Heartbreak Unappreciation

[36 ounces]

My.

Heart.

Has.

Turned.

To.

Ash.............

Flame on. Maybe it'll make me feel better.

 

[young1lex]

quit being such a nancy

 

[cragmatic]

I'm in the same boat as you... feels like it'll never mend

 

[needsomejays]

before you do get flamed, i'll give you some advice since i was in the same situation about 2 months ago, a lot of good advice was given to me by NT actually, but anyway, it'll get better, it really will, i was miserable for a while and i mean miserable, just keep yourself occupied, do NOT moap around in your misery, hang out with some friends, smile, laugh, do things that make YOU happy.

Like i said, its been a little over 2 months since my break up and im far from over my ex, but im over the whole situation if that makes sense

 

[thunderchunk69]

Originally Posted by 36 OUNCES

sorry to hear that

 

[henz0]

What happened exactly??

Listen to " Do you "

 

[webnerd06]

itll get better...
music + time

 

[cragmatic]

Originally Posted by needsomejays

before you do get flamed, i'll give you some advice since i was in the same situation about 2 months ago, a lot of good advice was given to me by NT actually, but anyway, it'll get better, it really will, i was miserable for a while and i mean miserable, just keep yourself occupied, do NOT moap around in your misery, hang out with some friends, smile, laugh, do things that make YOU happy.

Like i said, its been a little over 2 months since my break up and im far from over my ex, but im over the whole situation if that makes sense

Doesn't make sense to me

Its been 2 months for me as well... and I feel like I miss her more each day... I think though the hardest parts are falling asleep/waking up.. I always feel the absolute worst when I wake up, as soon as I get my day going i start to feel much better.

My weeks stay pretty occupied and I try to hang out with friends as much as I can, but theres only so much you can keep company.

 

[cedric ceballos 1995 lakers]

happens to us all at least once in our lives. i know this is nt and we all pull 10's and smash the baddest chicks but all of us have been where your at before and if we haven't yet we eventually will be at least once in our lifes.

 

[needsomejays]

Originally Posted by Cragmatic

Originally Posted by needsomejays

before you do get flamed, i'll give you some advice since i was in the same situation about 2 months ago, a lot of good advice was given to me by NT actually, but anyway, it'll get better, it really will, i was miserable for a while and i mean miserable, just keep yourself occupied, do NOT moap around in your misery, hang out with some friends, smile, laugh, do things that make YOU happy.

Like i said, its been a little over 2 months since my break up and im far from over my ex, but im over the whole situation if that makes sense

Doesn't make sense to me

Its been 2 months for me as well... and I feel like I miss her more each day... I think though the hardest parts are falling asleep/waking up.. I always feel the absolute worst when I wake up, as soon as I get my day going i start to feel much better.

My weeks stay pretty occupied and I try to hang out with friends as much as I can, but theres only so much you can keep company.

in a sense i mean that i love my ex and i always will and i miss her obviously, so thats why im not over her.
but at the same time, we arent together, nothing has changed, and its probably not going to, so thats why im over the fact we arent together anymore, if that makes more sense

 

[yen2dro3]

 

[chicksnkicks]

The only way you will get over it, is that you have to convince yourself your over it, if that makes sense.

You have to look forward to the future and ask yourself what good is it going to do for you if your depressed

Its for damn sure not gonna bring your girl back.  And trust me, if you act nonchalant about it, it'll make her want you

and it will make you get over it even faster.

 

[humpasaurus rex]

LOL, your first heatbreak. Happened to me when I was 16, I'm 24 now. I'm glad I had it young, ever since then I've had a brick wall up. No wonder why my relationships usually don't last long. IDC, most of the time I'm in it for the sex anyway. It'll get better with time. Summer's around the corner so man up and meet some new broads.

 

[soldierdre]

jus got off the same boat my brother. it is hard but all i can recommend is time and improve yourself! u can get any chick you want.....

 

[36 ounces]

Originally Posted by needsomejays

before you do get flamed, i'll give you some advice since i was in the same situation about 2 months ago, a lot of good advice was given to me by NT actually, but anyway, it'll get better, it really will, i was miserable for a while and i mean miserable, just keep yourself occupied, do NOT moap around in your misery, hang out with some friends, smile, laugh, do things that make YOU happy.

Like i said, its been a little over 2 months since my break up and im far from over my ex, but im over the whole situation if that makes sense

Thank you for the words of encouragement....

Originally Posted by henz0

What happened exactly??

Listen to " Do you "

Well, to make a long story short, my girl of a little over a year and a half just broke up with me. I mean we were going through some things lately, but I thought we would work them
like we always do. Granted, I haven't spoken to shortie since wednesday, but about 3 hours ago she shoots me a text:

"This isn't working anymore. Im sorry."

I'm like %!!.

I tried callin her cell like 10 times but she ain't havin it.

s' hurts...

