Acting Different

[bkroc915]

Recently i realized i often change the way i act around different types of people. Around older people i act different then when I'm around people my ageor around my age. I act different when i hang out with rich people then when I'm with poorer friends. Girls/Guys, Family/Friends. I know pretty mucheveryone does this to a degree, but am I just adapting to the circumstances or am i not being myself ?

 

[jfmartimcdandruff]

i once did this, but now i act like my true self around my friends, family, strangers...be yourself bro, don't change yourself to make others like you

 

[trapmuzik617]

Seems like you just tryin to fit in to me...

Be yourself homie... if not you'll never kno who likes you for you

... yep that was my one positive thing for today. straight ignant for the remainder
















BURRR!

 

[kix4kix]

You are adapting, it is a survival mechanism. Continue to do so, some call it being fake meh

 

[vanillagorilladx]

There's a line between adapting to certain social situations and being fake.

 

[curiousgeorg3]

i noticed i speak more ebonically around ebonies, same goes for different groups of friends

 

[User 37837]

Originally Posted by VanillaGorillaDX

There's a line between adapting to certain social situations and being fake.

Bingo.

 

[ca5perrr]

^^yup i mean ur obviously not gonna be act exactly the same around EVERYONE, you dont talk to your mom how u talk to ur boys,

 

[danzinreallife]

Originally Posted by VanillaGorillaDX

There's a line between adapting to certain social situations and being fake.

QFT.

 

[wildout4]

you can still be yourself even if you act different around certain people.

 

[menacei2is0ciety]

Originally Posted by DanzInRealLife

Originally Posted by VanillaGorillaDX

There's a line between adapting to certain social situations and being fake.

QFT.

+1

 

[krazy]

That's how I am.

 

[kanyewestjayz4life]

Originally Posted by DanzInRealLife

Originally Posted by VanillaGorillaDX

There's a line between adapting to certain social situations and being fake.

QFT.

Totally agree. My prob is telling people the truth, i feel like they cant handleit and still be friends. I might of worded it wrong, but yea.

 

[JayDean03]

Originally Posted by Lil Cao

That's how I am.

its automatic. i'm like that round my bro(bestfriend) and my family. I'm jus a straight up jokester, but when i'm at the crib, youwont see none of that.

 

[acidicality]

that's how i am too, but i think that's natural. you just wanna be able to adapt to your environment. however, you gotta be able to maintain part ofyourself and just be yourself-i gotta work on this too

 

[davidisgodly]

only the weakest animals cannot adapt to their environment

 

[solewoman]

Originally Posted by VanillaGorillaDX

There's a line between adapting to certain social situations and being fake.

agreed.

 

[mustbefire]

I do the same exact thing but In my case i teeter on the extremes sometimes. I've been in college for 3 years now and I have learned to adapt to mydifferent situations has increased tremendously. We I come back to the crib though my homeboys look at me differently because I have shed some of my ignorantways for more productive ones and it made me question whither I was being fake, but over some time you learn that change is inevitable if you want to progressin life. With that said, keeping doing you and forget the haters cause they just want to keep you at their level.

 

[jeenewed]

Originally Posted by ca5perrr

^^yup i mean ur obviously not gonna be act exactly the same around EVERYONE, you dont talk to your mom how u talk to ur boys,

QFT.

 

[theabove]

Originally Posted by JFMartiMcDandruff

i once did this, but now i act like my true self around my friends, family, strangers...be yourself bro, don't change yourself to make others like you

Just be you fam...

Adapt to certain scenarios when need be but never lie to yourself and your inner core.

You'll start to appreciate those friends that you can count on your hand because they know the real you.

 

[nothin4ever]

its your " EGO "

its not apart of you ..let it goooo

 

[lb510]

Originally Posted by VanillaGorillaDX

There's a line between adapting to certain social situations and being fake.

QFT

 

[eight2one]

i for the most part stay the same, but there are slight differences around people.

 

[ookslord]

Originally Posted by KanyeWestJayZ4life

Originally Posted by DanzInRealLife

Originally Posted by VanillaGorillaDX

There's a line between adapting to certain social situations and being fake.

QFT.

Totally agree. My prob is telling people the truth, i feel like they cant handle it and still be friends. I might of worded it wrong, but yea.

i have to agree myself....

 

[neptunebeats187]

Originally Posted by VanillaGorillaDX

There's a line between adapting to certain social situations and being fake.

QFT.

You are not going to act the same way you do around your boys or at home or whatever the same at work or a professional place.