Complimenting females Vol. Yo ma, you cute, let me get them digitz

[speakup23]

I try my hardest to be apart of this "anti-gassing women movement", but sometimes I feel like complimenting a chick whom I do not know is a great way to spark conversation and show that youre somewhat interested in them

The way I see it it can go 1 of 2 ways
1) Shes is appreciative of your compliment and will entertain your advances and what now
or
2) shes brush it off as another compliment, thus adding to that inflated ego and then I just become another statistic. Just another guy who told her she was pretty.

What you guys think? Its sad that I have to withhold how I feel about someone, but the way some of these girls are these days, you kinda have to

 

[speakup23]

I try my hardest to be apart of this "anti-gassing women movement", but sometimes I feel like complimenting a chick whom I do not know is a great way to spark conversation and show that youre somewhat interested in them

The way I see it it can go 1 of 2 ways
1) Shes is appreciative of your compliment and will entertain your advances and what now
or
2) shes brush it off as another compliment, thus adding to that inflated ego and then I just become another statistic. Just another guy who told her she was pretty.

What you guys think? Its sad that I have to withhold how I feel about someone, but the way some of these girls are these days, you kinda have to

 

[651akathepaul]

It's perfect to get them comfortable and feeling sexy.

I always compliment a necklace or a shirt or something, because it makes them feel like they made the right choice that morning and they feel better for it. Opens the conversation right up.

 

[651akathepaul]

It's perfect to get them comfortable and feeling sexy.

I always compliment a necklace or a shirt or something, because it makes them feel like they made the right choice that morning and they feel better for it. Opens the conversation right up.

 

[johnnyredstorm]

Instead of telling her she's pretty, be more specific in your compliment. That'll show you're paying much more attention to her than the average guy and she'll be more privy to any possible advances.

 

[johnnyredstorm]

Instead of telling her she's pretty, be more specific in your compliment. That'll show you're paying much more attention to her than the average guy and she'll be more privy to any possible advances.

 

[patrick bateman]

Shorty lookin fly right Tah?
I sayz hello
but I gets no reply
Im leanin on the gate I say hello
she aint talkin
oh, youz a stink #!*!* well stink #!*!* you keep walkin
Aye I aint no #!*!*
So now shorty you reply?
but couldn't you reply when a n_ said hi?

 

[patrick bateman]

Shorty lookin fly right Tah?
I sayz hello
but I gets no reply
Im leanin on the gate I say hello
she aint talkin
oh, youz a stink #!*!* well stink #!*!* you keep walkin
Aye I aint no #!*!*
So now shorty you reply?
but couldn't you reply when a n_ said hi?

 

[speakup23]

Originally Posted by JohnnyRedStorm

Instead of telling her she's pretty, be more specific in your compliment. That'll show you're paying much more attention to her than the average guy and she'll be more privy to any possible advances.

Hmmm I like this.

I get it now. Youre cute is so generic. Cant be mad if she chalks it up as another compliment. Gotta add a little something unique.

 

[speakup23]

Originally Posted by JohnnyRedStorm

Instead of telling her she's pretty, be more specific in your compliment. That'll show you're paying much more attention to her than the average guy and she'll be more privy to any possible advances.

Hmmm I like this.

I get it now. Youre cute is so generic. Cant be mad if she chalks it up as another compliment. Gotta add a little something unique.

 

[eashawty]

dont compliment her directly. compliment her hair or her clothes or sumthin like that

 

[eashawty]

dont compliment her directly. compliment her hair or her clothes or sumthin like that

 

[popcornplaya]

Originally Posted by JohnnyRedStorm

Instead of telling her she's pretty, be more specific in your compliment. That'll show you're paying much more attention to her than the average guy and she'll be more privy to any possible advances.

Word to this post and the one above it.

"I couldn't help but notice your necklace, it looks amazing." She'll say thank you, you say something to the effect of "I'm sure you hear that kind of stuff all the time," she'll be modest, then you introduce yourself.

 

[popcornplaya]

Originally Posted by JohnnyRedStorm

Instead of telling her she's pretty, be more specific in your compliment. That'll show you're paying much more attention to her than the average guy and she'll be more privy to any possible advances.

Word to this post and the one above it.

"I couldn't help but notice your necklace, it looks amazing." She'll say thank you, you say something to the effect of "I'm sure you hear that kind of stuff all the time," she'll be modest, then you introduce yourself.

 

[kilojules64]

Or she can appreciate your compliment but still not be interested in you.
If a guy approaches me nicely, I'll respond the same way but I'm not entertaining any advances because at some point you have to make it clear you're not interested

I do think that a lot of women don't know how to appreciate a compliment anymore though, mostly because so many guys will call anything that walks down the street and has a vagina "gorgeous" to try and bag it up

 

[kilojules64]

Or she can appreciate your compliment but still not be interested in you.
If a guy approaches me nicely, I'll respond the same way but I'm not entertaining any advances because at some point you have to make it clear you're not interested

I do think that a lot of women don't know how to appreciate a compliment anymore though, mostly because so many guys will call anything that walks down the street and has a vagina "gorgeous" to try and bag it up

 

[651akathepaul]

^ Hair is a good one.

 

[651akathepaul]

^ Hair is a good one.

 

[mondaynightraw]

 

[mondaynightraw]

 

[speakup23]

kilojules64 wrote:

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Or she can appreciate your compliment but still not be interested in you.
If a guy approaches me nicely, I'll respond the same way but I'm not entertaining any advances because at some point you have to make it clear you're not interested

I do think that a lot of women don't know how to appreciate a compliment anymore though, mostly because so many guys will call anything that walks down the street and has a vagina "gorgeous" to try and bag it up

For some reason a part of my soul died while reading this

 

[speakup23]

kilojules64 wrote:

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Or she can appreciate your compliment but still not be interested in you.
If a guy approaches me nicely, I'll respond the same way but I'm not entertaining any advances because at some point you have to make it clear you're not interested

I do think that a lot of women don't know how to appreciate a compliment anymore though, mostly because so many guys will call anything that walks down the street and has a vagina "gorgeous" to try and bag it up

For some reason a part of my soul died while reading this

 

[popcornplaya]

Originally Posted by mondaynightraw

"Yo lightskin....yo lightskin...."

 

[popcornplaya]

Originally Posted by mondaynightraw

"Yo lightskin....yo lightskin...."

 

[popcornplaya]

Originally Posted by SpeakUp23

kilojules64 wrote:

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Or she can appreciate your compliment but still not be interested in you.
If a guy approaches me nicely, I'll respond the same way but I'm not entertaining any advances because at some point you have to make it clear you're not interested

I do think that a lot of women don't know how to appreciate a compliment anymore though, mostly because so many guys will call anything that walks down the street and has a vagina "gorgeous" to try and bag it up

For some reason a part of my soul died while reading this

It's all good playa. When she makes it clear she ain't interested in you like that, you should ask to kick it with her friends. On that "How about I bring a couple of my friends, you bring a couple of your friends, and we hit the town" type steez.

Silver lining in every cloud, homie. You just gotta find it.