Dealing with scorn women...

[misterp0315]

You know...

The type that always proclaims that "+#+!+! ain't @*$@." or "All men are dogs." or "All men are the same."

The type that tries to call you out anytime they feel like you're spitting "game".

The type that says..."Heard that before."

The type that will push you or themselves back for as long as humanly possible in fear of going through the same thing from their past.

The type that couldn't realize that they have a real man standing directly in front of them.

The type that flat out makes you pay for another's mistakes.

So...this is my question. How long does it take for you to ultimately be like...+*@% it? Personally, once they rub me off that everything will be an uphillbattle due to her scorn past and stereotyping, I keep it moving. This goes for anybody...no matter how bad the chick is. It's something that I simplyrefuse to deal with.

 

[blackmagnus514]

dont even bother anymore.

 

[heliumclinton]

Just ask your old female's new men how they dealt with the stamp you left on them

 

[DVMNXK]

I date outside my race.

Problem solved.

 

[waveyjoneslocker]

Originally Posted by Illuztrious

I date outside my race.

Problem solved.

Uh-oh.

 

[inspektahdeck]

Originally Posted by blackmagnus514

dont even bother anymore.

 

[an dee 51o]

Originally Posted by blackmagnus514

dont even bother anymore.

Word. There are very few women on this earth that are really worth pursuing, and chicks like this are no exception.

 

[blackmagnus514]

I took some time off from dating for these exact reasons. Its like when they say you attract a certain type, thats what you're doing wrong...

-the daddy issues type
-conniving type
-"independent" type.
-clingy type

man it's not even cool.

Girl im dating now is pretty cool so i guess it's worth it to just fall back then come when your head is in the game.

 

[starkyl0ve]

Originally Posted by MisterP0315


So...this is my question. How long does it take for you to ultimately be like...+*@% it?

You right on point.. The second I realize they done been scorned.

 

[cryingfreemancoa]

Originally Posted by Illuztrious

I date outside my race.

Problem solved.

 

[Shanegerous]

I dont bother with these type of females.

 

[Ruck13]

Personally, once they rub me off that everything will be an uphill battle due to her scorn past and stereotyping, I keep it moving
Pretty much sums it up right there. My homegirl is like this, we had an on/off type relationship but when we finally tried to focus on each otherand make it work. I was like damn as long as you holding all these issues against males you'll never be able to move on.

had to nerve to say I helpedmake her that way..

 

[solefood229]

Sometimes you gotta take a chance, you can't be fort knox your whole life. You know all the signs of a person who ain't #@%% when you see those signsdead the situation and keep it moving. This can be said for male or females who've been played

Now if you keep getting hurt by ain't #@%% type people, you might wanna look in the mirror cause you probably ain't #@%% your damn self

 

[essential1]

Originally Posted by Illuztrious

I date outside my race.

Problem solved.

Nah it's not, woman of all races act like this

 

[fromthatown]

Originally Posted by MisterP0315

Personally, once they rub me off that everything will be an uphill battle due to her scorn past and stereotyping, I keep it moving. This goes for anybody...no matter how bad the chick is. It's something that I simply refuse to deal with.

Basically what I do. How can I start something when she can't let go.

 

[marlsj]

Originally Posted by Illuztrious

I date outside my race.

Problem solved.

 

[mecks]

if you want to help her out and you really into her. i say go for it. walk up that hill. sure its gonna take long. but its all about the chase...

 

[DVMNXK]

Originally Posted by Essential1

Originally Posted by Illuztrious

I date outside my race.




Problem solved.

Nah it's not, woman of all races act like this

I have not encountered this "scorn" in Europe.

 

[misterp0315]

Originally Posted by MECKS

if you want to help her out and you really into her. i say go for it. walk up that hill. sure its gonna take long. but its all about the chase...

See...I have a problem with this though. I'm 24...just graduated from college...just got a new job...slowly entering my prime. I can't bring myself tofocus on someone with this negative mentality while surpassing other females. I'd hate to put in work for that long to ultimately come out with nothing.

 

[fromthatown]

See, even if you put in work, there's a chance she won't change her ways. What's the point then? There's not that much time invested, so thereis no loss. There's plenty of mentally sane woman that can deal with letting go. I'm just more passionate with this cause I have invested time in ascorn woman before. I was 22 young, and thought I could really help and change her. She was digging me and giving me attention, but she had a major jealousyissue because of what happen to her past. To say the least, it was more than I can handle. Ever since then, I just feel there is no need at all to "climbthat uphill battle" when there are women across this world that are physically and mentally healthy and knows how to deal with coping.

 

[cryingfreemancoa]

Originally Posted by Illuztrious

Originally Posted by Essential1

Originally Posted by Illuztrious

I date outside my race.




Problem solved.

Nah it's not, woman of all races act like this

I have not encountered this "scorn" in Europe.

lol. just because you hit a good streak of women doesnt mean you come across a scorned women. they transcend race, religion, and region.

 

[blackmagnus514]

Dont save her.

You cant teach a mule how to be a racehorse.

 

[eight2one]

i love those!!! I pretend I'm the nicest guy ever, and I'm different.....then end up being a bigger jerk then the guy that originally made them thatway!

 

[misterp0315]

Originally Posted by FromThaTown

See, even if you put in work, there's a chance she won't change her ways. What's the point then? There's not that much time invested, so there is no loss. There's plenty of mentally sane woman that can deal with letting go. I'm just more passionate with this cause I have invested time in a scorn woman before. I was 22 young, and thought I could really help and change her. She was digging me and giving me attention, but she had a major jealousy issue because of what happen to her past. To say the least, it was more than I can handle. Ever since then, I just feel there is no need at all to "climb that uphill battle" when there are women across this world that are physically and mentally healthy and knows how to deal with coping.

Amen, brother.

 

[blackmagnus514]

They look @ it as you struggling with them through thick and thin when most of the time, it's them and a conscious decision THEY need to make.

Pass.