- Jun 20, 2008
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-Serious question. If you love your girl to death but her parents and family have done everything possible to split you up. They never accepted you from day 1and they dislike you just as much as you dislike them. Can you actually have a long term relationship with that person?
Long story short:
-She is asian
-I'm black
-Parents are split up
-98% of her dad's side hates me (for what reason? Because they didn't like how I was seen pictured with her on FACEBOOK? How the F does that makesense?
)
-Her sister wants me to be hit by a bus (actual quote. Why? because I decided to be POLITE and ask for me and her to talk out our problems. She thought Iwasn't serious and being arrogant.)
-Theory going around that the sister...actually is attracted to me (dunno the validity in that though)
-Her mother...ehh lets not get into that. (my girl reads NT from time to time
)
-Family has done everything to get us to split up (still together after a year and a half)
-Family has said crazy mean things about me (never outwardly said it was because I was black but made a lot of comments alluding to that fact.)
-I always show respect and never make any obscene or ignorant comments to them. They have shown nothing but ignorance.
-They thought we were moving to fast....a year and a half later we are still going strong.
-They have basically disowned my girlfriend and BLAME ME for THEIR family issues
-Family is mad childish
-For 8 months my GF planned to go to Santa Barbara, California for my Family Reunion. 1 week before the trip, her father said she couldn't go.
-For a short period of time me and her father got along but as soon as I went back home for the summer the sister pretty much brainwashed him into believingthat I was controlling his daughter. (How do you "controll" someone when you live in different states and only get to see them 2 weekends out of themonth?)
-They have done/said way more things to me that I wish not to speak on because I just get angry thinking about it. Lets just say her father once used the term,"people like him...." of course it was followed by the most ignorant/!!% backwards statement ever.
The final straw has happened within the last few days. I made a thread talking about how my girl bought a new dog. My girl and her mom wanted to get a dogtogether, so my girl did all her research and what not and ended up buying a puppy. She was going through a list of names to name the dog and I said the name"Matador" we both laughed and thought it was a funny cute name to give a puppy. She brings the puppy home on a Thursday, and in true judgementalfashion everyone in her family hated the name and it was like the talk of the town in their community. Why do they care so much about a dog's name? Idunno. So Thursday night her mom comes home from work (I was there visiting for the weekend and helping out with the pup) and immediately started with"His name is gay, your dog is going to grow up ugly, I cant believe you named him that, and he sheds alot" (She bought a Mini Schnauser....theyRARELY shed). So her mom is talking trash about a .....DOG. A dog. But since her mom seems to be bi-polar she has no problem picking the dog up, holding it andkissing it. Friday and Saturday roll around, her mom is still talking trash about the dog but she is still playing with it smiling at it, having a jolly time.Sunday morning rolls around and BAM with out any warning. She comes downstairs and starts yelling at my GF (im sleep btw), "This dog's name is gay, iwant all of his #%%* out of my house, he needs to go now! He is ugly and his name is horrible he has to go!"
So I am caught off gaurd, my girl is upset, and I didnt know what to do. We couldnt take the pup to my place because my apt doesnt allow pets. And mygirl's dad doesnt want another dog in his house so we are stuck in a hard place. So after searching for a new home on a pup she just spent money on, hersister (the one who wants me to litterally die in one of the worst ways possible) decides to take the pup. And renamed him "Jack Burton". Just likeI said I get blamed for everything......and of course her mom texted the sister saying I was the one who caused this, when I was the one who told my girl NOTto get the dog in the first place. So basically her mom kicked my girl's dog out because she didnt like his name. Childish.
pics of the dog incase you missed the thread: http://niketalk.com/topic/217625?page=1
no pics of my girl. If you havent seen pics of her already than you need to step your OG member game up.
I would leave my girl if it wasnt for the fact that she is an amazing person who some how survived in such a hostile home.
who on NT dislikes their girl's parents...i cant be the ONLY one. Also I know half of NT is Asian and I TRY my hardest not to have ill feelings towardsAsians as a whole but I know a few of my friends who have dated Asian girls, have told me they have gone through the same ignorant #%%* as me. Of course myfamily loves my girl.
