The attitude of someone not being able to tell you what you can say and can't say has got a lot of dudes visiting the dentist earlier than they had planned because once you stick your chest out and proclaim something it tends to turn negative.I've seen it go that route over something as simple as the "B" word because it's really about context but beyond that debate of negative/positive context it boils down to RESPECT.The generation from the 1960's and all the way up to now are disrespectfully ignorant with it being no fault of their own because some where between singing "we shall overcome" and "F*^$ tha police" we kinda have lost our way as far as respect overall goes and this is what they have allowed to happen.When you bend the rules and take that censorship off all hell is bound to break loose,a ***** isn't a ***** anymore she's Jenny from the block,stealing isn't stealing it has categories now petty larceny and white collar crime.
This is reflected in the attitudes of the people "I can say and do what I want to do" noooo you can't,you can only do what they allow you to do and all types of people buck at that idea,roll their eyes and what not but it gets tested everyday and the results usually are the same and that is you're going to be denied,fired,turned down,harrassed,argue or simple dismissed.
I know we have a pop that live by the hood standards but please stop using rappers,hood mentality,Charles Barkley or any black entertainer as a form of validation because a lot of times that means one of two things,your mentally stagnant or that you've chosen to live and die where your at(community).
Again it's a respect thing you wipe your feet off before you enter my home and I'll do the same.I guess I get that from being around older gentlemen of a certain standards who broke all of the rules and who if given the chance would shoot Uncle Sam for all of the money he swindles from everyday working people but that said they just carried themselves in a certain manner respectfully and that's what they receive in return,white or black anything else in between.