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Haha I would've been like "Wow thats so nice of you to pick up my tab. I haven't seen many girls do that on the first date. Impressive.." and gauged her reaction
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Trust me, don't pre judge girls on paying for the first date. It means nothing if they don't volunteer to pay.
Just make sure she likes you. If she really likes you and you bring up her treating you, she will on date 2 or 3.
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Juggling more than 1 is easy
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Not much, but there was some inappropriate talk that led to a warning from Meth for everyone to tone it down.YO!
Anything I should catch up on in here? Thread seems to be doing quite well without me
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Only reason I told my dude to use the "forehead" kiss was because he is dealing with a passive aggressive woman in a new age relationship and this will quickly tame all that fridged air..
Lol..
That move should only be regulated to your love or someone you are truly interested in or in a relationship. That is a final form, DBZ move and can not be used on randoms or your asking for a world of hurt. When my wife gets angry, I pull that move and she completely opens up and lets me know her problems(especially with her being pregnant, hormones are on a hundred-thousand-trillion)..
Also I always used two rules on the first date..
If I asked the girl out, I normally paid and thought nothing of it..
Now when I was just about *******, I picked things or events that were fun, no intimate situations and that relaxed the pressure on who paid for what because we knew in the end we were just smashing. Now some women will offer to pay if two scenerios:
They are about their grown woman biz( independence) and what to show they are confident within themselves.
Or..
They don't want anything held over their head. Meaning a lot of dudes feel that you are automatically supposed to get guaranteed yambs because you tricked off on a expensive meal or drink. Wrong, sex is never guaranteed, so just throwing money out there for a short cut will have you looking foolish,(did that in my early years, smh..) I also agree with my brethren, at least "pretend" you are going to pay so I can waive you off, that at least gives me the impression you won't be a princess if things go good for the duration of our "friendship"..
Also sometimes throw some type of witty banter to gauge where this females head is really at.
"Well I got drinks and dinner,what's desert looking like"
*Sly Smile*
Opens dialogue up for actually desert or yambs..
Also there are times if the dating situation is looking bleak or just down right awful, take the L and tell the truth, pay for YOUR meal, part ways and on to the next...
Lol..
That move should only be regulated to your love or someone you are truly interested in or in a relationship. That is a final form, DBZ move and can not be used on randoms or your asking for a world of hurt. When my wife gets angry, I pull that move and she completely opens up and lets me know her problems(especially with her being pregnant, hormones are on a hundred-thousand-trillion)..
Also I always used two rules on the first date..
If I asked the girl out, I normally paid and thought nothing of it..
Now when I was just about *******, I picked things or events that were fun, no intimate situations and that relaxed the pressure on who paid for what because we knew in the end we were just smashing. Now some women will offer to pay if two scenerios:
They are about their grown woman biz( independence) and what to show they are confident within themselves.
Or..
They don't want anything held over their head. Meaning a lot of dudes feel that you are automatically supposed to get guaranteed yambs because you tricked off on a expensive meal or drink. Wrong, sex is never guaranteed, so just throwing money out there for a short cut will have you looking foolish,(did that in my early years, smh..) I also agree with my brethren, at least "pretend" you are going to pay so I can waive you off, that at least gives me the impression you won't be a princess if things go good for the duration of our "friendship"..
Also sometimes throw some type of witty banter to gauge where this females head is really at.
"Well I got drinks and dinner,what's desert looking like"
*Sly Smile*
Opens dialogue up for actually desert or yambs..
Also there are times if the dating situation is looking bleak or just down right awful, take the L and tell the truth, pay for YOUR meal, part ways and on to the next...
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Juggling isn't that hard.
You just have to build your team right. Girls have to know their roles. You can't have role players asking for starter minutes. And you have to make that known and if they're not down then cut them
You just have to build your team right. Girls have to know their roles. You can't have role players asking for starter minutes. And you have to make that known and if they're not down then cut them
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Truth right here.
It's like getting that second job and after the 2 nights a week ya'll agree to , they keep scheduling you 4 days. You gotta cut them loose. The trick for me is setting ground rules from the jump. Women appreciate honesty, I usually just tell them I don't need to see someone in person that often to show that I care for them, they eat it up. Plus it's true in a way.
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Even though I know it's not biologically possible, I just "f'ed" my girl onto her period.
I feel like a champ.
I feel like a champ.
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I don't understand
You smashed while she was on her period?
Or you smashing somehow caused her to begin her period?
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I believe he knocked her on her period early. I've had it happen to me a couple of times and it's kinda...shocking
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lls. You weren't ok with it and you still paid? Backbone. I wouldn't have said nothing until the end and then told the waitress or whatever to split that ish. I really can't get with that entitlement. You've now set a precedent in terms of principle in regards to how she's going to view you I think...But I think differently and don't have the most experience in the world, so maybe that's just what it is. I don't know.
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Quote:
I got want I wanted. I ain't worried bout it
Lol brother I didn't set a precedent in regards to **** because there will be no further dates
I got want I wanted. I ain't worried bout it
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First date or not, i feel when you're going out to dinner or lunch on a first date it is customary for the dude to pay, or like someone else said, If I initiated, i'ma pay.
now if it was like first meeting and we're getting drinks at a bar. (which can get hella expensensvie) that's when it's ok to be like..."yo so i had 2 gin and tonics. heres my $7"
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Mine was on hers this weekend. Made her go twice in one session, first time she has ever had multiples at all... and it was on her period
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They just trying make you feel special, bet money chick felt them cramps earlier in the day and risked it to get the D
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What did you want/get? Maybe I missed it
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Dome in the whip
The funny thing is that we had practically nothing in common, and even funnier is that she hasn't hit me up once since that night. Regrets maybe?
I ain't stressing. I met this super thick Dominican chick 2 days ago. Mad intelligent. Digging her. Wanting to dig her. But once school starts, imma have to fall back. Gotta pull my grades up
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The thing is, I've never had a team to begin with. I've always been a one woman guy. Talking to more than 2 women at a time has always been a chore for me since I get distracted easily.
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You just need players who don't need plays run for them and will just hustle and play D aka FWBs who just smash and have no other comm with. Those shouldn't be a chore
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Dudes get hung up on the wife type of chick and just date her. That's cool, but I say try that party girl or ratchet out mane, just one time.
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^ I feel like every man owes it to himself to try every type of girl out there from the church goers to the sloots
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Yeah, don't be that dude that didn't realize he married a bird till late because he didn't have enough experience to tell the difference. Those old cats commit suicide.
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Real talk. I've been with every type of chick except a celebrity. Good life experience
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