Girl Question :/

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So yeah I have my mind pretty much made up, but nothing like getting an objective viewpoint. Long story short, I was in a relationship with a girl who lives ina different state. Things ended, and it was my fault BIG TIME. Every-time we talk we argue, I think it's because we never see each-other, and she stilllets my past get to her. Anyway, if there was a girl you loved, and loved you back. Would you wait for her to come around. Or would the constant nagging whenyou aren't ever even seeing her get to you. In the end I have other options, but that isn't the point, and I wouldn't have made the thread if Ididn't somewhat care for her.

Cliffnotes- Ex is trippin
-I still wanna smash
-Different State so INS
-Is Love worth waiting? Over drama.
 
Nagging isnt good for the soul. Let that joint settle for a while and give her an ultimatum
 
You obviously know that it's the distance that is making her irritable, so IMO, just make a clean break.
Unless you move closer to each other, it'll get worse before it gets any better.


Easier said than done, I guess. =/
 
[color= rgb(255, 0, 0)]If things are like that, then you two should move on and see what happens.. Arguingeveryday isn't helping anything..[/color]
 
Originally Posted by LadiiKix

How can long-distance relationships seriously work?

only for so long before temptation becomes too hard to resist.
 
It seems like, in this day and age, asking someone to be patient and mature is almost asking for the impossible.
 
Originally Posted by Chi ILL

Originally Posted by LadiiKix

How can long-distance relationships seriously work?
They can with maturity & patience .
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+ consistent & frequent communication

but int he end it boils down to how much the people want it tow ork
 
Originally Posted by Chi ILL

Originally Posted by LadiiKix

How can long-distance relationships seriously work?
They can with maturity & patience .
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i think you're cliffnotes summed it up man...

Cliffnotes- Ex is trippin
-I still wanna smash
-Different State so INS
-Is Love worth waiting? Over drama.


Do you really love her...or love the smashing?
 
i waited. for a cool minute too.. year and some change.
she finally came around a couple months after i finally decided to move on..

i think i might go back to her though
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waiting for a chick to 'come around' ? what ? do you devalue your time so much as to wait around on hope ?
 
so you cheated?

I'm kinda in the same situation but she only lives 30 min away. so when we see each other its on.
i agree with the communication thing tho. me and her are constantly talking on yim whenever we can. and we just tell each other about or days. trust andopeness is a must tho.

i reccomend you break it off and try for the best friend relatonship so u can still be close and care about her.
 
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