Girl problem.. advice needed!

[cragmatic]

So quick story.. the other night my buddy texts me, tells me he's got this girl he wants me to meet. So w/e, a few hours later he tells me to text her.

So we've been talking the last few days, and we were making some plans, she kept telling me she likes talking to me, i make her smile, etc

So now all of a sudden today she basically doesn't respond to my texts at all, i've sent her 2 and no response. Do I just take it as an L or should Itext her one last time being like "did you still want to do so and so" or calling her out and see whats going on.

 

[cherchez]

you haven't even seen her yet?

 

[toast1985]

Give it some time. Womens* like to see if you're going to press on their none responses. If its been more than 24 hours...You can pretty much chargeher...just send her a laughable ultimatum before you do.

 

[cragmatic]

Shes my buddys g/fs roommate... and no I haven't.. so kind of random but i've seen pics of her and vice versa on facebook...and shes pretty damn goodlooking ha ha

 

[DeadsetAce]

dont text her again. she might be busy. give her a chance to hit you up tomorrow

 

[mytmouse76]

hit her up a few hours before ya'll suppose to go out...if she responds cool...if not keep it moving...

 

[doosta45]

people have lives fam. you cant expect her to drop what she's doing to respond to your text. she'll text you when she gets around to it. just dont texther again. make side plans incase she does flake.

 

[toast1985]

Oh, and uhhh..

...We gon need dem pics playa.

 

[thesouthside]

Originally Posted by Cragmatic

all of a sudden today she basically doesn't respond to my texts at all, i've sent her 2 and no response.

have you never talked to a girl before?
have some patients son, CALL her tomorrow...
I wonder how many people notice i said patients not patience

 

[jay zoe2]

Do not text her back. You will seem thirsty. When she finally does text you back wait at least a day or tow before texting her back. She could have honestlybeen busy, or she could just be test you out. In the beginning, you can't let her know that you are just there waiting for her text. After a few month, andyou guys are dating; okay, but in the courting stage, HELL NO.

 

[imahustla08]

don't text anymore. It will make you seem weak to her. She will text you back.

Pics.

/thread.

 

[justscoreda100]

Drop pics and you'll get a more accurate answer.

 

[nationaltruckerdave]

Originally Posted by Cragmatic

Shes my buddys g/fs roommate... and no I haven't.. so kind of random but i've seen pics of her and vice versa on facebook...and shes pretty damn good looking ha ha

post them or no advice

 

[trapmuzik617]

pics?

YNS

just had to get those out the way

 

[dland24]

pics?

 

[primavera vills]

Stop sweatin' it, she'll text back sooner or later....just don't wait for it. If she doesn't, oh well.

 

[fivefivenine]

just give it some time, she probably doesn't have her phone or somethin of that sort bro..worst comes to worst let it go.

 

[casperjr]

homie you thirsty

 

[regal black]

wait it out, you don't want to come off as thirsty in the beginning.


post pics

 

[whateversclever]

Originally Posted by Cragmatic

Shes my buddys g/fs roommate... and no I haven't.. so kind of random but i've seen pics of her and vice versa on facebook...and shes pretty damn good looking ha ha

Then there is no excuse to not post pics... post pics or no advice

 

[cragmatic]

Chances are someone on NT knwos her and the whole thing will blow up in my face... I am not posting pics

 

[justscoreda100]

Originally Posted by Cragmatic

Chances are someone on NT knwos her and the whole thing will blow up in my face... I am not posting pics

You cant even get texted back and your already worrying about this blowing up in your face?

Chill, son just post them pics. NT will tell you what to do.

 

[jwalker123]

Originally Posted by Cragmatic

Chances are someone on NT knwos her and the whole thing will blow up in my face... I am not posting pics

blurr the face out

 

[dathbgboy]

Quit bein so eager champ. U hit her up and she aint reply then u wait for her to, if she doesn't, chalk it and leave her be

 

[13saldana13]

Originally Posted by TheSouthside

Originally Posted by Cragmatic

all of a sudden today she basically doesn't respond to my texts at all, i've sent her 2 and no response.

have you never talked to a girl before?
have some patients son, CALL her tomorrow...
I wonder how many people notice i said patients not patience

I swear man SMH at some NT'ers. Getting all desperate and sad, calm down. Advice though, call her to confirm your date or whatever, you'll come off asa vag if you hide behind texting all the time.


Blurr out her face for the picture OP we gave you adive, now my eyes need a treat.