Cheating

[651akathepaul]

Originally Posted by SoCalKid

^ it is if you ask yourself?
So what if you think someone else cheated when they did something. Would that mean that they cheated because you believe that what they did was in fact cheating.

Cheating is what you want it to be, so esseintially, yes. It is mental in the fact that what you may call cheating may not be what others, or your significant other would call cheating. 

Just because that line is blurred does not make it easy or acceptable for that other person to understand, therefore already fracturing the relationship whether you thought it was cheating or not.  Once you question the relationship on that level, it's very hard, if it all, to trust that person and committ to that relationship fully.
  

 

[socalkid]

^ Truth.