? for NTrs who are in long term relationships

[lurkin2long]

Your girl ever ask you to bring another female in the relationship? Like at first I thought it was a trap, but she talk about it all the time now. Imean...........maybe if it was 2 jumpoffs but 3some with wifey just seems like not a good idea. I dunno...........like even last night she just brought up"Ihad this crazy dream with some girls yesterday" I know she loves me but damn...........i feel confused. I mean I dunno what im even really askin.The sex is great but I dont know if my girl having a girlfriend is really a good idea.....? Any NTrs have a bi girlfriend? Thing is too she says she wants meto do stuff too.........but my girl is def the jealous type.

mature replies only please

 

[clutch 713]

Don't do it fam...

 

[nawth21]

ummm. No. Can't say it ever crossed my mind.

 

[yungmatt]

If that happens,thats not YOUR girl anymore.... IMO

 

[subtrax]

wow, thats every guy's fantasy but i dont know if they would actually go for it! lol i was expecting this to be a bf/gf relationship, not a married one...but since you are, don't fall for it! hahah it could be a trap. and no, haven't a bi-girlfirend before, that would be weird for me!

 

[lurkin2long]

Originally Posted by CLuTcH 713

Don't do it fam...

maybe im too nice..............but i was even thinkin. what if i just let her get down with a chick. an i dont get involved. you know just to see her happy. itcould even kinda be part of xmas. but then i asked myself..........................wth am i talkin about? like she wants me to find the girl and everything.

 

[mangudai954]

Originally Posted by lurkin2long

Originally Posted by CLuTcH 713

Don't do it fam...

maybe im too nice..............but i was even thinkin. what if i just let her get down with a chick. an i dont get involved. you know just to see her happy. it could even kinda be part of xmas. but then i asked myself..........................wth am i talkin about? like she wants me to find the girl and everything.

I feel you. I wouldn't do it.

 

[si3xers55]

do it. 2 is always better than 1

 

[elboricua 6]

If you have feelings for her I wouldnt do it ....

I did this before and all it brought was drama ...

But if you dont see your girl as a long term commitment then do it ...

But bringing that ++++ up in the future and or wanting to do it all the itme is not a good looks and if you dont mind her having emotional tides with anotherchick then you know ...

 

[ricerocket1]

wow...your girl is just curious how it feels to be with another girl...join in or watch in the sidelines

 

[lurkin2long]

Originally Posted by subtrax

wow, thats every guy's fantasy but i dont know if they would actually go for it! lol i was expecting this to be a bf/gf relationship, not a married one... but since you are, don't fall for it! hahah it could be a trap. and no, haven't a bi-girlfirend before, that would be weird for me!

were not married but were 4 going on 5 years. lots of ups and downs but i could see gettin married. my bad........i dont even like the term wifey myself.

matt............word?

too vague my man

edit: im not worried about losin my girl to a female. like i said the bedroom is great i handle business, but yea anyways im confused. at first i thoughtsomething like this would be cool but really thinking about is different. i mean she wants to marry me an have kids an all that later on. we both know the famand all that.

 

[dropkicks]

I wouldn't do it .. I would probably think it was a trap too dawg .. but you might wanna watch yo girl tho 4real .. Girls with Girlfriends are not thebusiness

 

[lurkin2long]

Originally Posted by elboricua 6

If you have feelings for her I wouldnt do it ....

I did this before and all it brought was drama ...

But if you dont see your girl as a long term commitment then do it ...

But bringing that ++++ up in the future and or wanting to do it all the itme is not a good looks and if you dont mind her having emotional tides with another chick then you know ...

why though? what happen?

mind you..........this isnt me askin her...............this is her. like she really feels she is attracted to women. i kinda thought she was bi before. ourfirst date was the strip club..............no lie. damn i literally just thought about that now. she has had women hit on her before an was disgusted but nowall of a sudden she talkin that she want a women stuff. i dunno my chick crazy.

 

[yungmatt]

Originally Posted by lurkin2long

Originally Posted by subtrax

wow, thats every guy's fantasy but i dont know if they would actually go for it! lol i was expecting this to be a bf/gf relationship, not a married one... but since you are, don't fall for it! hahah it could be a trap. and no, haven't a bi-girlfirend before, that would be weird for me!

were not married but were 4 going on 5 years. lots of ups and downs but i could see gettin married. my bad........i dont even like the term wifey myself.

matt............word?

too vague my man

I couldnt share my girl..with anyone. Thats something you do with 2 jumpoffs. Everyone is different but I dont think I would look at my girl the same way aftersomething like that.

 

[zeen1ne]

Originally Posted by yungmatt

If that happens,thats not YOUR girl anymore.... IMO

Exactly. Dont do it fam.

