Adding a smile, ! or lol when communicating by text to females - discussion

[slimm75]

It shows your soft side...kind of a good thing to do

 

[th0mas cr0wn]

the OP is right, it works

but you can't OD on it. have to use them at the right time

 

[harlem]

Originally Posted by Late80s

 

[cucumbercool]

yes surely

 

[i drink your milkshake]

Originally Posted by ridingonlorenzos

is it just me, or has anybody noticed that when you add a

when talking to a girl in a computer instant messaging, email, or cell phone SMS situation, it can make magic happen? Same applies for exclamation marks! If your out of things to say, slap on an lol or even an LOL. It just makes one seem more open and approachable I suppose.

For example, I had to ask my manager who is a female for a certain day off of work which I knew was gonna be nearly impossible. Being the ladies man that I am, I knew adding a

would quickly put me at an advantage.
Another example, but one many can relate too, is asking a girl to chill by texting there cellys, and you add a

. You never get turned down. Especially when you are handsome.

Discuss

I honestly throw in a smile to anyone, regardless of sex, just to show I am half joking or seem more approachable (like you said)

However, smiles with the tongue out I ONLY send to the males. Exclamation points seem like the sender is being sarcastic, so I generally don't respond towell to those.....

 

[dearwinter219]

Originally Posted by harlem

Originally Posted by soltheman

!#%$@*% love smilie faces.

i came in here to say that

....and it had been said, so I left.

 

[chockiwi]

I think "aww" but that doesn't mean an automatic yes but it does catch my attention.. it is magic I suppose...

 

[jp310]

Originally Posted by soltheman

!#%$@*% love smilie faces.

1st thing i thought of

 

[bamez]

I personally believe that the smiley face features are gomo. I veer away from using lol, a haha or a hahah are good.

 

[limitedretroog]

Originally Posted by harlem

soltheman wrote:

---

!#%$@*% love smilie faces.

i came in here to say that

Same here!

Oh yes, I'm a sucker for "

".

 

[mc otaku]

smiley faces are the truth

 

[ghostwriter]

Yeah I hit the smiley sign with girls like this....

Here's their response.....

 

[ratxaxtat]

"

" makes him weak though.

 

[sc415]

Yo some people be od the smiley faces tho..n the lol's..! I be like what the Fudge.

 

[tony ayooo]

Originally Posted by Late80s

 

[the rat pack is back]

Originally Posted by IM A HELION

Originally Posted by StocksandBonds85

Originally Posted by NothinAfter

you can say the most freakiest thing to a chick....

but if you put "lol" behind it...you're good

for example

lets say she's a chick that dont let anyone hit

she respects her self

you can say

"man if i was ever alone with you i was straight murder you in the bed lol

man everytime i do that they always ask me "whats so funny?" complete backfire

You not doin it right, fam. I'm bout to PM you a convo that me and this girl been havin on Facebook...you talkin bout e-game? Peep this.......

let me get that PM

 

[hyphysole]

When girls give me that smilie, i start working MY magic

 

[mdwst9]

UPDATE: just used one n it got me some booty pics n im waitin on the nudes

thanks smily face

 

[Deleted member 38182]

Originally Posted by Much Respected

smiling shows weakness

I never smile if I can help it. Showing one's teeth is a submission signal in primates. When someone smiles at me, all I see is a chimpanzeebegging for its life.

 

[weekend girl]

Originally Posted by RATxAxTAT

"

" makes him weak though.

so does '

'

It will make them reply back with the quickness too

 

[longrange3ball]

it works sometimes... but sometimes it doesnt.

guess it depends on the girl.

the last one i tried with a smiley or something, i didn't get the response i was lookin for.... FTL.

 

[deletedelete]

smiley faces are the truth

 

[ratxaxtat]

Originally Posted by mdwst9

UPDATE: just used one n it got me some booty pics n im waitin on the nudes

thanks smily face

You sound like one of those informercials.

 

[mdwst9]

Originally Posted by RATxAxTAT

Originally Posted by mdwst9

UPDATE: just used one n it got me some booty pics n im waitin on the nudes

thanks smily face

You sound like one of those informercials.

that was my plan shawty.

 

[verdykt]

Yo some people be od the smiley faces tho..n the lol's..! I be like what the Fudge.