Ex-gf help

[s0lefunk]

Just keep it real with her OP. There is nothing wrong with wanting to be with her and telling her such. Save the poetry though and get straight to it. That way, you can always say you tried...

But I will say this sounds all too familiar and that somebody else most likely has her attention right now...

 

[mondaynightraw]

"i want to experience things" = I want new ****

Cold world

 

[stuntman mike]

just tell her how u feel jack

 

[thadocta]

pix?

 

[Mark Antony]

Lets be honest, we ALL know what OP is going to do and following the knowledge you're trying to lace him with isn't one of them.

The human heart and emotions are a funny and complex thing. Makes us do things against our better judgement all the time.
Some lessons have to be experienced firsthand in order for us to truly grasp them.

I'm not bashing you either bro, I'm speaking from firsthand experience. All I can say is whatever the outcome make sure you LEARN from it.

Yep. You could be given the best advice we could come up with. Thing is, when you're heart's set on something, you can kiss your logical thinking goodbye because it doesn't stand a chance. You'll eventually spill and ask for her back. She may or may not give you another chance. Like D500 said, just make sure you learn from the experience.

Too real. We're saying this because we've been there, but that's just it, we went there despite better judgment. So heed the advice though your heart will say "naw, this is different". You're gonna dive in anyways, just come out of it a better man.

 

[Gill Baka Esq. LLC.]

One of the trappings of the modern man is not understanding when women are seeking attention....and giving women attention is okay....but only when they're your woman or they can do something substantial for you.

Take my advice son(s)....I'm in a graduate program right now where I'm the only guy surrounded by 25 girls/women 5 days out of the week.

If you really get to know them...they're a bunch of psychopaths and savages who wear perfume and lip gloss. Out of those 25 there are only 5 which I believe are consistent with their attitudes and emotions and are down *** girls.

I digressed a lot there, but if your gonna give a girl attention you have to make sure it's an investment that's worth making. Men have lost plenty of their own time by chasing the wrong thing and they never learn from their mistakes.

 

[11wordisbond]

Move on brother. She just wants to remain friends while you wanna get back with her. Not gonna work out homie. Better you just cut her off completely and keep it moving.

 

[kickstart]

LOL!

 

[calibeebee]

Tell her you don't want to be just friends. Tell her you don't want a text buddy or to be friendzoned. Tell her you only want to keep in contact with her if she wants to get back with you, and only if she's done banging Tyrone(which she is most def banging tyrone) You can still get back with her because Tyrone only wants to smash, and has told her this. She still hits you up because she wants more attention, that she knows she can get from you. But don't be her therapist, make her man up and either be with you, or move the hell on and be Tyrones eff buddy. Don't be playin these dumb bishs games man, nobody got time for dat

 

[thefasterblade]

KIM

 

[delete1234]

STOP ASKING NT FOR ADVICE!!! these ****** are women haters!

 

[djexpanium]

STOP ASKING NT FOR ADVICE!!! these ****** are women haters!

Not true, but what do those astericks represent?

 

[Baby Face Nelson]

She bumped you down to #2 on the depth chart and with this being your contract year, go ahead and contend for a starting position elsewhere. Tryone has a proven track record and he will either fumble or throw a costly INT with 2 mins to lose the game, so she looking for to you to salvage his mess.

In all seriousness, she made her grave when she pulled out the whole finding herself selfish card. She made an executive decision without your input and you can't sit and wait because what if she never finds herself? You can still be civil with her but don't fall in too deep because next thing I know I'll be reading about you in the "Friend Zoned" thread.

 

[guccjermaine]

Let her go, get out the house tonight and rack as many yambs as possible. You'll feel much better. If it were me I'd never talk to her again. It hurts now but in time you'll forget about her. You MUST be productive now, show her you're a man and you'll be good without her.

 

[delete1234]

yes true and its the n word.

 

[Mark Antony]

No doubt NT has some misogynist betas here, but the advice here is solid.

 

[thinkinfresh]

Too many fish in the sea to be hung up on 1, explore your stilll young

 

[boris]

OP was vague and provided too little information to make room for any real advice. 

 

[fade on you]

Let her go and don't look back. Move on and be with someone who always wants to be with you, not sometimes.

 

[championboyz7]

Lets be honest, we ALL know what OP is going to do and following the knowledge you're trying to lace him with isn't one of them.

The human heart and emotions are a funny and complex thing. Makes us do things against our better judgement all the time.
Some lessons have to be experienced firsthand in order for us to truly grasp them.

I'm not bashing you either bro, I'm speaking from firsthand experience. All I can say is whatever the outcome make sure you LEARN from it.

Yep. You could be given the best advice we could come up with. Thing is, when you're heart's set on something, you can kiss your logical thinking goodbye because it doesn't stand a chance. You'll eventually spill and ask for her back. She may or may not give you another chance. Like D500 said, just make sure you learn from the experience.

Too real. We're saying this because we've been there, but that's just it, we went there despite better judgment. So heed the advice though your heart will say "naw, this is different". You're gonna dive in anyways, just come out of it a better man.

I thought this was just me. Everything they said is right. Do what we all know you're gonna do, just come out of it a better man.

 

[phen0m]

OP was vague and provided too little information to make room for any real advice. 

Not true.. use context clues.. read her words. Do you really wanna be the guy convincing a girl to stay? If you have to plead with your lady for her attention.. why bother

 

[Mark Antony]

OP was vague and provided too little information to make room for any real advice. 

Not true.. use context clues.. read her words. Do you really wanna be the guy convincing a girl to stay? If you have to plead with your lady for her attention.. why bother

Word, and it's not like his situation is really unique.

 

[ihust1e]

Keep it moving my man. From experience the relationship is done. Same bs happened to me. Things was never da same after we had some time apart. I banged a few females and she got pregnant by her ex. As much as u think you lover her its other females out there. Make the right move

This is my life story 

 

[executive76]

pics?

 

[boris]

OP was vague and provided too little information to make room for any real advice. 

Not true.. use context clues.. read her words. Do you really wanna be the guy convincing a girl to stay? If you have to plead with your lady for her attention.. why bother

Read her words? We have OP's brief recollection of what she wants without any additional details.

Girl wants to be single to work on herself. Boy admits to partially being responsible because he was mediocre.

These two points don't really add up and we weren't given any other information.