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Honestly **** like this scares me and has kept me up some nights in the past. Even though I've moved on and have no regrets about my divorce, the safety of my children is a HUGE concern for me and the only reason I stayed in a bad marriage for longer than I needed to.
The worst part is I don't trust my ex's judgement AT ALL and even though I stay out of her business, her poor judgement worries me. She seems to have a care free attitude about bringing men around my kids and thinks it's all good, but doesn't realize that predators out there look for women eager for companionship.
And with her one-upper attitude she would be all about picking a dude based on all the wrong things.
Bro it's better to be safe than sorry. If you have to go to court and make a request that you should be allow to meet every dude that is around your children or no men should be around your children until a certain point, do it. Stuff like this happens all the time as much motherly instincts women inherit they always have selfish moment. Make sure your children are in good hands