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Man what?legalize prostitution.
Easy to blame it on housing and living styles, but I think its much simpler than that. Its our egos. America is full of people who don't even have $1000 in savings that have the expectation that working hard will make them a millionaire. We assume that our standard of living has to be tied to our income, and will often needlessly spend to make that self fulfilling prophecy come true. We think that our desire to watch Game of Thrones or the latest 30 for 30 trumps interacting with our neighbors, catch up with old friends, or engaging with our communities.
If you travel or have friends from abroad, ask them what they think about Americans and how Americans view themselves. We have a very unique way of holding ourselves above others in a holier than thou art way. I think the American ego can help explain why some of us are so xenophobic, selfish, entitled, and why we behave the way we do.
@TraPpStar, that was some great advice and I couldn't have said it better myself.
Destruction of the family unit is a universal problem. Don't drink alone
And some don't even care enough to ask then wonder why they do the things they do.Family structure. People in the same household don't even interact anymore. Parents can't tell you what's going on with their own kids.
Not trying to throw shade or play psychiatrist, but from everything you've posted this sounds a lot like you:I'm not surprised to see somebody react with thinly veiled disdain if I talk about myself. almost everyone does if I ever begin to talk about myself so I've learned not to bar very rare occasions. due to people reacting with annoyance and becoming unsettled/making excuses to get away from me and insulting me for no reason I have conceded long ago that I am socially impossible to be around. I don't fully understand why and find it bizarre, I'm a pretty inoffensive person and keep myself to myself, never done any crimes etc, but going on the evidence, like above and numerous other times I must be.
I have seen a few therapists but I had to quit each one as honestly, only a gullible moron would be able to believe their life is better by going into a room with some overpaid left wing muppet and think their problems are solved. I'm far too clever for therapy, unfortunately, because my life would be fantastic if I was stupid enough to be tricked by a therapist.
with the 195 friends I deleted, they were more casual aquaintences and drinking associates in my early 20s rather than people I care about or who indeed cared about me. I've never had a proper group of friends that we're suitable as I have nothing in common with my local community. I do/did envy these aquaintences for their success but only because they're doing nothing different than I tried and easily, undeservedly in many cases suceeding. why should I break my neck to stay in touch? they all had my number and didn't bother keeping in touch, so obviously they're not a proper friend and I'm within my rights to think of them as a complete c*** and forget all about them.
as I said, being a realist, I have seen no evidence that I will be able to magically attain all the things I want, so I see no point trying to get them. Ive already spent about 20 years trying to get things I've always wanted and have found that I have no opportunity or ability to get this list of things that would make me happy. so there's no point having more failures, I accept the position I'm in and I go day to day, month to month living as easy as I can and relaxing and waiting for the 40 years to tick off. each year seems to pass very quickly the older I get, so happy days.
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Sorry but there's no way someone has 195 friends.with the 195 friends I deleted, they were more casual aquaintences and drinking associates in my early 20s rather than people I care about or who indeed cared about me. I've never had a proper group of friends that we're suitable as I have nothing in common with my local community.
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A lot of mass shooter don't get yambs, Sexual frustration of young men does add fuel to the fire.
But white supremacy is America's biggest problem imo. It is like a cancer inflecting and destroying so many things.
The irony of the situation is that the system of white supremacy hurts many poor white people, since it is now entangled with neoliberalism. Yet that demographic are the biggest supporters of both
i read an article that the suburbs are growing again, instead of the cities...
Excessive suburbanization, long commutes and desolate urban spaces are all examples of how white supremacy manifests itself in many different ways.
imma city dude, but i aint knocking anyone who wants to bounce to da burbs.
to call it anything other than what it is (having a preference where to live) is pullin cards...
Your right and wrong.
i read an article that the suburbs are growing again, instead of the cities...
I'm guilty of this. What's a good solution?so true
Go out and socialize as much as possible or drink booze.