- Oct 8, 2003
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Ok so I have a dilemma. My girl's cousin who I'm cool with started talking to this one dude. We all started hanging out and I became cool with him and his brother..I assumed they were exclusively talking because they both acted like it when they were together. Keep in mind that his family has money, and there are a lot of perks that come with "talking to him". Anyway so I ended up asking him if they were "talking" and he said that yeah they were (or so he thought). So eventually I find out that she's basically hookin up with dudes behind his back. He's a good dude and has good intentions and I know he's not messin with other girls..I have become pretty cool with him and every time we hang out with him and her I feel bad as hell because she acts like they're "talking" knowing damn well she just has him there because she's taking advantage of the perks.
The dilemma is, should I tell him he's gettin played? Part of think there's some sort of man code that would require dudes to get eachothers backs when it come to these situations. I know he's a genuinely good guy and I honestly feel bad for him..Like I said, we've become cool and he's invited me over his house and we've chilled.. Would you guys give dude the heads up?
The dilemma is, should I tell him he's gettin played? Part of think there's some sort of man code that would require dudes to get eachothers backs when it come to these situations. I know he's a genuinely good guy and I honestly feel bad for him..Like I said, we've become cool and he's invited me over his house and we've chilled.. Would you guys give dude the heads up?
