pretty much around the portland, OR area too.. 45k to 60k you are doing pretty good... im pretty much in the same boat as you dude... we have a 01 accord and a 05 MDX, 2 kids, and i live in a apartment... but it doesnt feel like im doing my job as a father/husband until im completely satisfied with what i want to accomplish for my family and thats buy a house....
but we are looking to buy a house this year though... i gotta take advantage of that obama plan...
where in the portland area are you? i have to agree w/ your statement because we live in the beaverton area.
my complaints about oregon are that the jobs don't pay the right wages out here. which is why we're moving to phoenix in august to find a leaseoption. we're in the streets of tanasbourne area and are doing okay (married and 2 kids). we're content but could be a little happier which is whythis school thing is almost done for both of us.