Has your girl ever told you.....

I deaded her 150% a day ago

Deleted her off Facebook and Instagram her number everything, gone

A day later she texted me I recognized the number sayin I'm giving her "too much space" now from deleting her...... WTF

"I wanted to tell you I miss you"

24 hours after deleting her off Facebook and IG


We had a great thing goin great until she threw me this curve ball with this "break" thing





This tells me shes confused. If you really like her you just have to understand maybe go on dates with some other girls til she figures herself out
 
she told me she feels "smothered"  im thinkin yo I don't even see you often......
Well of course bro . . . between you and Tyrone both nibbling on them yambs, she is being spread way too thin . . . what kind of ***** do you think she is man?
 
Gotdamn you are one weak individual, Dipset. It's obvious you got played. You KNOW you got played. Yet you want to run back to the rat like it's all gravy. Grow a pair and find some booty, son. You disgust me.
 
Gotdamn you are one weak individual, Dipset. It's obvious you got played. You KNOW you got played. Yet you want to run back to the rat like it's all gravy. Grow a pair and find some booty, son. You disgust me.

Y'all are right Dipset got played but he can get her back .....there is more than one way to skin a cat.

Alot guys drop out when they don't what they want at all but then there's the guys who get what they want
 
Gotdamn you are one weak individual, Dipset. It's obvious you got played. You KNOW you got played. Yet you want to run back to the rat like it's all gravy. Grow a pair and find some booty, son. You disgust me.

Son, shawty is fine. I spent bread on her. No way, i'm axing shorty without yambs being had.

Y'all are right Dipset got played but he can get her back .....there is more than one way to skin a cat.

Alot guys drop out when they don't what they want at all but then there's the guys who get what they want

Exactly bro, i'ma get her. No dambs givin'. I'm not spendin' dough ona broad without getting something in return. Heck outta' here.
 
Gotdamn you are one weak individual, Dipset. It's obvious you got played. You KNOW you got played. Yet you want to run back to the rat like it's all gravy. Grow a pair and find some booty, son. You disgust me.

Son, shawty is fine. I spent bread on her. No way, i'm axing shorty without yambs being had.

Y'all are right Dipset got played but he can get her back .....there is more than one way to skin a cat.

Alot guys drop out when they don't what they want at all but then there's the guys who get what they want

Exactly bro, i'ma get her. No dambs givin'. I'm not spendin' dough ona broad without getting something in return. Heck outta' here.

But that's exactly what happened in your situation... :lol
 
Basically, when they know they can have you, they don't want you. You've been trying to progress with her and she senses that the choice is pretty much hers. They don't like choices, they like to worry about what they can do so you won't leave em or play em or do em dirty somehow.

Just fall back, all that deleting here from facebook is just making it worse. Makes you look hurt. Still giving her that choice in her mind. Be as friendly as you can when SHE calls or paths cross without showing any interest whatsoever, if you can manage that.
Real talk. You have to play it like the whole incident didn't bother you.
 
I dont even see her every day infact I see her maybe once or twice a week at most, we both in University full time and work on the weekends..... but she told me she feels "smothered"  im thinkin yo I don't even see you often...... Any of you dudes have this happen??

Yeah, and under any other circumstances it would have been a blessing but I had feelings for her and she didn't feel the same she just used me for sex.
 
Mind you, shorty said "Of course I would love to go on a second date, just let me know when."

birds are gonna tell you whatever you want to hear b, especially when they know that you don't know them and they can get away with it.
this was your first time meeting her too right? :{
just know if you get got again... shame on you
 
Son, shawty is fine. I spent bread on her. No way, i'm axing shorty without yambs being had.
Exactly bro, i'ma get her. No dambs givin'. I'm not spendin' dough ona broad without getting something in return. Heck outta' here.


You cool dip, you cool

Make a thread when this is all over.
 
I usually don't post these type of questions Im usually here posting about Jordans and other kicks in the other forums....



But I been dating this chick and things have been going great we got a real good connection, good conversation, great sex, everything is great..... recently there was one or two times where we had a little disagreement or dispute but I wouldn't say it was huge or like so so serious....


then she says she wants to "take a break" and like she wants to "throw away the title of boyfriend and girlfriend" and just be friends but shes making it out that we will eventually get back together she just wants her space
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tell her that during this break you realized that you guys have two different views of where you wanna take the relationship. tell her u realized that its not for you at the moment and you would like to just cut ties and be"friends". you sound like u have an opportunity(being in school and all) dont waste precious time trippin over a girl. funny how in time she realized how good a catch u were if shes missing you like that after u deleted her. females like that are no bueno, just play wit a ***** heart and ****. soon as some zack randolph dude comes along youll be taking another "break". get over those feelings now b4 they get deeper. good luck bro
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My mans said Zach Randolph tho.
 
Son, shawty is fine. I spent bread on her. No way, i'm axing shorty without yambs being had.
Exactly bro, i'ma get her. No dambs givin'. I'm not spendin' dough ona broad without getting something in return. Heck outta' here.

Dip man you just gotta take the L bruh :{
 
Don't take this too personally, but you mayyyyy have some chick in you. Normally, it's the dude asking for space, and the girl is catching feelings. You're in college man, move on and enjoy it!

