- Mar 17, 2008
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Ok NT, I'm in a dilemma. There's this girl who's studying abroad, has a man at home. Has been here for 7 months and has not been back to see him yet. I met her around 2 months ago. We were just kicking it at the beginning, but things started to get intimate. We do alot of things couples do, but there are still some things that are missing that would actually make us seeing each other (such as presumptions that we are monogamous, which I am not, but would have no problem being so if we were to commit). So I'm here with feelings caught....so now do I:
- Bring up the elephant in the room (her man, which we rarely ever talk about) and what exactly we are doing.
- Keep hitting it and keep the feelings in check
If I go for option 1, I feel like I might be able to make it official and have her leave her dude (she doesn't even have plans on going back to her country any time soon). However, repercussions are that if she is not feeling it, I will not be able to hit anymore.
Option 2 might seem like the right thing to do, but I kinda wanna lock shorty down...
I almost feel like she feels the same but is waiting for me to make that move, however if I misread her I'd feel pretty stupid.
What you think?
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- Bring up the elephant in the room (her man, which we rarely ever talk about) and what exactly we are doing.
- Keep hitting it and keep the feelings in check
If I go for option 1, I feel like I might be able to make it official and have her leave her dude (she doesn't even have plans on going back to her country any time soon). However, repercussions are that if she is not feeling it, I will not be able to hit anymore.
Option 2 might seem like the right thing to do, but I kinda wanna lock shorty down...
What you think?
In b4 did not read
