Confessions

[ctidda]

Im not comfortable by myself in big crowds.. I have to have people with me...

 

[onewearz]

just found my old boss that i used to mess around with a long time ago on fb, looked thru her pics and seen she has a 16 yr old son , who is my exact spitting image.

i remember us messing around and remember the condom breaking but thought nothing of it. she was engaged and i guess just told dude whatever cause they're still together. i'll never tell my wife and i'm praying this kid don't come looking for me one day ...

sucks but i'd rather just leave well enough alone ....

 

[sunshineblotters]

^

No harm done since he has a father already. Lol at her being engaged.
Snoop was right. Don't love them ****

 

[Coromanti]

just found my old boss that i used to mess around with a long time ago on fb, looked thru her pics and seen she has a 16 yr old son , who is my exact spitting image.

i remember us messing around and remember the condom breaking but thought nothing of it. she was engaged and i guess just told dude whatever cause they're still together. i'll never tell my wife and i'm praying this kid don't come looking for me one day ...

sucks but i'd rather just leave well enough alone ....

Doesn't it bother in the least that your potential seed is walking around and you will never know him or at least find out for sure if it's yours?

Also does his father look like you?  Your old boss may just have an attraction to men who have similar features to you.

 

[onewearz]

 

[Coromanti]

just found my old boss that i used to mess around with a long time ago on fb, looked thru her pics and seen she has a 16 yr old son , who is my exact spitting image.


i remember us messing around and remember the condom breaking but thought nothing of it. she was engaged and i guess just told dude whatever cause they're still together. i'll never tell my wife and i'm praying this kid don't come looking for me one day ...


sucks but i'd rather just leave well enough alone ....

Doesn't it bother in the least that your potential seed is walking around and you will never know him or at least find out for sure if it's yours?


Also does his father look like you?  Your old boss may just have an attraction to men who have similar features to you.

all thats been on my mind fam since i seen the pic . and his "father" looks nothing like him. dude is light skin, totally different features. i'm dark skin with some pretty much identical (not to exaggerate) features as this kid. it's really been bothering me but like i said, me looking for this kid does alot more bad than good.

seems like he's close with his dad, coming up good. not only would i possibly ruin my life which is stable but i'd definitely ruin his. just leave well enough alone, maybe in the future we'll see but doesn't seem like it should happen ...

Perhaps I'm selfish but I'd contact the mother just to ask.  I wouldnt try to meet the kid or anything but I'd at least like to know.

 

[mgrand15]

^lol. People out there who get married after longer than that. People out there never get married despite dating for forever. You act like they have to get married for their relationship to mean something

Not at all. I'm just saying if after 5 years you're not even considering marriage, you might want to re-evaluate why you're with this girl. He could've been out enjoying life as a 17 to 22 year old. Marriage talk should not freak you out or come off as clingy after 5 years. The fact that it does scare you is probably normal but also a little bit of a red flag.

Having kids is a completely different story. On that end, you need to tell her to chill. No reason to have kids at 22 or young 20s. The fact that she doesn't see that is something you should worry about.

 

[thadoctadvocate]

just found my old boss that i used to mess around with a long time ago on fb, looked thru her pics and seen she has a 16 yr old son , who is my exact spitting image.

i remember us messing around and remember the condom breaking but thought nothing of it. she was engaged and i guess just told dude whatever cause they're still together. i'll never tell my wife and i'm praying this kid don't come looking for me one day ...

sucks but i'd rather just leave well enough alone ....

pics?

 

[ninjallamafromhell]

Not at all. I'm just saying if after 5 years you're not even considering marriage, you might want to re-evaluate why you're with this girl. He could've been out enjoying life as a 17 to 22 year old. Marriage talk should not freak you out or come off as clingy after 5 years. The fact that it does scare you is probably normal but also a little bit of a red flag.

Having kids is a completely different story. On that end, you need to tell her to chill. No reason to have kids at 22 or young 20s. The fact that she doesn't see that is something you should worry about.

Yes, because you have no choice but marriage in a relationship. No other options!!!! You have to do what others expect of you!!!

 

[Mark Antony]

Man forget the 5 yr mark, he's 22! Its totally normal for a dude to think that way. Its tough to have the resolve for marriage at that age knowing your best single years are yet to come. Meanwhile I've notice this is when chicks really start craving that long term, damn near all 22-26 yr old chicks I mess with give off that vibe. Sucks that it makes them cold in their late 20s if it doesn't work out.

 

[mgrand15]

Yes, because you have no choice but marriage in a relationship. No other options!!!! You have to do what others expect of you!!!

Yeah because I said you NEED to get married...

No, marriage isn't a must but you don't think you should atleast THINK about it after 5 years of a faithful relationship?

 

[darthska]

^ Why? What benefit to the relationship would marriage provide?

they've been in a committed, faithful relationship for 5 years; here's to another 5.

 

[sunshineblotters]

^ Why? What benefit to the relationship would marriage provide?

they've been in a committed, faithful relationship for 5 years; here's to another 5.

Thats what I'm saying

 

[killthehype]

I found a guy who scammed me on CL once. He has a pre-order for the last of us collectors edition at my local gamestop.

