoji][emoji]128514[/emoji]
 
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