Am I Weird?

[kiid23]

I dunno it seems to me im really awkward around family and friends but put me in a group of people i dont know i tend to shine?  Ive always been used to being made fun of my whole life that i get self conscience around people who really know me. But it seems when im say at work ( i sell cars) or at a bar or club rolling dolo or even with friends Im getting numbers talking to girls and being an all around extroverted person. But catch me on the one on one i turn shy? i dont get it? Im over here stuck on a chick who ive known for 4 years whose a 6-7.5 at best when i talk to 7.5-8 i dont know with no problem?

 

[alchemist iq]

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[kvsm23vs24]

yes...

 

[toast1985]

I'm the complete opposite, but I've met people like you before.

...A lot of charisma around those who really doesn't have a feel for you, but you lose it for those who already know you.

 

[ruxxx]

OP it seems as if you've answered your own question.You can let loose in front of individuals you don't know because who the **** are they?Your family is a different story because to you what they actually say/feel/think about you holds weight.If that makes sense.

 

[acidicality]

Around a group of people I know, I'm not that shy. Around a group of people I don't really know, I'm really shy.
But pretty much, I'm shy if I don't feel comfortable and feel a bit out of place.

 

[djprestige21]

I mean its simple, life outside of your family is an outlet for what you really desire being an ongoing person. I take it you were probably one of the youngest children in the family and naturally got picked on because of that. You feel like you have to many skeletons in your closet that have been revealed to step up and be the person you want to be around you family because they won't hesitate you try and knock you out of your vibe.

Some people want to keep you at bay because subliminally it makes them feel better about themselves and give them a sense of security, even family.

 

[metrokid26]

you probably shine more with the other people because they don't mean a lot to you. They are just people who pass you buy as you go through your day.

You are probably more shy because you fear a conflict that will alter the relationship you have with others. either that or life is just moving fast for you.

 

[antonlavey]

I'm actually very social when I first meet people, but then I sort of weed out people I don't find interesting after i get bored of them.

 

[miketysonthekiller]

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

 I sort of weed out people I don't find interesting after i get bored of them.

Same here. It kinda sucks because I feel like a D, but damn son people just get boring after a while.

 

[blazinrook]

Originally Posted by DJprestige21

I mean its simple, life outside of your family is an outlet for what you really desire being an ongoing person. I take it you were probably one of the youngest children in the family and naturally got picked on because of that. You feel like you have to many skeletons in your closet that have been revealed to step up and be the person you want to be around you family because they won't hesitate you try and knock you out of your vibe.

Some people want to keep you at bay because subliminally it makes them feel better about themselves and give them a sense of security, even family.

soundtrack to my life

real talk, ur either a therapist or ur also one of the youngest in ur family lol

 

[sundizzle]

I think you are somewhat afraid of conflict and have a desire to "keep the peace".  In your family you probably were the youngest and also probably the most logical minded.  As such, you hated seeing your family etc fight so instead of making waves you would do whatever you could to try and keep the arguments to a minimum.  If this meant not truly being yourself and bringing to light any big issues it created this sense of comfort. It is tough for you to now change that because you've spent so many years building this illusion.