For some reason, my boyfriend is really into having sex in the doggie-style position, but I totally don't get the appeal. Plus, I hate giving him a front-row seat to my butt sticking up in the air. What is it about this pose that guys are so into?
Awww, doggie-style. Guys have been enjoying this position since the days when we gnawed on saber-toothed-tiger bones and dragged our girlfriends around by their hair. In fact, that's a major reason for its widespread appeal — the position is so primal that it brings us back to our animalistic roots. (Hello, it is named after a canine, after all.) Another reason your guy rolls over and begs for doggie-style is because it feels so damn good. When he's on his knees, he's able to put more power behind his thrusting. Plus, this stance allows him to control the action without doing a number on his biceps. If you simply hate doing it doggie-style or you find it awkward and uncomfortable, then you need to level with him. Say, "Look, I know you love it, but I really don't enjoy it. Is there any other position you might like just as much?" That way, he won't feel like a sad kid who just lost his ice cream cone. Now, if the real reason why you're so opposed to it is because you don't like him looking at your butt, I suggest you try to get over it. Trust me on this: He's too focused on how good it feels to notice how much cushion there is for the pushin'. More important, whether big or small, fit or not-so-toned, there's something about a chick's rear end that guys just go crazy for.