Guess who's gonna pick it up instead.

Serves that idiot right for selling me a faulty game.

 

[sunshineblotters]

^Is it fully paid for? how you gonna pull that off.

I wish I had a huge porno type ****. I mean like 10 inches with the girth of a small fist. |I

 

[silk35]

Some of these confessions have me dying laughing

 

[mackmittenzz]

Rename post to confessions of sunshineblotters


J/p bro lol jus see ya on every page


Quick ones.
When my bro died I smoked , lost my clean time. Whatever I can get it back
I eat what I want with no remorse, n I'm outta shape. I still get buns tho so it's w/e
I smoke way more cigs Then I ever have before, almost double, for the same reason as number one
I only buy maxes now cuz Js cost way too much. Back when 125 was the price was when I was in the game. I lost interest in my kick game really
I will only pay 200+ for grails.
I don't go out a lot no more so my mother can sleep at night. It's effecting my buns ratio.
That's all for now

 

[sir charles]

I don't even consider this a confessions thread anymore. This is like a rant about your day type thread for me

 

[tr1ll]

Dat feel when you realize YOU'RE the one that ain't right. YOU the one that fuked up I'm the head. These people aren't weird, they understand, YOU the one don't know what's going on.

Dat feel when you realize the person closest to you has brainwashed you, filled you up with lies and BS to use you against you're father. Now I know why he just gave up on me and doesn't even ask about my life. She doesn't wanna know. I hate this life. What did I do to deserve this?

 

[Mark Antony]

Dat feel when you realize YOU'RE the one that ain't right. YOU the one that fuked up I'm the head. These people aren't weird, they understand, YOU the one don't know what's going on.

Dat feel when you realize the person closest to you has brainwashed you, filled you up with lies and BS to use you against you're father. Now I know why he just gave up on me and doesn't even ask about my life. She doesn't wanna know. I hate this life. What did I do to deserve this?

Bold, most people never change or improve because they never get to that step.

 

[geministar]

^Is it fully paid for? how you gonna pull that off.

I wish I had a huge porno type ****. I mean like 10 inches with the girth of a small fist. |I

Ain't you African?

 

[killthehype]

Hel

^Is it fully paid for? how you gonna pull that off.

I wish I had a huge porno type ****. I mean like 10 inches with the girth of a small fist. |I

Yeah went today to change the game to my alias name. Also took his preorder of Battlefield 4 and switched it to PS4 haha

 

[sunshineblotters]

Ain't you African?

Yah. I didnt say I was small. I'm definitely far above average. But still not Mandingo or Lex Steele.....
I mean I have been told most girls dont want Lex Steele type joint but I feel like they are lying.

Hel
Yeah went today to change the game to my alias name. Also took his preorder of Battlefield 4 and switched it to PS4 haha

Imagine if it was a PS4 that he preordered
I mean you gotta get that interest...

 

[stuntman mike]

I'll try to sum this up as best as I can. Me and this girl are talking. Our families are friends so her parents know we're dating and so do my parents. That's BIG in a middle eastern household. They came to my house once and then I saw her at a wedding and then my mom invited them to my grad party and I started to talk to her from there. Everything has been going really good. Like realllllly good and also reallllllly fast. But the thing is it didn't feel bad or wrong that it was going fast. It felt right.

My family went to her house yesterday and we all kicked it. Had me saying life is goooooooooood.

Took her to 6 flags today. Day went perfect. And then we went to YardHouse after. Here's where the problem happened. Earlier she had told me that her ex texted her talking about he just thought they were on a break, and he still loves her yada yada. And she wouldn't let me talk to him and said to trust her and that she'd take care of it. I listened. I already had argued with her a little while back wondering if I was just the rebound and how it was weird she was fresh outa something.

She told me she was a virgin. Whether she was or wasn't I wouldn't have minded...if she told me. While we were waiting for our food I was talkin to her about how mad I was she was gonna see him at school tomorrow knowing he was gonna talk to her. I then asked her what she's done with him. She said everything. I said everything means ****** too. She goes yeah I did.

I almost blew up right there. Told the waiter to cancel our order but she bagged it and was ready to go. Girl starts crying and I tell her to stop. We go outside and into my car. She starts bawling talking about she didn't wanna lose me, and she was scared and so ashamed that she wasn't a virgin and that she thought telling me would get me to not want her, she wanted to come off as a nice muslim girl. Told me she loved me, wanted to be with me forever, didn't care for dude. You name it. She went off.

Me being the dude that I am calmed down and ended things on a good note. -_- I drove her home and even talked to her parents for a while before I dipped.

She told me, "I bet you're gonna say it's all good and then go home and end it."

The reason this is so big is because I was looking to spend my life with this girl.

And here I am confused at what to do. I know it's stupid and I know it's small but I mean why would you lie about something so smallllll. Any advice would do.


Cliff Notes:
- Girl has ex boyfriend who wants back in her life.
- Girl tells me she's a virgin.
- Girl later tells me she ****** said ex boyfriend before and isn't a virgin.
- What do I do?

stuNTman!

 

[guzzy]

^^^^^

Yo isnt that Illest's problem??