Anyone given up on relationships?

[atlien seeko]

I dont eem want to go into details, but honestly, I've given up on having a relationship. I didnt think I could ever feel this way, but I have no interest in trusting a female ever again or being in a relationship.

I have a son already, and that was one of my main reasons for wanting to find someone to be with, but I mean... After so many fails and so much drama at 25, I really dont have a point for a relationship. I think I'm good by myself and I think I've found peace in that. How do you feel?

Matter fact, I think I'll go and meditate. Spend some time with myself. Peace.

 

[mrbrown]

Was about to post and relate but you walked away fam

 

[Humbled]

Was about to post and relate but you walked away fam

But I DEFINITELY feel where you're coming from OP. I'm at the same point in my life. Much rather be alone and happy then with someone and miserable.

 

[mr marcus]

Haven't gave up but ima enjoy this single life..,.summer 2007 the last time I was 100% single

 

[ximthatdudex]

Haven't gave up but ima enjoy this single life..,.summer 2007 the last time I was 100% single

But such a man in your line of work need not a relationship to pillage the yambz correct?

 

[Peep Game]

Was about to post and relate but you walked away fam

Anyway, I haven't given up just cause my last real one wasn't a bad breakup. I do like not being 100% committed right now. Have a chick I've been kicking it for a bit, but I have no VDay plans with her currently but kept things open. Pffft, not about to get myself immediately locked down again. Just enjoy the field right now why you can, cause eventually you'll click up with somebody again.

 

[Peep Game]

Was about to post and relate but you walked away fam

Anyway, I haven't given up just cause my last real one wasn't a bad breakup. I do like not being 100% committed right now. Have a chick I've been kicking it for a bit, but I have no VDay plans with her currently but kept things open. Pffft, not about to get myself immediately locked down again. Just enjoy the field right now why you can, cause eventually you'll click up with somebody again.

 

[Ox.]

Was about to post and relate but you walked away fam

OP, i'm with you on that one. i realized all i need in my life is a skateboard and a bulldog.

but i currently have no bulldog 

 

[youngdoc]

I can't imagine being in a relationship for a long time. Single life is too fun plus I actually want to be faithful next relationship which would be impossible right now

 

[Deleted member 38182]

I dunno if I've given up.... 

I just don't know if I ever wanna expose myself like that and build myself up for that heartbreak.

Like I tried so hard to build something real and long term. And making someone the center of my universe and then having that person all of a sudden gone, is like having a giant black hole in your life. I ain't tryna sound simpish or nothing, but in a relationship I really do want to make something real out of it 

That **** burns mayne 

and I feel like my past experiences has just set the bar so high, it'll take a lot for me to actively pursue a relationship with someone

 

[Comparison Ford]

I wouldn't say I've given up, but I've become complacent with being a misanthrope.  Everybody lets me down.  I'm sure there's someone out there that I can tolerate for more than a month, until then...

 

[airblaster503]

Haven't gave up but ima enjoy this single life..,.summer 2007 the last time I was 100% single taken

I can relate OP. Don't even want to deal with drama from most of these women. Plus I am at the point where if I don't feel like there is a long term potential I don't even try to keep them around. Sometimes I feel like I want a relationship, but I guess I am just waiting until I meet the right woman. For now though I am perfectly fine being single.

I dunno if I've given up....

I just don't know if I ever wanna expose myself like that and build myself up for that heartbreak. That **** burns mayne.

and I feel like my past experiences has just set the bar so high, it'll take a lot for me to actively pursue a relationship with someone

I can also really relate to this. There has been 2 chicks in my past that looking back set the bar pretty damn high. I know it isn't fair to compare to them but damn I'm not trying to make a backwards move.

Also I find myself having a hard time with opening up to women anymore. Really not trying to make myself vulnerable, been there done that

 

[6 Rings G.O.A.T.]

I haven't given up on relationship.. However I'll not be a relationship because its the status quo..

If I don't like the girl anymore I'm breaking up with her.. If she dislike me.. I'm breaking it off with her as well..

I'm not forcing anything..

I'm not going to regret breaking off a relationship nor will I get heartbroken over a relationship..

 

[wisepharoah]

Happy Valentines day you lonely bastardz! Haha


"I'm single and not looking to mingle" is what I tell these young ladies. Hate to sound like one of those guys but im really in love with work and making this money right now. So tomorrow while everyone is out eating chocolates and kissing under moonlight I will be working and putting the finishing touches on a deal and capping the night off with a passionate beat off session. I was in a 6 year relationship and ive dated here and there but honestly a lot of women are really boring. I'll sound like a dog for saying this but beyond sex at this particular juncture in my life, im cool.

 

[atlien seeko]

Damn.. It is Valentines day, isn't it? lol

 

[Deleted member 38182]

 

[boris]

Nope. You just gotta figure people out. 

 

[a blinkin]

There's a part of me that's overtly cynical and believes that it would be a cold day in hell before I find the "true love" that I would some day like to obtain.

Then there's the eternal optimist in me that believes some day, some how, I'll find a relationship with a great, amazing woman that will last for the rest of my days.

Often times I say "man **** love I'll just go back to running wild" but in the midst of running wild, I realize that that's not the life I want to live, so I stop and hold off once again in hopes that my day will come.

 

[Deleted member 38182]

^Damn well said... that's kinda how I feel too

 

[chrispcb15]

Havent given up..Just dont know where to start

 

[andee]

I wouldn't say I've given up, but I've become complacent with being a misanthrope.  Everybody let's me down.  I'm sure there's someone out there that I can tolerate for more than a month, until then...

Dat feel... I know it too well.

I've tried so many times in relationships and even with good friends, that it has left me very cynical and bitter. In fact, I think I just lost my best friend today because she did some straight up grimey and inexcusable **** to me

(I guess I didn't learn the lesson that having a female best friend NEVER ends well.)

This experience has just reinforced my belief that I am not compatible with another human, and the worst part is that I know this will be true as long as I believe it. I just do.

/sadface

 

[miketysonthekiller]

Yo, I just noticed all the ppl i saw in da street were buying roses and chocolates. I don't get the hype. lol im so bitter butthurt jelly I don't get to spend my dollas on chocolates.

If you truly love someone, give them some vegetables. Avoid the fat, with all the love of good health

 

[decemberlove]

Yeah I give up.

I currently LIVE with my ex who cheated on me and neither of us could get out of our leasing contract. Lesson number 1: Don't live with your college girlfriend. I've lost all my friends and she sucked
all of my time and money.

The thing is, I love companionship, someone who I could tell everything and spend time with, and doing stupid **** together

Very bittersweet feeling being single

 

[thenewjs23]

Was with my ex for 3yrs.

We crashed and burned on vday.

We get back together 9months later.

She doesnt come home one night and I kick her out.

Took all her stuff to the dumpster.

FIN.

 

[waitwut]

you still young bruh if you want a relationship dont give up but imo men dont even need women unless they want to have kids (srs)

smash ******* get money and once you find a chick worthy of your seed settle down

Yeah I give up.

I currently LIVE with my ex who cheated on me and neither of us could get out of our leasing contract. Lesson number 1: Don't live with your college girlfriend. I've lost all my friends and she sucked
all of my time and money.

The thing is, I love companionship, someone who I could tell everything and spend time with, and doing stupid **** together

Very bittersweet feeling being single

:x

how long have you guys been broken up?

and have you or her brought someone home yet? what are the reactions