Getting caught unappreciation/appreciation

[iblink]

Any of you guys ever get caught up cheating? Not necessarily "in the act," but just caught.

$+#@ just happened to me. The first time at that. I've never been caught before, but I guess my number was just called. She wasn't my girlfriend, but she was my main. She came over and confronted me about a couple of girls, one of whom I actually slept with and another who I came really close to getting. In a sense, it's a bitter sweet. It sucks because I know I hurt her and made her look silly, but I've been wanting to get it off my chest for a while. Tired of living with the guilt and what not.

She doesn't hate me yet though. She was a little tipsy during the confrontation, so after the crying came the antics about nothing being easy and how she was willing to work past it. It tore me up inside. I couldn't let her just let me off the hook though. She deserves so much better...

/Rant

No... I won't post pics and I won't get a blog.

 

[bijald0331]

Originally Posted by iBlink

Any of you guys ever get caught up cheating? Not necessarily "in the act," but just caught.

$+#@ just happened to me. The first time at that. I've never been caught before, but I guess my number was just called. She wasn't my girlfriend, but she was my main. She came over and confronted me about a couple of girls, one of whom I actually slept with and another who I came really close to getting. It's a bittersweet in a sense. It sucks because I know I hurt her and made her look silly, but I've been wanting to get it off my chest for a while. Tired of living with the guild and what not.

She doesn't hate me yet though. She was a little tipsy during the confrontation, so after the crying came the antics about nothing being easy and how she was willing to work past it. It tore me up inside. I couldn't let her just let me off the hook though. She deserves so much better...

/Rant

No... I won't post pics and I won't get a blog.

I'm sorry for your situation and your grammar.

just playin...


Know you're in a heated moment so w/e...

At least you feel you are in a better position now. Yes, be self-loathing for a bit. However, you have to move on. You cheated for a reason. You say she deserves better...a better person or a better fit? It honestly seems like you just wasn't feeling her enough to not cheat. You should have ended it yourself.

 

[Shanegerous]

sucks man

 

[veezyv]

Originally Posted by bijald0331

Originally Posted by iBlink

Any of you guys ever get caught up cheating? Not necessarily "in the act," but just caught.

$+#@ just happened to me. The first time at that. I've never been caught before, but I guess my number was just called. She wasn't my girlfriend, but she was my main. She came over and confronted me about a couple of girls, one of whom I actually slept with and another who I came really close to getting. It's a bittersweet in a sense. It sucks because I know I hurt her and made her look silly, but I've been wanting to get it off my chest for a while. Tired of living with the guild and what not.

She doesn't hate me yet though. She was a little tipsy during the confrontation, so after the crying came the antics about nothing being easy and how she was willing to work past it. It tore me up inside. I couldn't let her just let me off the hook though. She deserves so much better...

/Rant

No... I won't post pics and I won't get a blog.

I'm sorry for your situation and your grammar. Since you won't post pics or get a blog, you will get a tutor?

 

[josebronx]

Originally Posted by iBlink

No... I won't post pics

so you failed



































j/p getting constantly accused of cheating FTL

 

[million dollar stacks]

at least she still talking to you.

 

[marionthebarberian]

smh.

 

[iblink]

Originally Posted by bijald0331



I'm sorry for your situation and your grammar.

just playin...


Know you're in a heated moment so w/e...

At least you feel you are in a better position now. Yes, be self-loathing for a bit. However, you have to move on. You cheated for a reason. You say she deserves better...a better person or a better fit? It honestly seems like you just wasn't feeling her enough to not cheat. You should have ended it yourself.

Moving on isn't really the problem. I have options. But I'm not even worried about those girls. The girl I "cheated" on was more of a best friend person. I never intended on catching feelings for her, but I did. Since we were friends first, she shared a lot of deep stuff with me. Especially things from her past relationships. I just feel like I just *+$+%%@ on her since I knew what she'd been through, yet I still did wrong. Tragic.

 

[justscoreda100]

Originally Posted by iBlink

No... I won't post pics and I won't get a blog.

Why make a post then?

 

[iblink]

Why respond?

 

[kicktionair]

pics?

 

[iblink]

Fine. One picture. Please, don't be a herb and try tracking her down on FB.

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[popcornplaya]

Same exact situation. only she was my gf.

i dont even remember the night.

 

[spincv]

Originally Posted by iBlink

Fine. One picture. Please, don't be a herb and try tracking her down on FB.

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[dnycemodel]

Now that you have been caught will you do it again or have you become a changed man?

 

[aceofjays]

U sad?

I'm sad.

 

[nikeairsncrispytees]

Does no one else see that the problem isn't getting caught, it's the part where you go and *%#@ some other broad?

 

[iblink]

Originally Posted by dnycemodel

Now that you have been caught will you do it again or have you become a changed man?

Who knows. The look on her face when she was crying absolutely tore me up inside. I can honestly say I have no intentions of doing it, but let's re real, who sets out with the mind frame that they'll cheat on their partner eventually? I'm easily tempted. Just gotta get over the "jest because she's pretty, doesn't mean you have to try to have sex with her" bridge.

 

[spsfinest212]

Originally Posted by iBlink

Fine. One picture. Please, don't be a herb and try tracking her down on FB.

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I'd let her worship my +*@$

 

[papaprem]

I never got caught cuz Im too slick for that shiii... Just don't get caught slippin next time. Take it from me, as you get older, your jumpoffs start diminishing. (And no, I ain't Charles Manson)

 

[solematic j21]

iBlink remember that thread you made about asking you for advice about anything? Well what do i have to do so that i wont get caught cheating?

 

[iblink]

Originally Posted by solematic j21

iBlink remember that thread you made about asking you for advice about anything? Well what do i have to do so that i wont get caught cheating?

Here's what you do.

Don't cheat. It's too risky in this day and age. Mass communication makes it practically impossible to put distance in between your pieces; someone always knows someone who knows someone who knows a girl you're messing with.

But if you do catch yourself on the losing end of the battle with temptation... then I dunno what to tell you. Apparently I'm not as good as I thought I was.

 

[solematic j21]

Got you, just busting your balls a little.

 

[cragmatic]

How about getting caught not cheating and having your girl go crazy and think you did... SMH

Went to a movie with a girl, when I asked my girl to do something and she couldn't, she got in her head I cheated on her and wont get it out and hasn't talk to me since... SMH

So iBlink... what should I do in that situation

ha ha

 

[iblink]

Originally Posted by Cragmatic

How about getting caught not cheating and having your girl go crazy and think you did... SMH

Went to a movie with a girl, when I asked my girl to do something and she couldn't, she got in her head I cheated on her and wont get it out and hasn't talk to me since... SMH

That's just silly.