Ex-gf....

OP, PM me so I can talk to you about my exp. It is very much likes yours, and if anyone can give you good advice on this issue judging by your current condition, it is me.
 
Originally Posted by Crook

 
She says she cares about me and offers to help out in any way she can - but I know we're never getting back together again, that ship sailed a while ago. And as much as she's my best friend in the whole world, I know it'll never truly work out on a platonic level. I think she's lying to me too: she met a guy a couple months ago who was in town for an elective, and she's visiting the city he's in and staying with him right now for a 2nd time since vancouver. She said she's just there for fun since she has time off work and when I asked her if she's dating anyone right now she answered no. Don't know if she's just trying to spare my feelings or what but I find it pretty insulting.

 
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She's lying. She's guilty about the breakup and slowly weaning herself off from you. It'll come to a point where she'll end up flipping on you and cutting you off the second this new relationship comes to fruition. Women are simply like that sometimes. Getting mad at a woman for acting out of her emotions and being indecisive until the last moment is like getting mad at a dog for barking at any small sound he hears from the outdoors; it's in their nature.

You need to be as neutral and as non-vindictive as possible in this. Make it a non-factor; don't act at all in regards to it. What I mean is don't act out of spite, don't say slick things on FB or twitter, don't let your feelings represent you or sway your actions at all. Just live. Move on, it's taken long enough and you're postponing the inevitable truth of it being over.

How much is this hurting your pride son? She's living her life and finding some cornball to hug up with, even visit out of town...while you're still daydreaming about her in Marvin's Room. That's a SLAP IN THE FACE to you as a man, you're letting her get away with treating you like her little brother. It's gonna tear you apart before you know it. Just cut her off. Don't say anything or do anything, just CUT HER OFF.

I want you to wake up tomorrow and tell yourself she doesn't exist to you anymore, because you barely exist for her as it is.

Never make somebody the lead character of your story when you're only an extra in their's
 
Keep Your Head Up Man... Break Ups Hurt, But Its Life. The Same Way You Found Her You Can Find Another.
 
Stay busy son. Go out and chill with your friends

I know it's hard but you have try and not think about her
 
WISEPHAROAH wrote:
 DUDE BE A MALE! You sound so coochie when I opened your page glitter started coming off the screen. Butterflies and estrogen started leaking from my receiver.

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Originally Posted by ksteezy

Wow, homie....get those suicidal thoughts out of your $!@+#*% head!!!...from what you said, it seems like you feel in love with her but shes not in love with you...with that said, give yourself time and more time....you will be fine, noone dies from a breakup bro and you need to start loving yourself more and appreciating life, saying you want to off yourself is ridiculous, life is so beautiful...you really think you won't come across another female that will fall in live with you??..,that you won't have children, achieve goals, grow old with someone??...what good will takin your life do???...nothing at all other than hurting those who do love you and appreciate you...why would you do that to them, why do that to yourself?...appreciate what you have and forget what you don't have ( her) best of luck OP...stop trying to get over her...just learn to love yourself again and the thought of her will fade away.
Great post.
 
Originally Posted by joshyy1834

I might be the tallest person on NT, everybody is 5'5...

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, I got over my ex a while ago but I'm too lazy to remember the process 
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. Just search up how to get over ex on youtube and just watch.
 
Man think of it this way. If you are willing to put a girl first but she doesn't feel the same for you then she isn't worth having around. No sense in trying if you are just going to be second fiddle. There are plenty of girls out there.
 
Originally Posted by blackmagnus514

Your girl probably met dude while ya'll were together. She's getting her back pounded out by him and you're talking about she's your best friend?
Just now seeing this thread and this ^ is exactly the first thing that comes to mind after reading OP's post.

Man up OP. Girls come and go.

She's gone.

Emotionally checked out of you and into another guy who's caught her interest.

She said she's just there for fun. lol. I'll stop here.
 
^^ yeah bruh she was probably lowkey with the guy while you were together , you said you broke up 3.5 months ago and she met this dude 2 months ago , already staying with em? I dont know . . . you gotta live and learn man> sorry to hear this happened to you but you have a lot of life to live ( or maybe not) so dwelling on the past isnt the direction to go.

