Well to deal with depression, I think the best thing to do is to identify the thing that upsets me and just accept it. Like I just straight up decided not to go to prom this Saturday; I had a group of 10 set up with only two friends who I'm always cool with, had a suit on deck from last year, had some girl I could have gone with but never talked to ever besides recently, but during this past week, I've just said "%+%$ it, I don't want to do this." I've accepted my problem of hating to hang out in large groups. If I talk to people normally, why drop $40+ and dress up on one day just to prove that I can socialize? It's been a socially accepted thing, but I just don't agree with it. And I'm okay with people being mad or thinking how stupid my logic is. I'm fine. I'm not salty about anything, just I don't understand the reasoning behind it. Friends don't need dances or social events to prove that they are worthy friends.Originally Posted by MikeTysontheKiller
Title says it all. What do each and everyone of you do to have more positive energy incoming to your lives?
Why aren't you out partying? It's friday
Step it son....Originally Posted by Dynamic X
Well to deal with depression, I think the best thing to do is to identify the thing that upsets me and just accept it. Like I just straight up decided not to go to prom this Saturday; I had a group of 10 set up with only two friends who I'm always cool with, had a suit on deck from last year, had some girl I could have gone with but never talked to ever besides recently, but during this past week, I've just said "%+%$ it, I don't want to do this." I've accepted my problem of hating to hang out in large groups. If I talk to people normally, why drop $40+ and dress up on one day just to prove that I can socialize? It's been a socially accepted thing, but I just don't agree with it. And I'm okay with people being mad or thinking how stupid my logic is. I'm fine. I'm not salty about anything, just I don't understand the reasoning behind it. Friends don't need dances or social events to prove that they are worthy friends.Originally Posted by MikeTysontheKiller
Title says it all. What do each and everyone of you do to have more positive energy incoming to your lives?
Why aren't you out partying? It's friday
Like it's just that I can't handle being with too many people at once that I have to give my energy towards. School is different because you can tune out anyone you want, but I just feel uncomfortable trying to give off the impression the entire time that I want to talk to all of those people during things like prom or dances or etc.
I smoked a bit with my good friend today who was pretty cool about my situation and said that everyone has their own ups and downs, although he is going to prom. So I've decided to just stop worrying about it and it's been pretty relaxing just knowing I'm happy with my decision.
Word. What kind of insecure *!*% is that?
EL OH EL!Originally Posted by ricky robot
Word. What kind of insecure *!*% is that?
Originally Posted by Dynamic X
Well to deal with depression, I think the best thing to do is to identify the thing that upsets me and just accept it. Like I just straight up decided not to go to prom this Saturday; I had a group of 10 set up with only two friends who I'm always cool with, had a suit on deck from last year, had some girl I could have gone with but never talked to ever besides recently, but during this past week, I've just said "%+%$ it, I don't want to do this." I've accepted my problem of hating to hang out in large groups. If I talk to people normally, why drop $40+ and dress up on one day just to prove that I can socialize? It's been a socially accepted thing, but I just don't agree with it. And I'm okay with people being mad or thinking how stupid my logic is. I'm fine. I'm not salty about anything, just I don't understand the reasoning behind it. Friends don't need dances or social events to prove that they are worthy friends.Originally Posted by MikeTysontheKiller
Title says it all. What do each and everyone of you do to have more positive energy incoming to your lives?
Why aren't you out partying? It's friday
Like it's just that I can't handle being with too many people at once that I have to give my energy towards. School is different because you can tune out anyone you want, but I just feel uncomfortable trying to give off the impression the entire time that I want to talk to all of those people during things like prom or dances or etc.
I smoked a bit with my good friend today who was pretty cool about my situation and said that everyone has their own ups and downs, although he is going to prom. So I've decided to just stop worrying about it and it's been pretty relaxing just knowing I'm happy with my decision.