 

[green rhino123]

i am sorry to hear you are in pain
i put myself in a position where it turned out a
beautiful, intelligent woman found interest in me
she is 21 and i am over a dozen years older...
she found out and changed her mo

i gotta hope that she just didn't like me period
otherwise i will remain very sad
this peter pan thing didn't work in my favor this time

ragardless, i am going to say a few things to her important to me
looking for nothing in return

"how can you just walk away from me when all i can do is watch you leave"

i have bad luck, a few years ago i lost the woman i shared 6 years with
and planned to marry
and I can't talk about that on here

 

[cragmatic]

needsomejays if you don't mind me askin, how long were you two together?

And yeah I get what your saying now.

 

[ninjallamafromhell]

Fill the break with hatred and anger.

 

[needsomejays]

Originally Posted by Cragmatic

needsomejays if you don't mind me askin, how long were you two together?

And yeah I get what your saying now.

just over 2 years

 

[maddenfan04]

And you call yourself a man?

 

[cragmatic]

I was just under 3 years. Did it end on good terms or badly? Thats whats eating at me so much. One day we were great, things were going well. Then the next day she flipped it all one me, and refuses to talk to me now.

I mean for 3 years she was my best friend, she knew that, and she said when we broke up we'd still be friends... which I know isn't going to come right away.. but still it just scares me that I may never hear from her again.

 

[epidemik the great]

Originally Posted by 36 OUNCES

Originally Posted by needsomejays

before you do get flamed, i'll give you some advice since i was in the same situation about 2 months ago, a lot of good advice was given to me by NT actually, but anyway, it'll get better, it really will, i was miserable for a while and i mean miserable, just keep yourself occupied, do NOT moap around in your misery, hang out with some friends, smile, laugh, do things that make YOU happy.

Like i said, its been a little over 2 months since my break up and im far from over my ex, but im over the whole situation if that makes sense

Thank you for the words of encouragement....

Originally Posted by henz0

What happened exactly??

Listen to " Do you "

Well, to make a long story short, my girl of a little over a year and a half just broke up with me. I mean we were going through some things lately, but I thought we would work them
like we always do. Granted, I haven't spoken to shortie since wednesday, but about 3 hours ago she shoots me a text:

"This isn't working anymore. Im sorry."

I'm like %!!.

I tried callin her cell like 10 times but she ain't havin it.

s' hurts...

so you've been dating her for over a year and a half and she decides to break it off through a text??? shorty cant even give u a reasonable explanation by talking to you??? let that bird fly

 

[needsomejays]

Originally Posted by Cragmatic

I was just under 3 years. Did it end on good terms or badly? Thats whats eating at me so much. One day we were great, things were going well. Then the next day she flipped it all one me, and refuses to talk to me now.

I mean for 3 years she was my best friend, she knew that, and she said when we broke up we'd still be friends... which I know isn't going to come right away.. but still it just scares me that I may never hear from her again.

ended pretty badly, but we talk still and i have seen her a few times recently, i cant say we are on the path to where we were before, or even to anything close to that. I will say this though, if she does talk to you again and you guys try to make things right, do NOT talk about why you broke up, do NOT talk about the negative things, only talk about what each of you can do to fix the situation. Also this can be for anybody in any arguement, try not to start a statement off using the word YOU, YOU always ______, YOU never ______, this will automatically get the other person defensive and it will NOT help you make any progress

 

[frische produkte]

Originally Posted by 36 OUNCES

Originally Posted by henz0

What happened exactly??

Listen to " Do you "

Well, to make a long story short, my girl of a little over a year and a half just broke up with me. I mean we were going through some things lately, but I thought we would work them
like we always do. Granted, I haven't spoken to shortie since wednesday, but about 3 hours ago she shoots me a text:

"This isn't working anymore. Im sorry."

I'm like %!!.

I tried callin her cell like 10 times but she ain't havin it.

s' hurts...

[color= rgb(255, 0, 0)] !+*!%%% ain't %$$$ man.[/color]

 

[cragmatic]

Yeah I hear ya on that one. We broke up once the first year we dated. I really cant remember how long we didn't talk for, but she ended up coming around. I know it was just around 2 months.

After the first few days of breaking up, I went to get my golf clubs back that I left at her place, and we talked for a bit, emotions were still running crazy high... but it came down to she felt like I had been taking her for granted, that I didn't make her a big part of my life, among other things which I wont get into. I'll admit in the winter I kind of become dead to the world, and or schedules conflicted. As stated earlier the night before we were fine, saw each other, and the next day things went to hell. It bothers me still that she never thought to talk to me about how she had been feeling, never gave us a chance to work on it.

Of course she hit me with the, "I'll always care about you and always love you, and I do want to be friends still." 2 Months later and she still can't talk to me. I'll tell you those, these 2 months have felt a lot longer. The only thing I can think of is she really is afraid we will fall back into things, and knows it'd be to hard to see/talk to me right now. Who knows.