Find your positives and work with em. im sure another woman will come around and with that being said , move on .
 
and ive been with my girlfriend for 4 years , one thing ive learned is you should NEVER let your woman remove you from your friends , because they will be there before her and after .. if you treated them right, you need your friends to get over the split up
 
Whatever you do don't kill your self NO girl is worth that now I'm just in high school and went threw this sort of thing went a year being depressed as hell and finally I just realized its not even worth your time you'll find somebody knew who won't do you wrong
 
Every time things get bad with girls, whether it be a break up or a fight, the next couple months are gonna suck. Life throws you up's and down's for a reason. Tough it out and you'll find something better in the long run.
 
Originally Posted by IluvJordanXI

Originally Posted by joshyy1834

I might be the tallest person on NT, everybody is 5'5...

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, I got over my ex a while ago but I'm too lazy to remember the process 
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Are you serious? No, don't do that. You've got some soul searching to do. You've got to be happy with yourself before you can please anyone. Do things that make you enjoy doing, keep your mind preoccupied. 
 
I envisioned a o.p. calling his ex and playing Mariah Carey's "we belong together" loud as hell. All you here is 5 octaves and a scion motor humming hard as hell cus o.p. is driving down the freeway teary eyed going 105 pushing that tc to the max with anger. Dude whiping tears of his face with his palm and %+%+ with his fingers up not trying to smear his mascara. He got one of her old t shirts in the back seat and he been smelling it and %+%+. Dude is ready to eject out of the fighter jet called life. This king said I'm 5'5 ill never catch another one. What type of soul animates the body to even utter that!? I could be just a butt and elbows with lips and an eye and I still be out here catching. #%$+%! is so spoiled!
 
Pharaoh just went in.

lmao

Pray to the Based God that he wont *!@! your !+@## and that he will return her swiftly.
 
no girl is worth suicidal thoughts, man.

just like some have mentioned...use this time to focus on you. don't worry about quickly meeting someone new or whatever. focus on you. do the things you like to do. focus on your health. the rest will fall into place.
 
Originally Posted by WISEPHAROAH

I envisioned a o.p. calling his ex and playing Mariah Carey's "we belong together" loud as hell. All you here is 5 octaves and a scion motor humming hard as hell cus o.p. is driving down the freeway teary eyed going 105 pushing that tc to the max with anger. Dude whiping tears of his face with his palm and %+%+ with his fingers up not trying to smear his mascara. He got one of her old t shirts in the back seat and he been smelling it and %+%+. Dude is ready to eject out of the fighter jet called life. This king said I'm 5'5 ill never catch another one. What type of soul animates the body to even utter that!? I could be just a butt and elbows with lips and an eye and I still be out here catching. #%$+%! is so spoiled!
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The detail some of you guys go into is just aspiring. Need to start writing again
 
Originally Posted by WISEPHAROAH

O.P. I'm going to have a real heart to heart with you as a man to a man. I read your post and honestly I was disgusted at first. I understand being heart broke and all that but when a person loses a male/female and they say "I can't go on in life" I don't know whether to laugh or cry. Sir you cannot be older than 20 and you are ready to quit in life over your first little heartbreak? I'm not going to feed you the truth about loving yourself etc because its easier said then done and frankly you issues are deeper than this girl. The reality is she was a artificial womb for you. You are a very sad and alone person in general and you need to get your mind right. You depended so heavily on this girl you are questioning life and hurting while she is not even thinking about you getting pounded out by this new dude, going to see movies with him and holding hands just as happy as can be. You're sulking over someone that feels your so fragile that telling you she has moved on would be so unhealthy for you she is sparing you. Nobody sad be an alpha male DUDE BE A MALE! You sound so coochie when I opened your page glitter started coming off the screen. Butterflies and estrogen started leaking from my receiver. You straight up sound so %**@+ its repulsive. I'm telling you this out of love. Dig yourself out of the mud for christ sakes and go cure cancer or something. *@!@%! come and go dude, maybe you find that "one" maybe you don't but you are top priority princess.
homie got straight to the point 
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