Originally Posted by Classy Freshman
I think the point that most are trying to make is that eventually that lifetime supply of good cereal... no matter how good it is... will eventually become stale. I can see why people would get sick of eating the same cereal every day, and simultaneously can't knock the people who are satisfied with eating the same cereal every day. People are different, but neither is wrong in my eyes. Not societies eye's though.
Originally Posted by ksteezy
Originally Posted by Classy Freshman
I think the point that most are trying to make is that eventually that lifetime supply of good cereal... no matter how good it is... will eventually become stale. I can see why people would get sick of eating the same cereal every day, and simultaneously can't knock the people who are satisfied with eating the same cereal every day. People are different, but neither is wrong in my eyes. Not societies eye's though.
I just think we get so caught up in the physical thought of sticking our P into some new wet P that we lose focus of what's important...I understand that The thought of monogamy is hard to grasp, hell I'm married and I have my moments of doubt, but then I realize those moment fade pretty fast, I've done my share of dating where is the same tired routine, my share of sex, where IS JUST THE SAME routine....where aside from it being a different woman, IT STILL THE SAME OUTCOME...so you guys may be satisfying that physical need, but are ignoring your long term needs....yeah you might find one girl that will understand your promiscuous ways or even one who will share your same sentiments on marriage and not want to get married, but what I'd you don't?...what if you come across good women whom you can build with and perhaps share a life with, have children with, get old with and decide, NAH BRAH THAT AIN'T FOR ME...I need new P...and she moves on to a man thats actually ready and dude reaps the benefits...meanwhile you find yourself at 60 years old, lonely...that is %**!!$# scary.
Most of you put a deadline on settling down, saying "yo at 35 I'm ready and I'll get married by 36 and have kids by 37" how do you know at that age in your life, that's how things will play out?....how do you know the women you find then will be in the same state of mind, how do you know YOU WOULD BE WORTHY or even worst, how the !+@$ do you know after years of conditioning yourself to believing Monogamy is a gimmick that one day out the blue you'll hit a switch and become monogamous???...
Bros the best piece of advice I can give you is, build on yourself, if you are a good dude, chances are you'll attract a good woman eventually, when that happens, don't throw it away because of your own insecurities...build on it....stop being so concern with sex...tone down those hormones...
In my first post I saidOriginally Posted by ksteezy
Originally Posted by Classy Freshman
I think the point that most are trying to make is that eventually that lifetime supply of good cereal... no matter how good it is... will eventually become stale. I can see why people would get sick of eating the same cereal every day, and simultaneously can't knock the people who are satisfied with eating the same cereal every day. People are different, but neither is wrong in my eyes. Not societies eye's though.
I just think we get so caught up in the physical thought of sticking our P into some new wet P that we lose focus of what's important...I understand that The thought of monogamy is hard to grasp, hell I'm married and I have my moments of doubt, but then I realize those moment fade pretty fast, I've done my share of dating where is the same tired routine, my share of sex, where IS JUST THE SAME routine....where aside from it being a different woman, IT STILL THE SAME OUTCOME...so you guys may be satisfying that physical need, but are ignoring your long term needs....yeah you might find one girl that will understand your promiscuous ways or even one who will share your same sentiments on marriage and not want to get married, but what I'd you don't?...what if you come across good women whom you can build with and perhaps share a life with, have children with, get old with and decide, NAH BRAH THAT AIN'T FOR ME...I need new P...and she moves on to a man thats actually ready and dude reaps the benefits...meanwhile you find yourself at 60 years old, lonely...that is %**!!$# scary.
Most of you put a deadline on settling down, saying "yo at 35 I'm ready and I'll get married by 36 and have kids by 37" how do you know at that age in your life, that's how things will play out?....how do you know the women you find then will be in the same state of mind, how do you know YOU WOULD BE WORTHY or even worst, how the !+@$ do you know after years of conditioning yourself to believing Monogamy is a gimmick that one day out the blue you'll hit a switch and become monogamous???...
Bros the best piece of advice I can give you is, build on yourself, if you are a good dude, chances are you'll attract a good woman eventually, when that happens, don't throw it away because of your own insecurities...build on it....stop being so concern with sex...tone down those hormones...
I do see myself with 1 woman and kids in the future, but I definitely agree with this.
Originally Posted by youngdoc
Originally Posted by ksteezy
Originally Posted by Classy Freshman
I think the point that most are trying to make is that eventually that lifetime supply of good cereal... no matter how good it is... will eventually become stale. I can see why people would get sick of eating the same cereal every day, and simultaneously can't knock the people who are satisfied with eating the same cereal every day. People are different, but neither is wrong in my eyes. Not societies eye's though.
I just think we get so caught up in the physical thought of sticking our P into some new wet P that we lose focus of what's important...I understand that The thought of monogamy is hard to grasp, hell I'm married and I have my moments of doubt, but then I realize those moment fade pretty fast, I've done my share of dating where is the same tired routine, my share of sex, where IS JUST THE SAME routine....where aside from it being a different woman, IT STILL THE SAME OUTCOME...so you guys may be satisfying that physical need, but are ignoring your long term needs....yeah you might find one girl that will understand your promiscuous ways or even one who will share your same sentiments on marriage and not want to get married, but what I'd you don't?...what if you come across good women whom you can build with and perhaps share a life with, have children with, get old with and decide, NAH BRAH THAT AIN'T FOR ME...I need new P...and she moves on to a man thats actually ready and dude reaps the benefits...meanwhile you find yourself at 60 years old, lonely...that is %**!!$# scary.
Most of you put a deadline on settling down, saying "yo at 35 I'm ready and I'll get married by 36 and have kids by 37" how do you know at that age in your life, that's how things will play out?....how do you know the women you find then will be in the same state of mind, how do you know YOU WOULD BE WORTHY or even worst, how the !+@$ do you know after years of conditioning yourself to believing Monogamy is a gimmick that one day out the blue you'll hit a switch and become monogamous???...
Bros the best piece of advice I can give you is, build on yourself, if you are a good dude, chances are you'll attract a good woman eventually, when that happens, don't throw it away because of your own insecurities...build on it....stop being so concern with sex...tone down those hormones...
For me personally the worry just isn't being enticed by just the P, but personality as well.
I don't believe in soulmates and I think there's many women out there that are great for me that I would be glad to marry. But in the back of my mind I worry that the person I'll end up with will be very good for me but not as great as others may be.
In my last relationship my ex treated me great, she was attractive, intelligent (med student) and did nothing majorly wrong but there was just something missing in the back of my mind. I could have ended up marrying her and being happy but I felt like I could have been happier - don't know if was because I had selective memory in how she didn't measure up to a couple ex's in a certain ways or it was because I was seeking something that doesn't exist
Hard to tell if my relationships don't work out because I'm not ready or because the women weren't right for me. The last 3 women I dated were all attractive, smart, had their stuff together, and we got along great so Idk
Right. I'm not looking for the perfect woman because I know that doesn't exist. One of my ex's had all the personality traits I wanted but it didn't work out (it wasn't on me, it was more the circumstance) so the last two haven't quite measured up and that caused problems. I don't think I could be truly happy until I find someone that I click with as much as I clicked with her and also don't think I could be truly happy until I find someone that was as attractive as a different ex. She was bad and our sexual chemistry was
