i slept with one of my managers. straight fwb status but she caught feelings. so i cut it off then the next day i get with my other manager who i actualy want to be with. and my boy at work is feelin her yea its bad
Was doing laser circuitry at a engineering company for a long time and got sick of it. I quit that job, and have regretted it ever since. I'm one of the nicest dudes you'll ever meet, but if need be I'll rip your jaw out of your face. When I was a senior in highschool myself and a few of my friends went to a party being thrown by a junior. One of my friends stole several beers and we went back to another buddies house. The junior who was throwing the party showed up an hour later with a few other kids who were younger than us and just started throwing punches. My fiends and the kids trying to fight were about the same size but I'm 6'2 so I was the biggest (I'm a gym/lift sorta dude) I completely broke a kid, and never had repercussions for it. Yes I regret it. Being in a relationship is better than being single when you finally find the right girl. Enjoy every second of highschool and college. I couldn't wait for highschool to end and now I regret it. Killed it in college though Love your family every second of every day. Whatever problem you think you have with family is probably minuscule and moronic.
Im going to be in college in one week from today & i have no idea what to expect . I hate this feeling so bad . man
-I feel like I haven't been happy in months. -Just had my 3 year anniversary with my girl, and I don't know if i even smiled that day. -I'm working real hard at school, but not getting many results. -Ive hit a recent streak of bad luck: car broke down, (just fixed it), macbook broke (harddrive took a hard hit), phone broke, got a red light ticket, food poisoning. -My birthday is Wednesday, and i really couldn't give a crap. -The temple shooting is laying heavy on my heart for some reason. -My bro is about to go to highschool, and I fear for his mental safety. (predominately white school, Kids always making jokes that are racial) -Im away for College, but I miss my dogs -I have a feeling that in the end I'll be alone, and I'm scared for that. -I know nobody will respond to this. -that is all
- I have plenty of free time but dont do as much self-improvement stuff like i wish i would (read, meditate, etc...) - I have two dogs and play favorites with one. Kinda wish i didnt have the one because how much she cost and how stupid she is - Being married has caused me to live check to check. Kinda pisses me off because before i had 22K in my bank account, could do whatever i wanted: save, invest and spoil her. Now that I am married, that 22k is gone, and were living check to check trying to catch up with bills. - Im trying to sell off the majority of my kicks collection because i realize how useless and dumb it is to have 20+ pairs of shoes collecting dust in a closet. - I did the whole long distance relationship thing for 2 years while overseas. Cheated countless times, told her all, we got married, but she still throws it out there from time to time. Ish really gets to me that i did her so wrong. STD for life, yeaaa, that sucks 2 - I wish i would use my TA and go back to college part time as i start another 4 years in the military but have trouble finding the motivation to sign up because i failed 2 classes before and had to re-up the $1500. - Trying to have a kid the last year with no luck, time for a fertility test? - Wife finally got a good job, but before hand when we would get into little arguments i always used to tell her that if it wasn't for me she wouldn't be no where and she would be back home with her mom. I can be such a ******g dbag - I really dont deserve my wife, she holds me together and I should prolly tell her that more often. I going to after writing this confession. Thanks for listening
- 24 y/o -->25 couple months. Plan to be married ~30, so I'm starting to feel pressure to date and wife up. If it takes a couple years of dating before marriage, I got like 2 years to find a girl... don't like that pressure. Haven't been dating seriously in a while but feel like I got to since it could be my last year in school. - If I'm not in good shape , confidence plummets. - In grad school, got 50k+ debt (not as much as some, but it still hurtin')
I figure I want to be married at around 30. Gotta know your girl for a couple years and expect some failures w/ other girls...So I gotta start looking/finding by 27... I'm 25 in couple months so I gotta start the hunt if way I see it.
Heading to college in 2 weeks and I have no idea to expect, I never drank in High School, but I did play sober friend a few times. Seeing how messed up my friends has got me shook. Dude was puking on his girlfriend for 2 hours straight, while his girlfriend was puking on his floor. I know I'll be surrounded by it, but I don't wanna be the guy who goes overboard.
Life really sucks right about now. I live in certified hick town. There's no way to meet new girls, try new things, or do anything that I'm interested in except for basketball. This seriously has me almost depressed as I have 2 more years before I can get the hell out of here. I feel like this city is holding me back and it's getting to be too much to handle. All the things I see you guys posting about like going to music festivals, meeting with broads at bars, shopping in huge malls makes me extremely jelly because there's literally none of that to do in this town. On top of it I can't find a part time job while I'm in school to save my life. Living in Florida was the worst thing my parents could have ever done.
Probably the worst thing I've done Cheated on my ex while in Puerto Rico (chick was American) and I used a condom. Fast forward a couple months later a chick is in my hometown at the same time I am. Hit it again but this time raw. A few days later I hit my ex raw (like usual - she was on the pill) .
