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^Then open your eyes, learn the game and use your status as leverage.
EDIT 3: Why do successful black women think successful men care about their money?
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Because Mr hood dude has nothing to lose. You sound like your in the right lane. Step your game up and do a better job putting yourself out there.. Nothing is giving to you.
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Wait I'm confused.Aren't most good black men too "corny" or "lame" for a lot of these women? Smh
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lol@men not being able to find women...
Tyrone on probation at his moms house bashing the back out of with the same women you are too afraid to strike up a convo with.
Tyrone on probation at his moms house bashing the back out of with the same women you are too afraid to strike up a convo with.
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@oidreez my grandfather told me it's in you not on you..some are born with the gift of gab and others learn it throughout life
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not to play devils advocate but any women brought into this world has it easy, because at the end of the day there daddies little girl and her father will always provide a path for her like college or she just got to wait for the right man to come along. meanwhile us men have to fend for our own and discover the challenges of life tru trial and error. They're are exceptions where a female isn't aided in becoming a successful women.
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Exactly. People go for people who are like them. So a woman with a job, education, and is heading in the right direction in life will usually go for a guy with those same qualities.I love that everyone in here is complaining about professional black women's LOFTY or UNREALISTIC expectations. Expectations include: no felonies, college degree...work a real job.
Y'all act like every black women expects a black man to have Lebron's bank account. Stop. The bar is UNBELIEVABLY low for y'all but a VERY LARGE PERCENTAGE of y'all would rather drop out of high school, commit felonies, make babies you don't support, and or take a couple of college classes with no direction.
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نفس الشاي أخي. مين علمتك العربية؟أنا تعبت من هذه المناقشة.الحمدلله أنا تمام. كف حالك يا باشاSalaam. Kaif alhal?As a dude who speaks Arabic and has spent a significant amount of time in the Middle East/Africa, Arab women are worse then American girls. There sense of entitlement is sky high. African girls are alright, depends what part of Africa your talking about though. East African girls >>>>
Never met a girl from Haiti before though. My inbox is open
Count me in with the men who dont want a challenge
. Life is hard enough as it is
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at some of the reckless ignorance being thrown around in here...
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The video wasnt made about black males not being able to find wives. Its not us felony committing HS dropouts who are having problems finding spouses. If those were there standards they would have no issue finding husbandsI love that everyone in here is complaining about professional black women's LOFTY or UNREALISTIC expectations. Expectations include: no felonies, college degree...work a real job.Y'all act like every black women expects a black man to have Lebron's bank account. Stop. The bar is UNBELIEVABLY low for y'all but a VERY LARGE PERCENTAGE of y'all would rather drop out of high school, commit felonies, make babies you don't support, and or take a couple of college classes with no direction.
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So much truth, Screw all that talk about careers, I know some broke dudes that smash and have these so call "Success black females", Cashing out on them and giving up that box at will.
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And gets stats from stormfront.
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You created a NT account just to post in the Dwade thread and this thread
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Not enough pics in this thread.
Would like to say that if you're black and as successful as you think you are, and you can't get black women...why bother. There will definitely be some great black girls who are everything you're looking for, but if you can't find them and don't feel like waiting around then there are many other white, asian, hispanic, arab, etc. women that would love to date an intelligent black dude. They come with their own set of issues (as does every woman regardless of color) but if they're down and you're feelin them, why waste any time.
I grew up living in the suburbs AND in Flint, MI (i.e. the gutter) and I've seen how many different black women act in many different circumstances. Seems like in many instances (disclaimer: NOT ALL INSTANCES) the ones from the burbs either a) want a hood dude to make themselves feel better about their own "success" or b) feel the need to beat into you how successful they are while threatening that they're still "hood" enough to do blah blah blah. Not very attractive. Meanwhile, the hood girls judge you and feel you're too bourgeois / not "real". Either way, if you're willing to play the right games the right way, then you can probably still bag any of the individuals described above. Honestly, the aforementioned types are really stereotypical and not indicative of the entire population... but if they ARE what you're dealing with, and you can't wait for that right black girl...then like I said above, go to something else.
Would like to say that if you're black and as successful as you think you are, and you can't get black women...why bother. There will definitely be some great black girls who are everything you're looking for, but if you can't find them and don't feel like waiting around then there are many other white, asian, hispanic, arab, etc. women that would love to date an intelligent black dude. They come with their own set of issues (as does every woman regardless of color) but if they're down and you're feelin them, why waste any time.
I grew up living in the suburbs AND in Flint, MI (i.e. the gutter) and I've seen how many different black women act in many different circumstances. Seems like in many instances (disclaimer: NOT ALL INSTANCES) the ones from the burbs either a) want a hood dude to make themselves feel better about their own "success" or b) feel the need to beat into you how successful they are while threatening that they're still "hood" enough to do blah blah blah. Not very attractive. Meanwhile, the hood girls judge you and feel you're too bourgeois / not "real". Either way, if you're willing to play the right games the right way, then you can probably still bag any of the individuals described above. Honestly, the aforementioned types are really stereotypical and not indicative of the entire population... but if they ARE what you're dealing with, and you can't wait for that right black girl...then like I said above, go to something else.
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Man I know who coffeeblack is...
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This is definitely happening, and no one can hate on these dudes. Only question I'd ask is whether you really want to be with the "successful" chicks that Tyrone is smashing out. If she thinks she has a solid future with a broke, jobless cat on probation, then I don't think I want her DNA in my children.
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Spill the beans homie.Man I know who coffeeblack is...
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Look at the writing...using the same terms and ****...
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Just compare the posts of coffee black with tally or whatever...then look at another NTers post...it ain't hard to tell.
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A female with a accredited education, car, home and a middle class salary before we put our taxes together is successful to me, yes. Why can't women desire someone who has the same accomplishments as them? Like I previously said I don't see successful women asking for things beyond their level, I see women who make 25K looking for a man who a Mercedes and a six figure salary.
Tell a woman who does something with her life you can't see her/sex her because you're studying/workingshe'll be there rubbing your back while the pasta is boiling
You mean telling a black woman you'll be over after your under employed, unmotivated *** smokes a blunt and finishes playing Xbox, or after you leave court "for some bull***" isn't attractive? No way! What's next, are you going to tell me black women are turned off when a buster needs to "hold" $20 for some gas money or asks for a black woman to put a Best Buy credit card in her name so he can cop a Samsung LED??!
What?
So you're just going to ignore statistics that state otherwise huh
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I think I may have misunderstood your post - Are you saying a woman making 25k is in the same degree of success as a guy who owns a Mercedes making six figures?
That aside (since I'm not sure that's what you meant), having an "accredited" education, a car, a home, and a middle class salary can be really impressive, or extremely unimpressive. You definitely have to be more specific. For one, where is the degree from? Two, what kind of car, and where is the home? Three, what salary are we talking here? There's a huge range in all of the characteristics you posted lol.
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