? for NTrs who are in long term relationships

[an dee 51o]

Next thing you know, you're going to come home from a long day of work and your girl is gonna be face-deep.

 

[million dollar stacks]

SOMEBODY SLEEPING IN MY BEEEEEED

 

[lurkin2long]

she 21.......22 in march.

been with her since she was 18 literally right around her HS graduation. but thats the thing she use to just joke an stuff or say something like id kill you ifyou ever another girl. but now she like she WANTS me to do this and this and wants to watch me an she also wanna get down. its not even curious i think shebelieves she BI now. so yea like i said. i dunno

 

[alchemiss]

Just speaking from experience, I'd say don't do it.

Most bi girls are extremely greedy and it's really sad. I've messed with way more bi or "straight" girls than gay ones, and the amount thatlater tell me "I have a man" is ridiculous.. First she's messing with girls then she's falling in love with them, seriously don't do it. Girls catch feelings way more than guys when it comes to sex.

Plus, adding another person to a relationship is the point that starts the decline of it

 

[nawth21]

*insert this will not end well gif*

Sounds like she's getting curious. We all know how that usually ends up.

 

[lurkin2long]

Originally Posted by Alchemiss

Just speaking from experience, I'd say don't do it.

Most bi girls are extremely greedy and it's really sad. I've messed with way more bi or "straight" girls than gay ones, and the amount that later tell me "I have a man" is ridiculous.. First she's messing with girls then she's falling in love with them, seriously don't do it. Girls catch feelings way more than guys when it comes to sex.

Plus, adding another person to a relationship is the point that starts the decline of it

ive called her selfish as hell plenty of times durin a fight, etc

an yea like i said she is def. the jealous type. thats why all this as of late has been confusing as hell.

bi polar ftl but damn i love her. good looks NT. shell get over it

 

[yungmatt]

Originally Posted by lurkin2long

she 21.......22 in march.

been with her since she was 18 literally right around her HS graduation. but thats the thing she use to just joke an stuff or say something like id kill you if you ever another girl. but now she like she WANTS me to do this and this and wants to watch me an she also wanna get down. its not even curious i think she believes she BI now. so yea like i said. i dunno

From the info you gave,I definitely think shes BI.

Sounds like she has been curious/attracted to females since she was like 16. From what I have seen If it starts from that young I dont think this is just aphase.

I dunno man,this is a tough one... Her curiosity MIGHT cause her to explore one day whether she tells you or not

 

[blackmagnus514]

you now share that girl

 

[lurkin2long]

lol.................back in high school. her best friend at the time they use to alway take showers together? we had a convo like if 2 dudes did that theywould def be called ___________but girls can do that? she like a lot of girls do we were bestfriends.........

im thinkin maybe she been bi for a long time but now she really feels she is/coming out. maybe shell just stop talking about it. this might be too much infobut w/e the convo usually comes up when were intimate..........you know how thats gets people real open. so will be ya know an shell be like like yea we needto get another girl or something an i wanna see you do this an that to her an i want this done an yadda yadda. A LOT. iight this thread helped but im stillconfused so im done talkin. good looks though.

 

[million dollar stacks]

u better take pics and tear both of them up.

 

[calgoresback]

Don't do it. Its probably one of her fantasies but when or if it happens. She'll know she ain't your only one.

 

[alchemiss]

Originally Posted by lurkin2long

Originally Posted by Alchemiss

Just speaking from experience, I'd say don't do it.

Most bi girls are extremely greedy and it's really sad. I've messed with way more bi or "straight" girls than gay ones, and the amount that later tell me "I have a man" is ridiculous.. First she's messing with girls then she's falling in love with them, seriously don't do it. Girls catch feelings way more than guys when it comes to sex.

Plus, adding another person to a relationship is the point that starts the decline of it

ive called her selfish as hell plenty of times durin a fight, etc

an yea like i said she is def. the jealous type. thats why all this as of late has been confusing as hell.

bi polar ftl but damn i love her. good looks NT. shell get over it

Word I didnt even realize the catch feelings things could go both ways. She catches feelings for the girl but both of yall mess with her so she also isjealous of the girl because she may think you like her too. Whoa... complications

 

[fanatic15]

Never crossed my mind and if my guy suggested it to me seriously I'd laugh in his face.

...but that's just me.

That's what fantasy is for. Once it crosses over to the realm of reality it's a whole different ball game with real world consequences. Keep that inmind.

 

[elboricua 6]

Originally Posted by lurkin2long

Originally Posted by elboricua 6

If you have feelings for her I wouldnt do it ....

I did this before and all it brought was drama ...

But if you dont see your girl as a long term commitment then do it ...

