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If this happens at your wedding, will you stand still like a goof or put hands on the "best man"?
Very pertinent question in light of recent events
If this happens at your wedding, will you stand still like a goof or put hands on the "best man"?
From what I read dude was friends with the bride first and was her best man at the wedding. He fell in love with her but she had a boyfriend (I assume the groom). Then later he became friends with her dude.
Not quite the same as my best man snaking me for my wife to be.
Still some extra dirty dirty macking though.
The way it read confused me but I see that part..She introduced them but they were boys for years before the wedding.
He was the dude's best man.
TLDR:
The best man confessed his love for his best friends wife at wedding. They divorce and best man steals his best friends girl, marries her and has kids
You still gotta lay hands on the "best man" for saying he loves his mans wife to be.It doesn't seem like the confession had anything to do with their divorce. It took a year for it to come to an end, and it was because he "adopted a different lifestyle" whatever that means. Doesn't look like either of them took his confession seriously. He just played his part, waited out their relationship and made his move when he felt she'd be most vulnerable and receptive to his advances.
What if the sight of you pummeling the best man angered the wife to be? And y’all had to delay the wedding?My man wanted all the smoke and chose violence at the same time. The groom didn't deliver either or and there you have it.
If it was me, I'm about to get my tux F'd up because my day ended up being over shadowed with my best man's Usher confessions? I paid for this expensive day and ain't no way you're getting liquid courage on my dime. I'm about to to cut the rug with his face and my patent leather shoes will no longer be so pantent.
I'm still going to get married with a wrinkled and tore up tux. When I get that divorce, I'll always remember that day, the day I took back MY day. I can't have that man always picturing my wife in unconventional ways.
End of story.
Then she wasn't my ride or die and I saved myself a lot of time and grief. . She should've known what time it was as no one should be so selfish as to take the attention away from the bride and then the groom. It's really that simple to me in my honest opinion. How the F are you going to allow the guy to then dance with your wife on the main stage afterwards. The bare minimum would be to escort him out like DJ Jazzy Jeff.What if the sight of you pummeling the best man angered the wife to be? And y’all had to delay the wedding?
Swingers refer to swinging as “the lifestyle”, though if that was the lifestyle he adopted you’d think he’d be into his buddy ****ing his wife.It doesn't seem like the confession had anything to do with their divorce. It took a year for it to come to an end, and it was because he "adopted a different lifestyle" whatever that means. Doesn't look like either of them took his confession seriously. He just played his part, waited out their relationship and made his move when he felt she'd be most vulnerable and receptive to his advances.
Where's the source for this?First comes love, then comes marriage — then comes the best man to steal the bride away from the groom at the wedding?
Well, such was the case for Desiree White, 32, who ultimately divorced her husband to marry her lifelong friend and the best man at her wedding, Bryant, after he confessed his undying love for her while toasting her nuptials to his then-best friend.
“He said, ‘I remember the first moment I saw Desiree, I loved her. I fell in love with her. I knew she had to be mine. I thought she was the most beautiful person I’ve ever seen in my life,’” White, from Illinois, told Kennedy News and Media of Bryant’s best man’s speech during her 2010 matrimony.
“He said, ‘She’s the best person I’ve ever met. I’ve never met anyone like her. Then I found out she already had a boyfriend and I thought I needed to find out a way to get her, but then I met [White’s ex-husband] and we became friends,’” she recalled.
“He said, ‘I remember the first moment I saw Desiree, I loved her. I fell in love with her,'” Desiree recalled her now-husband saying at her previous wedding.
But she and her ex sat side by side, slack-jawed, as Bryant poured out his heart in front of them and their 200 wedding guests.
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“Bryant and I met each other in class at high school,” White told Kennedy News. “I had a boyfriend at the time and, because of that, I really wasn’t going to talk to other people.”
After showing him a picture of her then-beau, Bryant immediately recognized the kid as someone who shared the same lunch period as him. The three formed a tight buddies bond shortly thereafter.
“Bryant and my ex-husband became best friends and, because they were guys, they did a lot together. They did everything together,” White said, insisting that she did not harbor any romantic feelings for her now-husband during their formative years.
“I set Bryant up [on dates with other women] so many times,” she said. “I’ve been on double dates with him and I always tell people I wouldn’t have ever dated the person he was then,” White assured, adding that, at the time, “He had a lot of growing up to do. I didn’t really look at him in that way.”
But White vividly remembers the look of affection that Bryant wore when he saw her adorned in bridal garb on the morning she was to tie the knot with his pal.
White claims she never had romantic feelings for Bryant during their friendship.
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“On the wedding day, I walked into the living room, right when I was done getting ready with my wedding dress on and my hair done. Bryant came into my parents’ house and froze and stared at me,” she recounted.
“I said, ‘Hey, what’s up?’ He said I looked beautiful. I’d never had a moment of him looking at me like that.”
His adoring gaze aside, White proceeded on to her wedding and got married. Bryant, in turn, reportedly got drunk and then publicly professed his love for her.
White claimed she tried to sweep Bryant’s profession of love “under the carpet,” hoping his revelation was nothing more than a byproduct of his loneliness.
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But his unbridled unbosoming didn’t stop at his best man’s speech.
Later that evening, White shared a dance with him while her new hubby cut a rug with her maid of honor. White recalled that while boogying with Bryant, he said, “Why didn’t you ever give me a chance? I would have always taken care of you.”
“I asked him what he meant and he said, ‘Nothing. I love you, I love [White’s ex-husband],’ ” she recounted. “Then he got quiet.”
Following her big day of festivities, a confounded White remembered hoping that she’d “misinterpreted” Bryant’s revelation of amour and tried sweeping his avowal “under the carpet” in her mind.
“I’m sure it was because he was really drunk and lonely,” she recalled thinking to herself at the time. “I knew, up to this point, that he had girlfriends that weren’t working out and he was kind of the third wheel.”
White and Bryant began dating not long after her divorce.
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However, less than a year later, when her marriage began to crumble because her then-husband had adopted what she called “a totally different lifestyle,” White’s relationship with Bryant took a sudden romantic turn.
“When [my ex and I] broke up and divorced, I went through a depression and was really secluded myself. I just didn’t want to make an effort for anything,” she said, noting that Bryant showered her with emotional support during the separation. “He’d ask me to eat with him or hang out and watch a show. He was trying to be there for me.”
Then, to her surprise: “Bryant and I just kissed one day when we were hanging out,” said White.
“It was out of nowhere. When he kissed me, I didn’t stop it, then I kissed him back,” she added. “I was shocked that it was a good kiss. It felt good and natural.”
Shortly after White and Bryant discovered they were expecting their first child, the pair got hitched.
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Almost immediately, the friends became lovers. And, within a year, she became pregnant with their first son, Sawyer, who’s now 9, and the couple got married in 2012.
“[Bryant] said, ‘I always wanted to marry you and this isn’t because of the baby, but let’s start this family right,’ ” White gushed. “We were always friends but when we were together [romantically], it was like nothing was hard to do anymore knowing we had each other.”
And White, now a mother to her and Bryant’s four boys, said she’s living the dream.
“We love being parents. Twenty-year-old Desiree wouldn’t think she could be a mom of four kids,” she proclaimed. “She couldn’t imagine this is what my life would be like now.”
Yeah, they said one of her ex husbands tried to crash her wedding.Ron was a real one.
If she for the streets or someone else, go! Spare me the heartache.
Didn’t Brittany Spears ex husband crash her wedding?