IMO you shouldn't hunt for a wife. All of my married friends tell me that it sort of just happens and none of them were actively hunting down a future wife. And why 30 specifically? For men I believe it should be more about where you are in life in terms of career/house etc. As long as you keep yourself in shape there's nothing wrong with being an older Dad. My dad was almost 40 when he had me and I'm not even his youngest
the only reason I could see a guy settling down young is so that he's not an old man with young kids. I had a friend whos dad was 60 when he was 12. Stuff like playing catch etc wasnt happening
I was in a lot of yall shoes, but over the past 2 years i have turned it around, and Im still trying to turn things around. I appreciate the direction im headed because I was truly tired of the regret. was at a cc for 3.5 years now graduated and about to attend university of miami in 2 weeks, before I turned it around I really doubted my self and was unhappy. No joke, I was really good at basketball but women, fear, and legal problems took that from me, and I wanted to get back so bad, but fear has kept me on the sideline. My uncle dying wish was for me to go at this bball thing so now im giving it one last shot and im throwing my all into it. My first relationship was intense lasted for 4 years through a lot and I chose life with her over a brighter future. It got ugly in the end wont go into details and I regret the choice I made many years ago. As someone else mentioned I have a loner spirit I like going out having fun but I do real well alone as well. If anyone follow me on instagram you know i went off on my recent woman, any fool can tell I wouldn't have done all that If I didnt care, it stings but in the end, I dont know if I want her back or its my ego not wanting to see her with someone else. I will admit though I regret some of my choices while we were together I acted a fool on someone who held me down through everything and was there for me in every way. I hate how it ended she brought some of this on her self with her actions but truth is I look in the mirror and I know my choices led to her walking away to begin with........ with that said though im still excited for all these yambs i will be getting in miami
My laziness and procrastination could be the end of me. I needa find ways to meet more girls.. But all I do is work and the homies I hang out with are sorta lames. I'd be much more comfortable in life if I didn't buy a car.. But I desire a car so bad, I'm gonna buy one anyway.. I have almost 5k in camera gear, yet no desire to take pictures of anything..
I shouldn't have taken Summer school.. I'm really lazy. I think I rely on others to have a good time, I need to learn how to be independent! My ex and I could've lasted if we weren't so different from each other. I guess that's what I get for dating a younger girl.
Yeah man, I'm about to be 25 in Oct...Just outta a 3 yr relationship, about to have surgery next wk... I kinda agree with the by 30 thing, but in no way do I expect that...If it was a perfect world I'd like to be married by 32, but no need to set a limit cuz then u are just settling for whatevers there at the time. My confession- Been becoming real good friends with my my ex's friend's ex boyfriend...Found out my lil bro (in fraternity) hooked up with my buddies girl when they were together...I didn't know dude at the time, told him about it and he started to get real mad at me...Had to take it back and told him it was the year before they were together...Would you guys tell him? Miss having automatic smash with the ex, been too lazy to go out and conquer others...Having surgery on my jaw next week so have all these wires in there, not been wanting to even approach girls like that. Was smashing a new girl about a month ago in my garage at 4:30 am...Mom and sister came out to see where i was since I wasn't answering phone...Caught us both naked and me getting the dome...Mom was about to kick me outta the house for it.
Why the hell not... -After about 4 months, I do not know how I feel about my girlfriend.. I like her... she is a good girlfriend and does things a woman should do BUT...we have little to nothing in common and she absolutely pisses me the **** off sometimes NT. If we go out to eat, there is a 80% chance she will complain about something. I cringe at the thought of going out now... seriously. I need to talk to her... Ive come close to breaking up with her on 2 occasions but caved because I saw the sadness coming . I dont know if I'm settling, just taking the good with the bad, or what... -I dont condone cheating but I have one long time female friend that would make me throw that crap out the window if she just said "yes." I've known her for the past 10 years and I cannot stop thinking about her since we chilled recently (gf does not know). Ive always had a thing for her but it never turned to anything. She liked me in HS but I rejected her. I made a move in college and got denied (she had a bf.. ) Many females have come and gone but this one has always been there since we first met. She can be crazy, irrational, and we could not be any more opposite but we just click. I got my girl and homegirl talking to someone now but I just want to see her one more time. I made plans to chill with her last weekend but I flaked on her cause my girl called... havent seen her and when I try to make plans she always with her dude now... Forreal, she always hits me up more when she's single/dating so I think I'm just deep on the bench -Got a big trip planned with some friends which I am excited for but not really. We got all we need for a Hangover type trip but I just do not see it happening. I love my friends but they arent good for much outside of basketball, sports talk, and a few good laughs -Tried to cut off a close friend because he's going down the wrong path but I have no other "connect" -I feel like I am my boss's *****... I dont know if she trusts me or if she just knows I will do anything she says... or both That felt good..
-At times I feel socially comfortable and like I can talk to anyone, and at other times I shut down completely and feel extremely self conscious -I was teased in junior high and my first year of high school and my confidence still hasn't fully recovered -I beat up on myself endlessly for things I did wrong in the past -I feel really aggressive and angry for no reason part of the time