-The Juice
Long story short:
-She is asian
-I'm black
-Parents are split up
-98% of her dad's side hates me (for what reason? Because they didn't like how I was seen pictured with her on FACEBOOK? How the F does that makesense?
-Her sister wants me to be hit by a bus (actual quote. Why? because I decided to be POLITE and ask for me and her to talk out our problems. She thought Iwasn't serious and being arrogant.)
-Theory going around that the sister...actually is attracted to me (dunno the validity in that though)
-Her mother...ehh lets not get into that. (my girl reads NT from time to time
-Family has done everything to get us to split up (still together after a year and a half)
-Family has said crazy mean things about me (never outwardly said it was because I was black but made a lot of comments alluding to that fact.)
-I always show respect and never make any obscene or ignorant comments to them. They have shown nothing but ignorance.
-They thought we were moving to fast....a year and a half later we are still going strong.
-They have basically disowned my girlfriend and BLAME ME for THEIR family issues
-Family is mad childish
-For 8 months my GF planned to go to Santa Barbara, California for my Family Reunion. 1 week before the trip, her father said she couldn't go.
-For a short period of time me and her father got along but as soon as I went back home for the summer the sister pretty much brainwashed him into believingthat I was controlling his daughter. (How do you "controll" someone when you live in different states and only get to see them 2 weekends out of themonth?)
-They have done/said way more things to me that I wish not to speak on because I just get angry thinking about it. Lets just say her father once used the term,"people like him...." of course it was followed by the most ignorant/!!% backwards statement ever.
The final straw has happened within the last few days. I made a thread talking about how my girl bought a new dog. My girl and her mom wanted to get a dogtogether, so my girl did all her research and what not and ended up buying a puppy. She was going through a list of names to name the dog and I said the name"Matador" we both laughed and thought it was a funny cute name to give a puppy. She brings the puppy home on a Thursday, and in true judgementalfashion everyone in her family hated the name and it was like the talk of the town in their community. Why do they care so much about a dog's name? Idunno. So Thursday night her mom comes home from work (I was there visiting for the weekend and helping out with the pup) and immediately started with"His name is gay, your dog is going to grow up ugly, I cant believe you named him that, and he sheds alot" (She bought a Mini Schnauser....theyRARELY shed). So her mom is talking trash about a .....DOG. A dog. But since her mom seems to be bi-polar she has no problem picking the dog up, holding it andkissing it. Friday and Saturday roll around, her mom is still talking trash about the dog but she is still playing with it smiling at it, having a jolly time.Sunday morning rolls around and BAM with out any warning. She comes downstairs and starts yelling at my GF (im sleep btw), "This dog's name is gay, iwant all of his #%%* out of my house, he needs to go now! He is ugly and his name is horrible he has to go!"
So I am caught off gaurd, my girl is upset, and I didnt know what to do. We couldnt take the pup to my place because my apt doesnt allow pets. And mygirl's dad doesnt want another dog in his house so we are stuck in a hard place. So after searching for a new home on a pup she just spent money on, hersister (the one who wants me to litterally die in one of the worst ways possible) decides to take the pup. And renamed him "Jack Burton". Just likeI said I get blamed for everything......and of course her mom texted the sister saying I was the one who caused this, when I was the one who told my girl NOTto get the dog in the first place. So basically her mom kicked my girl's dog out because she didnt like his name. Childish.
pics of the dog incase you missed the thread: http://niketalk.com/topic/217625?page=1
no pics of my girl. If you havent seen pics of her already than you need to step your OG member game up.
I would leave my girl if it wasnt for the fact that she is an amazing person who some how survived in such a hostile home.
who on NT dislikes their girl's parents...i cant be the ONLY one. Also I know half of NT is Asian and I TRY my hardest not to have ill feelings towardsAsians as a whole but I know a few of my friends who have dated Asian girls, have told me they have gone through the same ignorant #%%* as me. Of course myfamily loves my girl.
-The Juice