But bringing that ++++ up in the future and or wanting to do it all the itme is not a good looks and if you dont mind her having emotional tides with another chick then you know ...

why though? what happen?

mind you..........this isnt me askin her...............this is her. like she really feels she is attracted to women. i kinda thought she was bi before. our first date was the strip club..............no lie. damn i literally just thought about that now. she has had women hit on her before an was disgusted but now all of a sudden she talkin that she want a women stuff. i dunno my chick crazy.

Because it was her Idea and I went along with it .. then when I started enjoying it she got a little tight ..

then she wanted to bring that +%%% up all the time like if it was my fault ...

then towards the end she wanted me to agree to do it with another guy and her and thats when I put up the dueces ad bounce

let along every damn argument we had she brought that up like if I did it with her I would do it with anyone and I was like

didnt you want that .. etc etc etc .. just drama caused by the situation!

 

[frenchblue23]

She's sounding selfish to me.

I understand having a fantasy, but a relationship with another person, come on.

 

[tuff g0ng]

If you go through with it, sex with just her will never be enough from thatpoint forward.

 

[kingtre]

Originally Posted by lurkin2long

lol.................back in high school. her best friend at the time they use to alway take showers together? we had a convo like if 2 dudes did that they would def be called ___________but girls can do that? she like a lot of girls do we were bestfriends.........

im thinkin maybe she been bi for a long time but now she really feels she is/coming out. maybe shell just stop talking about it. this might be too much info but w/e the convo usually comes up when were intimate..........you know how thats gets people real open. so will be ya know an shell be like like yea we need to get another girl or something an i wanna see you do this an that to her an i want this done an yadda yadda. A LOT. iight this thread helped but im still confused so im done talkin. good looks though.

son...like nike....you gotta JUST DO IT

it aint like its something in passing where you can just say forget- obv its something she wants...for better or worse...you gotta see what happens-

 

[dearwinter219]

I've done it but I don't recommend it personally.

 

[elboricua 6]

Originally Posted by lurkin2long

she 21.......22 in march.

been with her since she was 18 literally right around her HS graduation. but thats the thing she use to just joke an stuff or say something like id kill you if you ever another girl. but now she like she WANTS me to do this and this and wants to watch me an she also wanna get down. its not even curious i think she believes she BI now. so yea like i said. i dunno

Now that I read that, I'll say just do it and let it be ..

If she is having this urges now, imagen later on .. It's like you aint enough now and she wants to spice %*%% up ...

Do it and if it's start going down hill leave her !+* for real ...

but that teen love for the most part never works mang, so for now just enjoy your fantasy and if it works it does and if it doesnt move on ....

 

[chico dusty]

Sounds like a trap to me ...

Confused girls FTL

 

[raptors29]

Originally Posted by AME416


I can't believe you're even considering not doing it.
I'm disappointed in EVERY male who would not jump at the chance.
The hell is wrong with you guys?

If my girl suggested it, I would be suspicious as hell.

 

[alchemiss]

Originally Posted by raptors29

Originally Posted by AME416


I can't believe you're even considering not doing it.
I'm disappointed in EVERY male who would not jump at the chance.
The hell is wrong with you guys?

If my girl suggested it, I would be suspicious as hell.

Damn some of yall don't get it. It MAY start out as just a 3some.. but theres high chances that the gf will catch feelings for the other girl, and startseeing her behind your back. Cheating is cheating, no matter if its with a man or woman- and personally I wouldn't want my other half in love with someoneelse or f'ing someone else.

 

[face82]

You are a lucky bastard. I'd say give it a try but i would be scared that she would totally cross over and leave you hanging. I get jealous, so even thoughit's another girl and not some guy I wouldn't want her taking all the attention. 3some ? Cool but a 3way relationship I couldn't do it. Buthey....it sounds like fun. Talk it over ....see whats up.

 

[yungmatt]

Originally Posted by Kingtre

son...like nike....you gotta JUST DO IT

it aint like its something in passing where you can just say forget- obv its something she wants...for better or worse...you gotta see what happens-

elboricua 6 wrote:

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Now that I read that, I'll say just do it and let it be ..

If she is having this urges now, imagen later on .. It's like you aint enough now and she wants to spice %*%% up ...

Do it and if it's start going down hill leave her !+* for real ...

but that teen love for the most part never works mang, so for now just enjoy your fantasy and if it works it does and if it doesnt move on ....


Agreed

From what I read, I think shes gonna eventually do it regardless of if your involved or not

Whatever you decide, be a little weary of losing your chick....

Ive seen it happen first hand to this married chick i was boning a few years ago. She was with her husband for like 6 years,married for 1... She always told meshe thought she was BI but never messed with girls like that... Well long story short, she was messin with a chick behind dudes back,ended up divorcing him andmoving in with her new girlfriend and has not had or wanted a penis ever since... Her and the girl also broke up but now shes a straight lesbian.

 

[kingtre]

oh and make sure you cop some type of supplement (v, c, e) something

- you dont want to end up on the sidelines too quick watching somebody show you how it done