Anyone Ever Have To Deal With Your Girl's Wacked Out Father?

[moneyisthemotive]

long story short ...

homie is WACKED ...
he has a serious drinking problem ...
hasnt had a job for 4 years and doesnt try to get one ...
not abusive, but screams like a %+*#* and claims hes gonna commit suicide ...

we got into it about 3 years ago and i put him down after he tried to choke me from behind, ever since then we've been cool ... but he just took out a knife and threatened to kill himself and i think @@%@ just hit the fan ... i dont know what to do about it cuz my girl's mom doesnt deserve what he puts her through, but then again she doesnt force him to leave or get help ...

 

[xx legod xx]

Almost had to kick my ex's dad's @%$! after he said I wasn't good enough for his daughter cause I'm colored. She's white.
The reason why she's my ex.

 

[mosthated770]

pics of your girl?

then we decide if he lives or not

 

[moneyisthemotive]

Originally Posted by xX LeGod Xx

Almost had to kick my ex's dad's @%$! after he said I wasn't good enough for his daughter cause I'm colored. She's white.
The reason why she's my ex.

i'm sayin i treat his daughter good ... his biggest problem with me is  im white and hes white and i get along with the spanish family (his wife's side) better than he does ...  so hes always had this jealousy i guess you could say ... i dunno ...

 

[bjamez20]

my ex's dad made me do a phone interview with him before i could take her on a date

asked me

-how big i was (pause)
-what my intentions were
-have i ever taken karate and would i be able to protect her

then when i actually met the dude he would call me her ex's name on purpose. things ended when i told her i didnt wanna go to her place cause her dad's disrespectful to me

 

[high class scum bag]

i've never had a problem w/ fathers. when i was younger, i was the good guy the parents liked, but most girls dont like who their parents like..

 

[moneyisthemotive]

Originally Posted by MOSTHATED770

pics of your girl?

then we decide if he lives or not

i'm sure there are some floating around from years ago ...

 

[rko2004]

I haven't dealt with this but you should talk to your girl about getting pops some serious help.

 

[moneyisthemotive]

so he's screaming right now and say's "no one knows what im going through, not you, not (insert daughter's name) who's heads up caprio's @%%" ... dude swears i look like leonardo dicaprio

 

[airkeung88]

all YOU can do is fully support your girlfriend decisions.

 

[mangudai954]

Originally Posted by xX LeGod Xx

Almost had to kick my ex's dad's @%$! after he said I wasn't good enough for his daughter cause I'm colored. She's white.
The reason why she's my ex.

I been there man

 

[hieu23]

you're at her place right now?

 

[moneyisthemotive]

cops were just called ... i got 4 tazers pointed at me like im bin laden walking out the back door ... good thing i had my 12 gauge under the couch i was sitting on or else %#%% would have really hit the fan ... i think they are taking him away but you cant keep a guy for a non-violent domestic disturbance for too long ... my girl wont leave her mother and i wont leave my girl ... when he gets back %#%% will DEFINITELY hit the fan and im not trying to be here but what can i do ...

 

[brandon3000]

Originally Posted by MOSTHATED770

pics of your girl?

then we decide if he lives or not

 

[hellohiphop4000]

Originally Posted by Mangudai954

Originally Posted by xX LeGod Xx

Almost had to kick my ex's dad's @%$! after he said I wasn't good enough for his daughter cause I'm colored. She's white.
The reason why she's my ex.

I been there man

some people man....

 

[spsfinest212]

Originally Posted by xX LeGod Xx

Almost had to kick my ex's dad's @%$! after he said I wasn't good enough for his daughter cause I'm colored. She's white.
The reason why she's my ex.

sorry you had to go through that

 

[jd214]

My sisters BF and my dad have a few problems right now

 

[moneyisthemotive]

Originally Posted by hieu23

you're at her place right now?

yeah man !!%! is not cool ... we've lived here for about a year and it's been off and on petty !!%! but dude grabbed a knife off some "im killing someone and it'll be easier if it was myself" type !!%! and im sitting downstairs like damn, what can i do ...

his favorite tv show is Dexter too ... he watches re-runs all the time ... straight Dexter all day on-demand ...

 

[spsfinest212]

GET OUT OF THAT HOUSE NOW!

 

[hieu23]

get him some help...

 

[moneyisthemotive]

Originally Posted by spsfinest212

GET OUT OF THAT HOUSE NOW!

i am ... ive been putting off getting my own place just to save money but it's time ... ima stay with my folks until then ...

 

[blackstilettos]

He threatened to harm himself, and if you have reason to believe he will, you can call the police. A hospital can commit him for up to three days (they'll have to let him go if he does a 180), so that'll give time him to sober up and calm down, and for you and your girl to make arrangements for her to get out of the house.

 

[juice man]

I always get the mother's approval

, now the fathers are different stories

 

[moneyisthemotive]

Originally Posted by Juice man

I always get the mother's approval

, now the fathers are different stories

thats the main problem ... he already accuses her of having relations with me and thinks everyone's lives would be better if i was the "undisputed man of the house" as he puts it ...

 

[splashysplash]

I never had a girl whose father was consistantly in their life like that, so I didn't have to go through this