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Advice I took from NT has really helped me in real life.
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NT, I've been messing with this girl for 2 weeks now since school started. I've slept over her place a few times (no smash, shes an angel). She then hit me up with a TL;DR text saying how she's not ready for a relationship and just wants to !$@$ around.
How do I get her to sweat me even more? Should I not text her as often?
How do I get her to sweat me even more? Should I not text her as often?
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NT, I've been messing with this girl for 2 weeks now since school started. I've slept over her place a few times (no smash, shes an angel). She then hit me up with a TL;DR text saying how she's not ready for a relationship and just wants to !$@$ around.
How do I get her to sweat me even more? Should I not text her as often?
How do I get her to sweat me even more? Should I not text her as often?
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Who says thats a problem?
It actually helps when they have something to lose. Less likely to get out of line.
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Who says thats a problem?
It actually helps when they have something to lose. Less likely to get out of line.
jthagreat prolly gave the best advice for anyone on this subject. Just don't harass these females bros. You'll become nothing but a bug-a-boo to them. The one her and her friends clown when you call/text. My best results have come when I blatantly said I'm tryin to smash. Just flat out say it. No laughin, no joking They'll probably be down, if you planted the seeds correctly. All you have to do is be assertive with the females. Whether you're trying to wife, date, smash or play video games. Females will not make the first move, especially when it comes to this subject. No matter how many times they claim they're independent
jthagreat prolly gave the best advice for anyone on this subject. Just don't harass these females bros. You'll become nothing but a bug-a-boo to them. The one her and her friends clown when you call/text. My best results have come when I blatantly said I'm tryin to smash. Just flat out say it. No laughin, no joking They'll probably be down, if you planted the seeds correctly. All you have to do is be assertive with the females. Whether you're trying to wife, date, smash or play video games. Females will not make the first move, especially when it comes to this subject. No matter how many times they claim they're independent
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That's scary good
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That's scary good
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Originally Posted by DipsetGeneral
Word. I read your post. Thanks broham on the tips
exactly
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Originally Posted by DipsetGeneral
Word. I read your post. Thanks broham on the tips
exactly
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nah.............i def slipped this summer
im back though. got my mind right.
even had my emotions take over an was just cuttin ppl left and right. smh
DROUGHT for the first time ever.......id tried to front on myself an even said im just taking a sex break
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nah.............i def slipped this summer
im back though. got my mind right.
even had my emotions take over an was just cuttin ppl left and right. smh
DROUGHT for the first time ever.......id tried to front on myself an even said im just taking a sex break
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Anyone provide some insight?
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You do understand what the word anniversary means right.Originally Posted by BigPlayCJ
Complete opposite for me. I been simping on my girl since i been going out with her. 9 month anaversary this weekend
Thank You Niketalk
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You do understand what the word anniversary means right.Originally Posted by BigPlayCJ
Complete opposite for me. I been simping on my girl since i been going out with her. 9 month anaversary this weekend
Thank You Niketalk
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son you slept over her place a few times...................and she told you she not ready for a relationship and just wants to (#&$# around?Originally Posted by derventa
Anyone provide some insight?
she prolly felt it was already gettin too close to something she dont want. sometimes girls just wanna have fun man ease off on the text is a great first step.
also if you slept over a couple times? did yall at least mess around or you straight up chilled on some platonic buddy (&#$#
man make a move an let her know what it is, an if you the one startin up text all the time, b ez on that.
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son you slept over her place a few times...................and she told you she not ready for a relationship and just wants to (#&$# around?Originally Posted by derventa
Anyone provide some insight?
she prolly felt it was already gettin too close to something she dont want. sometimes girls just wanna have fun man ease off on the text is a great first step.
also if you slept over a couple times? did yall at least mess around or you straight up chilled on some platonic buddy (&#$#
man make a move an let her know what it is, an if you the one startin up text all the time, b ez on that.
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Originally Posted by Al Audi
son you slept over her place a few times...................and she told you she not ready for a relationship and just wants to (#&$# around?Originally Posted by derventa
Anyone provide some insight?
she prolly felt it was already gettin too close to something she dont want. sometimes girls just wanna have fun man ease off on the text is a great first step.
also if you slept over a couple times? did yall at least mess around or you straight up chilled on some platonic buddy (&#$#
man make a move an let her know what it is, an if you the one startin up text all the time, b ez on that.
Im lost. Youve slept over and she flat out said no relation she just wants to keep it sexual with you?
Do you want more of a serious relationship or something?
This not makin sense to me.
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Originally Posted by Al Audi
son you slept over her place a few times...................and she told you she not ready for a relationship and just wants to (#&$# around?Originally Posted by derventa
Anyone provide some insight?
she prolly felt it was already gettin too close to something she dont want. sometimes girls just wanna have fun man ease off on the text is a great first step.
also if you slept over a couple times? did yall at least mess around or you straight up chilled on some platonic buddy (&#$#
man make a move an let her know what it is, an if you the one startin up text all the time, b ez on that.
Im lost. Youve slept over and she flat out said no relation she just wants to keep it sexual with you?
Do you want more of a serious relationship or something?
This not makin sense to me.
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Basically. Dude sounds kinda like a simp (no offense). Girl is giving him dome on the reg (I hope so because he hasn't smashed yet), no strings attached and he's trying to find ways to put a ring on itOriginally Posted by Diego
Originally Posted by Al Audi
son you slept over her place a few times...................and she told you she not ready for a relationship and just wants to (#&$# around?Originally Posted by derventa
Anyone provide some insight?
she prolly felt it was already gettin too close to something she dont want. sometimes girls just wanna have fun man ease off on the text is a great first step.
also if you slept over a couple times? did yall at least mess around or you straight up chilled on some platonic buddy (&#$#
man make a move an let her know what it is, an if you the one startin up text all the time, b ez on that.
Im lost. Youve slept over and she flat out said no relation she just wants to keep it sexual with you?
Do you want more of a serious relationship or something?
This not makin sense to me.
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Basically. Dude sounds kinda like a simp (no offense). Girl is giving him dome on the reg (I hope so because he hasn't smashed yet), no strings attached and he's trying to find ways to put a ring on itOriginally Posted by Diego
Originally Posted by Al Audi
son you slept over her place a few times...................and she told you she not ready for a relationship and just wants to (#&$# around?Originally Posted by derventa
Anyone provide some insight?
she prolly felt it was already gettin too close to something she dont want. sometimes girls just wanna have fun man ease off on the text is a great first step.
also if you slept over a couple times? did yall at least mess around or you straight up chilled on some platonic buddy (&#$#
man make a move an let her know what it is, an if you the one startin up text all the time, b ez on that.
Im lost. Youve slept over and she flat out said no relation she just wants to keep it sexual with you?
Do you want more of a serious relationship or something?
This not makin sense to me.
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NT really does give good advice..i think it was rilla and ninjahood I believe who gave some advice about approaching random females...they both said when you see a bad shorty you chances of getting her are 0% if you don't say a thing. If youuuuu make an attempt your chances automatically jump up to 50/50 because she can say yes or no...but in your mind you should think your chances are really 60/40. I say 60/40 because you just have to believe at all times that you are that __. Confidence is key man. You gotta have the rocks to say whatever the hell you want (albeit without being disrespectful) say exactly what you want and be like im sorry if you may be taken aback by my directness but I hope you can respect my honesty. I used this same approach with a coworker a couple weeks ago ...i was slowly slippin into the friendzone with her..after I just came out and said it, it took me less then 5 business days to smash, shorty even said she down with a 3some if I can find another chick who is down
Thanks NT