 

[an dee 51o]

Don't do it. As enjoyable as it will be at time time, it's not worth the risk. If you really want to be with your chick in the future, know that thiswill +%+$ the relationship up. Like you said, if it was two jump offs it would be easy money, but don't go there with wifey.

 

[fedexciter]

Originally Posted by lurkin2long

Originally Posted by CLuTcH 713

Don't do it fam...

maybe im too nice..............but i was even thinkin. what if i just let her get down with a chick. an i dont get involved. you know just to see her happy. it could even kinda be part of xmas. but then i asked myself..........................wth am i talkin about? like she wants me to find the girl and everything.

im talkin from experience here son...u let her do this and shes gonna think its ok to go behind your back and have sex with another girl,but she wont look atit as goin behind your back because shes gonna think youre ok with it...when this happened to me i didnt care because i wasnt too attached to shorty plus i gotmy revenge a couple months later and slid off with the same shorty she was goin behind my back to see

 

[MPLS612]

I can't believe you're even considering not doing it.
I'm disappointed in EVERY male who would not jump at the chance.
The hell is wrong with you guys?

 

[lurkin2long]

Originally Posted by yungmatt

Originally Posted by lurkin2long

Originally Posted by subtrax

wow, thats every guy's fantasy but i dont know if they would actually go for it! lol i was expecting this to be a bf/gf relationship, not a married one... but since you are, don't fall for it! hahah it could be a trap. and no, haven't a bi-girlfirend before, that would be weird for me!

were not married but were 4 going on 5 years. lots of ups and downs but i could see gettin married. my bad........i dont even like the term wifey myself.

matt............word?

too vague my man

I couldnt share my girl..with anyone. Thats something you do with 2 jumpoffs. Everyone is different but I dont think I would look at my girl the same way after something like that.

gotcha.........................my man. like i was sayin to myself

but then its like if she really wants a girl that bad....................................id be even more confused if she went messin with a chick behind myback. like wth? then she hit me with well i was tryna have you join in but you wasnt down. she shouldve came at me with this way earlier in the relationship.

 

[kingtre]

let me just say i feel you-

thing is if SHE brings it up...act disinterested and let her control it but go with it....once you start asking for it or showing too much interest in it - itsa wrap

do it with a random chick not someone either of you know and it should work out...again just don't show too much interest in the extra girl cause if yourgirl is anywhere near as jealous as mine she will ruin it all and try to kill both of yall

but you know your shorty better than anyone in this thread- so as long as your not initiating or forcing the situation go for it...

 

[lurkin2long]

Originally Posted by Kingtre

let me just say i feel you-

thing is if SHE brings it up...act disinterested and let her control it but go with it....once you start asking for it or showing too much interest in it - its a wrap

do it with a random chick not someone either of you know and it should work out...again just don't show too much interest in the extra girl cause if your girl is anywhere near as jealous as mine she will ruin it all and try to kill both of yall

but you know your shorty better than anyone in this thread- so as long as your not initiating or forcing the situation go for it...

MY MAN

thats exactly how i been doin, she the one be all excited about the topic etc. i just play it real casual. she be like you'll find the girl for us? youpromise? i be like yea yea, relax.

very true, an my chick is crazy. i dont want her actin funny later on. like you seem like you had too much fun or some BS.

it was your idea my lady.

 

[apples28]

No dont do it.
She might be curious about other females but if you want her dont let her cross the line.
She might not come back
She cant have her cake and eat it too

 

[akf0dy7]

Originally Posted by yungmatt

If that happens,thats not YOUR girl anymore.... IMO

co-sign

 

[agthekid]

Don't do it I wouldn't even consider it.

 

[yungmatt]

Originally Posted by lurkin2long

Originally Posted by yungmatt

Originally Posted by lurkin2long

Originally Posted by subtrax

wow, thats every guy's fantasy but i dont know if they would actually go for it! lol i was expecting this to be a bf/gf relationship, not a married one... but since you are, don't fall for it! hahah it could be a trap. and no, haven't a bi-girlfirend before, that would be weird for me!

were not married but were 4 going on 5 years. lots of ups and downs but i could see gettin married. my bad........i dont even like the term wifey myself.

matt............word?

too vague my man

I couldnt share my girl..with anyone. Thats something you do with 2 jumpoffs. Everyone is different but I dont think I would look at my girl the same way after something like that.

gotcha.........................my man. like i was sayin to myself

but then its like if she really wants a girl that bad....................................id be even more confused if she went messin with a chick behind my back. like wth? then she hit me with well i was tryna have you join in but you wasnt down. she shouldve came at me with this way earlier in the relationship.

ehhh I cant even front,your in a tough spot right now

She sounds like shes REAL curious so The risk is there of her goin behind your back whether you do it or not

Yo,how old is she? I almost forgot to ask that

. That can also tell a lot