If a chick wanted to be with a chick that would make her lezzy, clearly she's not lezzy and needs a dude.
 
Gotdamn you are one weak individual, Dipset. It's obvious you got played. You KNOW you got played. Yet you want to run back to the rat like it's all gravy. Grow a pair and find some booty, son. You disgust me.

Son, shawty is fine. I spent bread on her. No way, i'm axing shorty without yambs being had.

Y'all are right Dipset got played but he can get her back .....there is more than one way to skin a cat.

Alot guys drop out when they don't what they want at all but then there's the guys who get what they want

Exactly bro, i'ma get her. No dambs givin'. I'm not spendin' dough ona broad without getting something in return. Heck outta' here.

:lol That ego is gonna have you looking even more like a chump. Your intentions will be pure, but it's gonna come off as desperate, they don't like that. Only way to win is fall back. Either she fades into obscurity, good, or she comes back around trying to see what's up, also good. But let her reconnect, your dumb *** is moving on right now though. Take the L like a man. It's minor right now, only gets bigger if you pursue.
 
Yes, this happened to me. I was the fool and I kept trying to hit her up and patch things. She ended up dating another dude a month later, actually a "friend" of mine who lived closer to her than I did (I lived two hours away).

The SAME thing happened to my roommate this year. Know what I told him? Said, "DEAD her. She's only doing this break **** so she can eff you when she needs to be effed, and slowly wean herself off from the comfort you provide. If you hit her with a strong ultimatum you're either gonna get her back or she's gonna leave. If you let things continue now, she's just gonna leave. At least you have a chance this way."

After some coaching, dude followed my advice. Think they've been together for about 5 more months since that happened? TAKE THE ADVICE.
So that worked?
 
Yes, this happened to me. I was the fool and I kept trying to hit her up and patch things. She ended up dating another dude a month later, actually a "friend" of mine who lived closer to her than I did (I lived two hours away).

The SAME thing happened to my roommate this year. Know what I told him? Said, "DEAD her. She's only doing this break **** so she can eff you when she needs to be effed, and slowly wean herself off from the comfort you provide. If you hit her with a strong ultimatum you're either gonna get her back or she's gonna leave. If you let things continue now, she's just gonna leave. At least you have a chance this way."

After some coaching, dude followed my advice. Think they've been together for about 5 more months since that happened? TAKE THE ADVICE.
So that worked?


Sure, but you have to actually move on, not waste your time hatching a scheme to get her back. Actually be about you and keep it moving. If she doesn't, guess what? you're not even thinking about her anymore.
 
Sure, but you have to actually move on, not waste your time hatching a scheme to get her back. Actually be about you and keep it moving. If she doesn't, guess what? you're not even thinking about her anymore.

Exactly. Like I said, even if you just let things go her way, there's a 99% chance you're gonna lose her. If you give her the ultimatum/start moving on without letting her BS you, I'd say there's a 50% chance you'll get her back. I'd take the 50% vs the 1% any day. Regardless, you definitely need to be ready to move on, because who's to say she won't choose that other 50% and move on? Either way, you're better off hitting her with that second option and HAVING a chance. If she moves on, well, she did you a favor.
 
birds are gonna tell you whatever you want to hear b, especially when they know that you don't know them and they can get away with it.
this was your first time meeting her too right? :{
just know if you get got again... shame on you

Nah we've known each other 10 months prior. She holla'd at me. Tol' her friend to gimme her number.


You cool dip, you cool

Make a thread when this is all over.

I will 8)


Agreed, there is still time for redemption.

Get it poppin' and update us with your endeavors.

I will 8)


Dip man you just gotta take the L bruh :{

Nah son, bump that. Took shawty to Olive Garden, i'm not bout' that L life.


:lol That ego is gonna have you looking even more like a chump. Your intentions will be pure, but it's gonna come off as desperate, they don't like that. Only way to win is fall back. Either she fades into obscurity, good, or she comes back around trying to see what's up, also good. But let her reconnect, your dumb *** is moving on right now though. Take the L like a man. It's minor right now, only gets bigger if you pursue.

I hear you but ain't no other chicks I wanna smang like this one. If there is another ignore or just straight up rejection the it's over.
 
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Two more bits of information I forgot to tell y'all. She offered to drive for this date, but I declined and pulled out the 97' Toyota 4Runner. 8)

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Shawty hasn't been in a relationship since early 2011. Her last man was Puerto Rican. She says i'ma be her first Black man. :)

Oh and I asked her if she's speaking to anyone, and she said "Nah, i'm not."
 
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Like everyone else said, there is either:

1) Someone else she's already seeing, or

2) Someone else has sparked her interest who she has decided to invest time into. 

Most women, not all, but most, will never take a break with a guy unless there is another guy lined up. Even if you are boring, annoying, or a terrible boyfriend, she will put up with you and fake it even, up until the point there is that next guy. Having a guy there is like a sense of security, a void, for most females. 

Don't get played homie, detach now and dead everything. No drama, don't tell her you hate her, don't do anything emotional like block her off fb. Just cut her off completely in terms of communication but make sure you be nonchalant about it. I know it's hard to remove any emotional feelings from the situation but soon enough you will be able to take a step back and learn from it, or in other words, charge it to the game. 

Trust me, I've been there before and you will save yourself a lot of time and stress by cutting ties. 
 
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