phen0m
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- Feb 27, 2009
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Soo.. just venting I guess.. but welcome to insights and criticism.. of which I'm sure I will get both.
So my chick is a personal trainer.. 5'0 about 120-125 naturally. Nice butt, nice boobs, flat stomach etc. Always running, eating healthy, its cool, i love it.
So a few weeks ago, she started really going in on lifting weights, and boxing, and has dropped a bunch of weight, while picking up muscle.
Boobs have gotten noticeably smaller, I can see her ribs when she lays certain ways, butt has shrunken, arms and shoulders have broaden from the lifting or boxing.
I'm not the only one who noticed.. her male coworkers have commented as well, and asked that she cut back on whatever shes doing(not that its their place, just for reference).
She is in love with her body and the way she feels, but also solicited my opinion on it, to which I told her that its not a look that I'm a fan of.. I just personally don't like muscle on women, I like for a woman to look womanly, with curves and softness. She can be toned and fit.. but muscle I'm not a fan of, especially on her small frame.. it looks a bit manly to me.
Also, from my perspective, since this has taken place.. I have not asked her to change or make revisions for me.. its her decision, but I cant control how I feel on a particular look.. you're a attracted to, what you're attracted to at the end of the day. I dont even ask for compromise.. its just.. on her.. all of this.
So shortie is distraught, and hurt.. and thinks I need to love her unconditionally, but its not about love imo as there is no "beef".. just a preference.
I'm not shunning her, nor have I changed how I act, outside of affection.. but i'm just not "there" anymore due to the added mass.
Is this relationship dunzo? Thoughts?
no Cliffs.. read.
Maybe pics later
Priors(no current pics yet):
So my chick is a personal trainer.. 5'0 about 120-125 naturally. Nice butt, nice boobs, flat stomach etc. Always running, eating healthy, its cool, i love it.
So a few weeks ago, she started really going in on lifting weights, and boxing, and has dropped a bunch of weight, while picking up muscle.
Boobs have gotten noticeably smaller, I can see her ribs when she lays certain ways, butt has shrunken, arms and shoulders have broaden from the lifting or boxing.
I'm not the only one who noticed.. her male coworkers have commented as well, and asked that she cut back on whatever shes doing(not that its their place, just for reference).
She is in love with her body and the way she feels, but also solicited my opinion on it, to which I told her that its not a look that I'm a fan of.. I just personally don't like muscle on women, I like for a woman to look womanly, with curves and softness. She can be toned and fit.. but muscle I'm not a fan of, especially on her small frame.. it looks a bit manly to me.
Also, from my perspective, since this has taken place.. I have not asked her to change or make revisions for me.. its her decision, but I cant control how I feel on a particular look.. you're a attracted to, what you're attracted to at the end of the day. I dont even ask for compromise.. its just.. on her.. all of this.
So shortie is distraught, and hurt.. and thinks I need to love her unconditionally, but its not about love imo as there is no "beef".. just a preference.
I'm not shunning her, nor have I changed how I act, outside of affection.. but i'm just not "there" anymore due to the added mass.
Is this relationship dunzo? Thoughts?
no Cliffs.. read.
Maybe pics later
Priors(no current pics yet):
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